this is exactly why this thread is
hope her marriage is successful and she come out of
her self-centric conviction that
she can get whatever she wants through
using means moral, immoral or whatever...
if you have followed my earlier posts
I did not want vishnu-meethi marriage to happen in the first place
but because that marriage happened, that should have made to worked out...
for giving them the right space which was not given by the
psychotic tiro of raghu-mukta-akash
by the same logic, even though I never wanted mukta-vishnu marriage happen
because it has happened they should work out it now...
but I am sure the self-centric mukta will spoil it because of her
false ego and narcissism...
@bold : The thing is, what did she did to get Vishnu was back was plain stupid and a high level of possessiveness. Agreed.
But when she heard of Vishnu Meethi marriage, she was in love with Vishnu at that time only. Had she been self centered, spoilt, egoistic and stuff she could've easily achieved Vishnu by threats and taunts and with help from her father. But she chose to remain silent wishing for Meethi to be happy.
Only after Vishnu proposed and saw her dreams getting shattered before her eyes and wrongly assumed that Meethi used her, did she react like that.
So I really dont know whether to term Mukta as self centric. If Vishnu and Meethi were really in love and she planned to separate them, then yes, egoistic, self centred, evil all gets applied.
But she knew Vishnu loves her. She knew Meethi loves Akash. She knew Akash loves Meethi. And in one episode she said that she saw what the results of sacrifice has been in this family, only pain for everyone(which is true to a certain extent.) and hence moved ahead to get back Vishnu.
Agreed the technique was wrong. But Mukta - self centered..is still a question mark.
again I think, you have missed some of my posts earlier...
o.k. let me make my take on this whole mess a little clearer
1. from the very first, I never wanted that stupid meethi-vishnu marriage to happen
2. but when that marriage happened, under whatever circumstances, I did support it for
the marriage to work out.
3. when meethi constantly ejected vishnu despite his every effort to make the marriage happen
I did not find any reason for that marriage to continue further
4. if mukta-raghu wanted that marriage to end up, certainly there are hundreds of better way
to facilitate that ... but what they did can be called blackmailing, psychotic, deceive and fraudulent
it might look otherwise (beautiful, moral and completely justified) if you so wish...
5. the way akash's character is narrated, I can never accept that criminal as a hero of the
main protagonist...especially at a time when crime and violence against women is so much
talked about...by any standard meethi was subjected to enough torture and physical abuse
by that criminal's family which was aptly facilitated by crimo-psycho king akash...
6. now that mukta-vishnu marriage has happened, I would again use my logic no. 2 listed above and
want them to work it out without any hiccups...
I hope I have made my stand clear on this saga
having wished mukta-vishnu luck, I am skeptical that
due to the hyper-possessiveness and narcissism of mukta
that marriage is slated to be soured if not complete break down...
The one thing I can infer from your post is that you take the institution of marriage to be a serious one and once someone is bound by it they have to give in their 100% to the marriage.
I do agree with this, but then my question was just that the basic foundation of getting bound in a marriage is the trust and faith you hold in your partner. Love defenitely will come in the future, otherwise none of the arranged marriages will ever work.
But in Vishnu Meethi, everything was a fiasco from the begining. Staging a drama of marriage, proposing to others few hours before marriage, then marrying someone because of kasams given, then making a mockery out of it by stating morals, not following the principles which were insisted earlier and eventually breaking up the marriage. The point is, this relationship has bought disgrace to the word marriage. If people can fake a marriage, what is holy about it? If people can break up with a single signature, what is holy about it? That is why even I fumed when Mukta staged a drama with Akash along with RPR.
Marriage is something beautiful and uttaran always portrayed it as something ugly, maybe except the veecha and rasya marriage.
And about your doubts of Mukta staying in the marriage because she is self centered..I made my point clear...gave out reasons why she may not be self centered, that's it. But well, we've to wait to see if the marriage's going to work.
Edited by sm123 - 11 years ago