Jhanvi and Adi Are having an affair

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prietyp

@prietyp

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Posted: 8 years ago

ok... I know everybody is bashing jhanvi to not get involved in Aditya's personal matters , but how can she not when she's having an affair with him ? An emotional affair . Here's is the wiki definition of emotional affair and I think they perfectly fit this category

The term often describes a bond between two people that mimics the closeness and emotional intimacy of a romantic relationship while never being physically consummated. An emotional affair is sometimes referred to as an affair of the heart. An emotional affair may emerge from a friendship, and progress toward greater levels of personal intimacy and attachment. What distinguishes an emotional affair from a friendship is the assumption of emotional roles between the two participants that mimic of those of an actual relationship - with regards to confiding personal information and turning to the other person during moments of vulnerability or need.

Jhanvi gets restless when she sees adi sad or in trouble,well she already loves him!

Adi confides in jhanvi, asks her Adive in very personal matters and even calls her in the middle of the night to talk to her- he called her to meet him earlier also when jhanvi refuses

He is already turning to her for all his problems - even bringing Kanu to office, beenis issue in the school, he took jhanvi with him

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Tacker_Holic

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Posted: 8 years ago

You are bang on with this post! 👏 I think their affair will always remain emotional. Jhanvi would like to be in a relationship with Adi but I am glad she has accepted that it will never happen because one he is married and he also doesnt love her yet.

I think you are right that the show is definitely trying to portray the "woh" as a support system to deal with Adi's problems and the connect he has with her and not his own wife. Later down the line a divorce may fall through and Jhanvi may marry him but I dont think that is the vision of the show. Who knows anything is possible in Indian Television?

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Darlyne

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Posted: 8 years ago

No Problem with Jahnvi's emotional affair with Adi or involving in his life. Problem is she falling in Nisha's trap and as per current story line creating more problems for Adi. As Nisha pretend to asking for forgiveness and family thought Adi is forcing Nisha, then coming back from half way to temple and seeing Adi and jahnvi together.

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Darlyne

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Tacker_Holic
You are bang on with this post! 👏 I think their affair will always remain emotional. Jhanvi would like to be in a relationship with Adi but I am glad she has accepted that it will never happen because one he is married and he also doesnt love her yet.
I think you are right that the show is definitely trying to portray the "woh" as a support system to deal with Adi's problems and the connect he has with her and not his own wife. Later down the line a divorce may fall through and Jhanvi may marry him but I dont think that is the vision of the show. Who knows anything is possible in Indian Television?

Now Nisha is creating so bad impression for Adi and Jahnvi. So now I do not see Jahnvi staying at Adi's place or working in same office without any relation. To move the story line forward Adi, Jahnvi, and Nisha will stay connected. This is only my thinking that there will be fake or real marriage of Adi and Jahnvi.

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KhatamKahani

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Posted: 8 years ago

My harsh criticism, as Darlyne said, is not her involvement with Adi, but her not heeding Adi's warnings and pleas to not fall into Nisha's trap.

After the fiasco of Nisha asking forgiveness from family. Adi tells her this was Nisha's plan all along. And Jhanvi even admits that perhaps he is right. Even more Adi asks whether she doesn't trust him, and she says there is no question of her ever not trusting him.

So even after all of this, Jhanvi, who allows that Adi may be absolutely correct about Nisha, is saying that she should attempt to try to change Nisha slowly.

This is heights of stupidity because he is telling you how cunning Nisha is and even more you just saw with your eyes example of how she used you for her own plan.

I'm okay if Jhanvi realizes this soon after the precap shown regarding Adi's fever. But she should realize it soon enough. Then if she is careful, aware of Nisha's attempts and is careful not to fall into Nisha's traps, I am fine.

I MO, Jhanvi should have learned to be careful and not trust Nisha after the forgiveness fiasco. And if precap is misleading and Jhanvi is a step ahead of Nisha, that would be even better. But even if she falls into Nisha's trap a second (third, actually) time, she should absolutely realize right then and there not to trust Nisha.

Edited by KhatamKahani - 8 years ago

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prietyp

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Posted: 8 years ago

I think since Jhanvi is blinded by her love and emotional connection towards adi, she is not thinking straight. She's grabbing every opportunity to "help" him and desperate to be close to him.

In her mind , she thinks she's helping him . But I think she wants to be with him , even at the cost of falling into nishas trap

People do lose their thinking ability in love and do crazy things

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FIZK6

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Posted: 8 years ago

Jhanvi sees everything in a positive light. she can't see bad in anybody. But she doesnt know either Adi or Jhanvi VERY well. She should stay out of their problems. But if she does then theres no story.

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FIZK6

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: prietyp
I think since Jhanvi is blinded by her love and emotional connection towards adi, she is not thinking straight. She's grabbing every opportunity to "help" him and desperate to be close to him.

In her mind , she thinks she's helping him . But I think she wants to be with him , even at the cost of falling into nishas trap

People do lose their thinking ability in love and do crazy things

In red, you're right. She wants to spend time with him but it only means heartbreak for her.

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FIZK6

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: KhatamKahani
My harsh criticism, as Darlyne said, is not her involvement with Adi, but her not heeding Adi's warnings and pleas to not fall into Nisha's trap.

After the fiasco of Nisha asking forgiveness from family. Adi tells her this was Nisha's plan all along. And Jhanvi even admits that perhaps he is right. Even more Adi asks whether she doesn't trust him, and she says there is no question of her ever not trusting him.

So even after all of this, Jhanvi, who allows that Adi may be absolutely correct about Nisha, is saying that she should attempt to try to change Nisha slowly.

This is heights of stupidity because he is telling you how cunning Nisha is and even more you just saw with your eyes example of how she used you for her own plan.

I'm okay if Jhanvi realizes this soon after the precap shown regarding Adi's fever. But she should realize it soon enough. Then if she is careful, aware of Nisha's attempts and is careful not to fall into Nisha's traps, I am fine.

I MO, Jhanvi should have learned to be careful and not trust Nisha after the forgiveness fiasco. And if precap is misleading and Jhanvi is a step ahead of Nisha, that would be even better. But even if she falls into Nisha's trap a second (third, actually) time, she should absolutely realize right then and there not to trust Nisha.

Liks 🤗Its been a long time.

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KhatamKahani

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: prietyp
I think since Jhanvi is blinded by her love and emotional connection towards adi, she is not thinking straight. She's grabbing every opportunity to "help" him and desperate to be close to him.

In her mind , she thinks she's helping him . But I think she wants to be with him , even at the cost of falling into nishas trap

People do lose their thinking ability in love and do crazy things

It's also her so she can have mahaan excuse and justification. She's doing it to prove she will not break a marriage and in some ways make up for her 'mistake'.

She is doing all this because she loved Adi, the very involvement due to that reason, though she is not doing anything wrong, is sketchy and morally ambiguous. So she doesn't refuse Nisha and gets involved with Nisha to make up for the above moral ambiguity, sketchiess--though again here too the reason is same, her love for Adi.

Her love for Adi makes her involved in his personal affairs and she helps him. And by that same thought, she feels she cannot refuse Nisha or else she will have to confront the grey moral area of her being so closely involved with Adi still.

She and Indian Television for obvious purposes need ro term her actions as Mahan, hence she is shown being fooled by Nisha before she catches on.

Edited by KhatamKahani - 8 years ago