Hey Folks,
Well firstly, I Quit watching uttaran when Icha married Vansh, that was end of uttaran for me and I never turned and looked at this show ever, not even a peep...
I just returned home for holidays and after watching Hobbit and all, was flipping channels and came across show only to see repeat of whole week...
Well, honestly was stunned seeing positive taps so just came to forum to see posts and went through first 20pages and it wasnt hard to figure that Vishnu is being hated or disliked a lot ...As usual i wont talk about females of this show.
Well, Ok so he choose to stay in a marriage only for his respect and his morals, makes him a weak guy? so far from what i read, looks like it took him for ever to confess his love for Mukta. Well so wasnt he weak then? (Again, I Remind, i am not a follower of show for years so i may be wrong here) . Well it happens that ppl are forced into marriage and they do say they will stick to it but wont be able to love their partner, and its not a must that one plans about loving or not loving their partners, in some cases of arrange marriages both ppl like each other instantly and start dreaming of each other before marriage which is preparing themselves to be in love, while in some cases the gal though told to believe in him and start feeling something for him, there are couples who would never expect to fall for each other even on marriage day ( as may be one of them had lost their love and was forced to marry someone else) but being and live with each other makes them understand completely and then they fall for each other, while some just live in a marriage without loving but for just plain respect for it ... My Point, Vishu was not wrong in saying he wont be able to love meethi at same time wont be able to let her go due to his morals, in this case its time which speaks for itself. when a gal who was in love with someone else is married to a new person and says she will stick to it for morals is considered a good daughter or devi and mind u ppl is rarely called Weak, why is a guy called weak and undeserving person for his ex only when there is switch of places from female to male? Just like a happily lovely married couple can fall out of love a unhappy and not so interested couple can fall in love as its nature , care ,respect and honesty which wins each others hearts and make them feel their previous love was not worth compared to present. Divorce is not a solution for everything, even if meethi had called for it, there is a duration of 6-12 months of time no newly married couple can get divorced unless they show them being abusive, overly possessive or mentally challenged.
I got confused with names like Ekadashi , etc etc etc but i am not interested in knowing as i wont be watching it for more than a day for sure, and it wasnt hard to figure that aakash was a bad guy who cheated meethi and she was married and divorced and all, and if they used him as Vishnu to meethi its pretty obvious to say Meethi and Vishnu was planned from day one, i mean the real one ... and they are obviously highlighting it by comparing them with veer-icha who had wow love story while i was watching ages ago... Pretty obvious Aakash will bring Vishnu and Meethi close and i just hope they dont show poor audience another taps in Mukta. unless Ut got strong fan following for Meethi and Aakash they wont give that couple a chance and more over, this shows USP is Icha/Meethi suffering all their life, if Aakash comes back and meethi walks happily with him and after a bit of torture from him is like happy is not how Cvs of this epic show use brain, no way, a gal has to be height of Mahan and another height of Despo. they simply ruin image of women in this show,
So I made this post only to say, just caz a guy says he respects institute of marriage and want to stick to it even if he dont love his partner dont make him weak or Bashan dene wala insaan or some one who is insulting by saying he wont love back, it just indirectly shows that love can happen again in life where u dont have to hate ur partner and torture them like hell and then change to fall in love, love can happen anytime just unexpectedly. Some fall in love before living with them and some fall in love while living with them, its journey of which one to take.
Ps, for this who are very old in this forum, this is JustJ, akka Jaya (Ankit, Anmol, Charu, Arunima, Naina, Tiny, Batch, sorry i forgot many names) and it feels good to post on IF after a really long gap not just this forum alone ...
Love
J