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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

I dont know ji why Im old minded like that. I cant see such switching. Even for a couple I love...the guy was divorced a month and he fell in love with the real heroine...even though I loved that couple I felt really uncomfortable during their scenes but when they showed them romancing after a year leap I felt alright with it. I just feel bad if the timing is so less. I suppose in another few months I will be able to accpet ver and icha I may even be able to like them but right now I cant even watch them and its because of the timing. But honestly...dunno why im like that.

Originally posted by: rahulvaid001

Strange but sachhii😲

Originally posted by: ankit111

SRK jiii if only timing thn why Dewar Bhabhi jap everywhere???? whn u supported their love?? and i dont think u will ever support their relation. its not timing or tradition, its as simple tht u just dislike Ichha😆

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Yes...like the example from my other serial...that guy fought his entire family to be with the bad woman whom he loved then they romanced heaps then separated but within the month he started romancing the good girl and I just loved their couple but I felt bad during their scenes...all i could think was...OMG...was his previous love fake? was it soo weak that he can shift his feelings like this? how can we call both of them love? which one is true and which is fake? isnt true love meant to be once ina lifetime?.............all these thoughts run through my head and I was unable to appreciate the couple but when the leap came and they were shown romancing...I could fully accept it and I believe the same will happen here also. U may think I was doing a dhong just because I dont like ichha and veer but its not like that. This whole problem is rooted in the fact that I believe in love so deeply but can never seem to fully understand its rules. Perhaps as I get older I will change😊

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

more than old minded...you have certain beliefs which you have set in your mind...and you refuse to adapt to new changes....those beliefs are very rigid...but anything slightly contrary to your beliefs you think they are wrong...though they might not be....
ok let me give you an example.....you believe that there should be mourning period for widows like 7-8 months.....but do you think a women is a machine...start mourning.....7 months...stop mourning....no......remember 1 thing all your life....emotions cannot be timed....if they are timed that are not genuine....😊

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

I couldnt support Veer and Ichhas love right from day one because I never truly believed that ichha loved Veer..it looked to me as if she was just accepting his love for her. And yes they WERE devar and bhabhi no use denying it and I couldnt understand how after screaming at Veer and sending him to jail and crying hysterically and becoming numb for Vansh...in just 3 months her feelings could change sooo much. It made me very confused...again because I had begun to believe that she had fallen in love with Vansh. Ive never seen a devar bhabhi relation turning into love b4 marriage. I respect so many devar bhabhi relations and couldnt see this one being played with like that. I just couldnt get out of my head the vancha scenes.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

more than old minded...you have certain beliefs which you have set in your mind...and you refuse to adapt to new changes....those beliefs are very rigid...but anything slightly contrary to your beliefs you think they are wrong...though they might not be....
ok let me give you an example.....you believe that there should be mourning period for widows like 7-8 months.....but do you think a women is a machine...start mourning.....7 months...stop mourning....no......remember 1 thing all your life....emotions cannot be timed....if they are timed that are not genuine....😊

Originally posted by: rahulvaid001

Srk ji your example doesnt suit situation of uttaran...first veer loved only and only ichcha always in his life and he never even for one day loved tapsyaa...you wont deny that would you...so as far as veer goes it was always ichcha...he just maintained distance when she married vansh but could never take her out of his heart...and i dont think this is wrong...as far as ichcha goes...vansh was a majboori rishta for her which she tried to suceed just bcoz he was her husband...no love was there...koi maane yaa naa maane...mujhe nahi lagaa kabhi bhi...she was just trying to move ahead in life so that evrybdy's life becomes normal...but after vansh left her and veer took care for her...it is obvious naa she will feel for him...is it wrong to look in forward direction and not backward direction in life...aagey ki sochnaa chahiye and not past esp. when both were in a formal relation...i can bet anything veer and ichcha wud not leave each other for anything in life coz their relation started with love not majboori😳