DOTW ; Parents upbringing VS Grandparents upbring

Yipee am excited since for the 1st time am doing DOTW

Please excuse me the topic is lengthy and it is

I think lots of people in forum busy with being upset or analysing one word over the other...
if the person who brings up the child has good values him or herself it has a good chance of showing in the child...
too much love usually spoils, grandparents or parents...
and siblings who get same upbringing can go into different directions, no matter who raised them and how...matter of genetics or soul or ..???

I dont think grandparent's upbringing makes kids spoilt brats... It doesnt matter if its parents or grandparents... WRONG upbringing will make then go that way...

@Palma & Jatti; Thanks a lot for replying. Hope many will reply after this

my friend from school has stayed with her nana nani at home whereas her parents live in a town nearby.

She used to call her nana nani mummy papa, as she has stayed with them from the time she was a little kid. she is outgoing and smart, but she is v obedient at the same time, as in even to go to the market or to come and meet me(i stay a kilometre away from her place) she has to take permission from her grandparents.

Whereas if i see my example, i dont ask my parents when am gng to the market plus am a little brash and loud,

the difference is she has been raised in a strict old fasioned environment presumably and i am more of a free kinds though her manners may be mch more nicer than mine.

hope i made sense topic maker :)

Too much of pampering is bad, doesnt matter if its done by parents or by grandparents..but usually grandparents r too sweet to grandchildren! There is a reason why parents r called parents n every child needs them even if they have loving grandprents! I feel parents upbringing is v imp for childs growth as person, i have seen kids raiised by grandparents do well too with lot of freedom yet culture awareness so nothing against that if sum1 chooses that better! Yeah! agree in teens identity crisis happns to each differently n every1 has a story lolz doesnt matter what & how!! I didnt grewup with parents nor grandparents but im balanced enough to hold myself in teenage too! Seen friends who did not take responsibility for actions n were in trouble! In the end it all depends on the individuals personality too, doesnt matter what the circustances were growingup its the way every person handles things coz of their nature! Becoming brat or not once becoming a grownup cant b put on parents or grandparents l8r but ofcourse surroundings & situations will have an influence, just need to ownit up! But I believe parents upbringing is v vital in childhood which indirectly will give them lessons of life too!