Right or Wrong?

Hey guys what do you think about sid's reaction to bhumija's confession that she had been raped? Do you think he is wrong to act so awkward with her? If he decides to leave her i.e break his realtion with her is he justified in doing so?

Personally i think his reaction is normal, and that the poor boy is in a state of shock. You might argue and say that bhumija is the one is really suffering but that doesn't mean that Sid is affected by anyfing. I hope he doesn't leave her, but (and im not saying this is right) Sid did have certain expectations from his wife, and if bhumija keeps paniking everytime he goes near through no fault of his own, then sid is bound to get frustrated with her.

Reply back with your views!

i think his reaction is normal too, he needs sometime to digest what he just heard

Siddharths reaction is definitely not justified! do u guyz remember the numerous times bhoomija tried to tell him what had happened and he cooly said i dont want to know anything about the past, it doesnt matter,trying to be a saint! having said that now why is he creating such a fuss?? inspite of him saying that her past didnt matter to him, she still wrote that letter and tried to get to him, its just bad luck that the letter never made it. but even if she had never written a letter, she should still be fine, because he had claimed that no matter what her past is, he was fine with it.
i hate it when guyz try to act like a saint and all goody goody in the beginning and then later show their true colors....yes i am a guy too but i'm speaking against them. 😡😡😡

Originally posted by: arjun4u

Siddharths reaction is definitely not justified! do u guyz remember the numerous times bhoomija tried to tell him what had happened and he cooly said i dont want to know anything about the past, it doesnt matter,trying to be a saint! having said that now why is he creating such a fuss?? inspite of him saying that her past didnt matter to him, she still wrote that letter and tried to get to him, its just bad luck that the letter never made it. but even if she had never written a letter, she should still be fine, because he had claimed that no matter what her past is, he was fine with it.
i hate it when guyz try to act like a saint and all goody goody in the beginning and then later show their true colors....yes i am a guy too but i'm speaking against them. 😡😡😡

👏👏 Well said though I do have a different opinion. Wow! I didn't remember that part where Sid said he does not care about her past... must have missed it or forgotten it! 😆

I thought his reaction was completely normal though... plus he did not misbehave with Bhumija .... YET!😛 He is still unsure about his feelings regarding this matter..... I think we need to give him a little leeway. Of course if he turns into a monster, the sharkhood sisters will not spare him! 😛😆😆

Originally posted by: arjun4u

Siddharths reaction is definitely not justified! do u guyz remember the numerous times bhoomija tried to tell him what had happened and he cooly said i dont want to know anything about the past, it doesnt matter,trying to be a saint! having said that now why is he creating such a fuss?? inspite of him saying that her past didnt matter to him, she still wrote that letter and tried to get to him, its just bad luck that the letter never made it. but even if she had never written a letter, she should still be fine, because he had claimed that no matter what her past is, he was fine with it.
i hate it when guyz try to act like a saint and all goody goody in the beginning and then later show their true colors....yes i am a guy too but i'm speaking against them. 😡😡😡

I totally agree with u. Like he said before he did not care about Bhumija's past so he should not leave her because she did not try to hurt him or decieve him and it wasn't even her mistake everything was happened was bad fate. But his reaction is natural and I think he need little time to understand. But he should not leave him. If his love is true for Bhumija then he will accept her as she is. So it is kind of test of his love. But I know it will take little time. But not toooo loong time.

Originally posted by: arjun4u

Siddharths reaction is definitely not justified! do u guyz remember the numerous times bhoomija tried to tell him what had happened and he cooly said i dont want to know anything about the past, it doesnt matter,trying to be a saint! having said that now why is he creating such a fuss?? inspite of him saying that her past didnt matter to him, she still wrote that letter and tried to get to him, its just bad luck that the letter never made it. but even if she had never written a letter, she should still be fine, because he had claimed that no matter what her past is, he was fine with it.
i hate it when guyz try to act like a saint and all goody goody in the beginning and then later show their true colors....yes i am a guy too but i'm speaking against them. 😡😡😡

Totally agree!

i agree he should be shocked and stunned, i would be shocked if my wife told me something like that on our wedding night. but after the initial shock, he needs to realize that what he is going through right now is nothing compared to what she went through, it is not like she betrayed him or anything, she herself suffered tremendously. he should come through for her, support and help her forget the pain and humiliation of the rape with his unconditional love.


Also he should refresh his memory and remember what he had told her earlier..that he didnt care what happened in the past..and that he loved her the way she was.

this is his opportunity to be a real man and love her despite her past. 😊 😊

gosh i wish i could kill all the rapists, paedophiles,molesters etc etc etc 😡😡😡....i know, being a guy it doesnt suit me being so pro women and anti men, but i just hate these sexual predators. 👎🏼👎🏼

he is totally wrong...he should help her to come out of this horror thing which happened with her,she has already suffered so much...