tanaya has an attitude problem - Page 2

Originally posted by: Zubi2008

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Please do tell me that was joke. Or just tell me u r blinded by trish. cuz how on earth can rape ever compare to heartbreak is out of my comprehension? Heartbreaks happen to everyone, life moves on. U don kno love unless u had ur heartbroken. Everyone at a point had it or will have it. She found a great loving husband. Rape takes ur life away. U r scarred for life. It never goes away.

Trish seems quite selfish to me. Girl u think you were betrayed that's great. U cried now stop harassing her. U don want to talk to her thats great too. Stop acting like such a ** . Is it the hurt feelings that the guy u loved wanted ur sister not u? be happy u din't have 2 steal ur sisters love. So immature.

Forgiveness is a great trait and obviously trish is not a great person from any angle.

At one episode or 2 right when i start liking her she does something and goes down in my eyes again.

And oh yes!!!!!! Tanya is not suffering as much as Trish! Because Tanya only had a piece of self ripped away literally. She had her body invaved by a guy she can't stand then she got blamed for robbing her sister's love away. Even though he was going to leave anyways and it was he who married her not the other way around. Then she gets to blame herself everytime she sees her sister who she loves hurt and the guy she cares about hurt!

wahhh! those are not things to b hurt about ! those are fun!! Hurting is when a guy u kno for 2 days left u and told u didn't think u were worth it. and u ended up marrying a rich guy who loves u! My heart is breaking into million pieces already!!!!why din't i think of it before. talk about self centered.

Originally posted by: gp00

I would never ever say rape and anything else is comparable. I can say it has happened, and that it was dealt with.

Most women carry this for a long time, even a lifetime. Many don't and go on to lead honest, happy lives. What I am saying is that Tanya can start the healing process as it pertains to her rape. Kanaiya is in jail. She's with someone who takes care of her. Trish is going to feel pain day in and day out, everytime her husband touches her, everytime she sees her sister or Yuv. It's not so easy to just say "I've got to be mature and forgive." Mature about what exactly? Having your husband (or to-be) stolen from you? Ask millions of wives how understanding they were of such a thing, when they were abandoned by those they love and trust the most--life partners. And in this case, by the other person she loves, is loved by by, and who shared her happiness with her, Tanya. I think we can agree that while forgiveness may prove elusive, Trish will never forget.

BTW, why doesn't Tanya show some maturity, love and empathy for Trish and OPEN HER MOUTH and tell Trish the truth? Or has Tanya hardened a bit against Trish?

The way they the show portrayed rape is shocking. You don't get raped, suffer a few days, get married, and now have problems, not with your rape, but over things like a love triangle.
Honestly, if I watched the show starting today, I'd never know Tanya was raped. No one talks about it with her, noone is addressing her mental health or expressing concern about it. Noone is checking from her family (even Kul) about how she is. It's as if it never happened, even though we know better.

I'm not blinded by Trish. I like to look at things at the 30,000 foot level. Why was this done? Tanya was raped. Yuv felt like he wanted to wear Robin Hood's tights for a day, and with Yuv felt this was right. You know, Kul, for the family, right? Who should not have been involved in the way she was? Trishna. You absolutely cannot argue that. She is the only one of these 3 clowns who does not know the whys to help her understand.
What is the end result now? Unhappiness, no forgiveness likely (it's still been a month or so, right?). Who has gained or who has lost before and now? What loss will stay and dwell with whom the most?

It's not that I hate Tanya, I dislike her. She has like this obsessive compulsive thing of thinking "I caused pain" and she does NOTHING about it. And she keeps watching that pain. More than many things I value trust, respect, and the truth. Clear up the understandings and try to get your sister back, Tanya. Only you can. Trish has no idea what's going on. And if Yuv or her momma gold-digga keep her from telling Trish, tell them to piss off. You're not going to keep the up charade and have the hurt snowball. It's gone too far, now.

being a weak person is not as bad....the matter is what u do out of that weakness what are the motivations...what makes u weak or strong.......trishna is weak but self centered...all she wants is her happiness..... she was ready toleave her family for raj....... she was weak in love but she was just thinking about herself.....but tanya went to marry kahaniya (or what ever his name is.....) she was weak but she did it becoz she loved her family her ........ poor girl i wish her family was more understanding....she was hiding stuff coz she didnt want to hurt her family........she needed to standup for herself......but whatever she did was out of love...now the actions might not be right but motivation wasnt self centerd it was love of family.....and above all its past they need to move on with their lives

Originally posted by: anushe khan

being a weak person is not as bad....the matter is what u do out of that weakness what are the motivations...what makes u weak or strong.......trishna is weak but self centered...all she wants is her happiness..... she was ready toleave her family for raj....... she was weak in love but she was just thinking about herself.....but tanya went to marry kahaniya (or what ever his name is.....) she was weak but she did it becoz she loved her family her ........ poor girl i wish her family was more understanding....she was hiding stuff coz she didnt want to hurt her family........she needed to standup for herself......but whatever she did was out of love...now the actions might not be right but motivation wasnt self centerd it was love of family.....and above all its past they need to move on with their lives

Originally posted by: Zubi2008

👏👏👏 totally agree. completly agree. both r wrong. but i cant stress enough trish comes out to be the selfcentered insensitive one.

and i dont reallt think trish is weak. which makes the matter only worse.

Originally posted by: algebramulti

I agree with majority opinions...tanya is more of a victim from both sides (moral and physical) compared to trish...and considering tanya's weak personality...she did a lot of things to save her family reputation and her sister's future...i guess only wise people understand this POV (or people who truly care about their family😃)...trish is acting selfish (very self centered. I am still trying to think of an episode where she might've though about someone else other than herself for a split second) but she is also trying to move on...and i m sure one day trish will forgive tanya & when she finds out the truth and she will love and respect tanya even more...please don't compare tanya with trish as tanya had to loose a lot more than a mere heartbreak ( I feel like giving you a hug for that)...i believe trish+Yuvi love was always an infatuation...or puppy love (so did most of us)...and the real love will begin with their respective spouses....hope all of them have a happy married life.