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Posted: 15 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Rahul_Vaid

Ms Hima 123...you are not the first girl on this forum i am talking to but you are taking everything personally and seriously...just relax...why you people found that scene good..i thought your perspective was different..and you think your language is appropriate the way you are talking Mind your language ..and learn the decency to talk to a woman.Dont use this weapon to gain sympathy😆



even if I am the nth girl...you need to choose your words very carefully. The way you said that I "enjoy" certain scenes was suggestive of a specific kind of mentality that you were remarking in a nasty way.
On top of it, when I make it loud and clear that its absolutely indecent to talk in such a way....you tell me that I am using weapons to gain sympathy? Sympathy for saying "NO" to hearing certain kind of suggestive comments.Mr Vaid... I am strong enough to stand up against any kind of wrong attitudes- I always have and I always will.


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Posted: 15 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: hima_123



100% right about telling a woman that she enjoys specific "kind" of scenes?
So what are you doing now...supporting indecent talks to women!

he hasn't said any indecency 2 u or any oder prsn. we know rahul & he knows how 2 behave wid women👏.
he'd only said that if u also support such evilness or evil scenes then its ok 4 him as u urself said if sum1 like them its their choice. and now u r getting hurt even if sum1 simply quoted u & ask us that we support indecency 2 women. 1st go & check ur posts & lang & then comment on oder ppl's posts. and also go & readmy full post & not incomplete1.and do behave urself & mind ur lang & its tone & then go preaching oders!!😲😕😲
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: hima_123



even if I am the nth girl...you need to choose your words very carefully. The way you said that I "enjoy" certain scenes was suggestive of a specific kind of mentality that you were remarking in a nasty way.
On top of it, when I make it loud and clear that its absolutely indecent to talk in such a way....you tell me that I am using weapons to gain sympathy? Sympathy for saying "NO" to hearing certain kind of suggestive comments.Mr Vaid... I am strong enough to stand up against any kind of wrong attitudes- I always have and I always will.




If you are supporting you definitely enjoy that particular scene

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Posted: 15 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: Rahul_Vaid

ms hima 123 dont take things on a wrong path and try to deviate from the topic...hats off to you veeya fans really first you fill up the whole forum by those consummation talks and you whole veeya club goes like...woww i am watching it again and again and again...but when i told you to go and enjoy in ur veeya club you started taking a different path and trying to gain sympathy by saying all this nonsense😆



So you are justifying your remark !....I don't know what is your age...but if my younger brother had said such a thing to any woman.....He would have had it in a better way from me.



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Posted: 15 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: hima_123

Good topic. However...why adverse effect on teenagers...arent grown ups on this forum obsessed over loving/hating characters in this serial....arent they getting carried away.....don't grown ups who obsess over goodness or badness of characters have any other work to do...or to contribute to society..The responsible behavior should come from these grown ups first. Why are our dictates only for teenagers?

And some people here are pointing towards the negative effects of liking Tapsya...(people will start emulating her...etc etc)..... Its weird-because if society was governed by these two three serials or fan clubs should be banned (like Television Taliban)...!! I

How will Ichha followers feel if we gang up to blame them consistently for supporting doormat tendencies in women and thus encouraging exploitation of women in society.....and blame them for promoting low self esteem in women- just for liking Ichha.

How will Vansh followers feel if everytime they write anything for Vansh we slander them for supporting drug addicts in society...!!...and also for supporting killing anyone who they don't like...as if murdering people was the solution. And labeling them as supporting drug addicts and murderers.

I mean most of the characters they show on TV are retards...and following anyone of them as a whole will be as stupid as hell.No sane mind..or for that matter...not even fans emulate them as a whole. But fans look at just one dimesion of their character...interpret the charcater in their own positive way...and live a normal life.....please let them live and express themselves!!

What is the point building these moral brigades and panchayats for harassing youngsters for whatever they choose to like...!! Why do people form their panchayats ...give excuses of saving society..and dictate these youngsters about what they should choose to write and express!

Its horrible the way these people have harassed Srk.... and still wouldn't stop telling her what she is supposed to like and what not. She is not emulating any bad thing..not promoting anything bad....she only likes a character for another trait-and not for the evilness in that character...Internet has enough masaala for anyone who is interested in being misguided than one harmless "Veeya Fan Club":..that people have ganged up against and are giving all kind of misconstrued logic while acting as Moral Science Commissioners!

Srk doesn't need to give explanations to people and people really need to stop giving "Panchayati Rulings" of right and wrong against her...coz what they are doing is called real life harassment....thats neither fictional, nor funny.

so ms...
will u plz see wat language r u using for a women?????????
a doormat,low self esteemed?
iccha has low self esteem den wat abt tapu?
self esteem lies in destroying others lives to settle down ur life as tapu did?
and abt vansh..............
dont the drug addicts have any right to reform and live?
should dey just b killed coz dey r not fit for ur so called self esteemed society?
Ig srk doesnt give explanations den why she created dat whole thread abt her realization dat she is not feeling good and is over obsessed etc?????
we never told her to do so?
wats ur take on all dis?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: hima_123



even if I am the nth girl...you need to choose your words very carefully. The way you said that I "enjoy" certain scenes was suggestive of a specific kind of mentality that you were remarking in a nasty way.
On top of it, when I make it loud and clear that its absolutely indecent to talk in such a way....you tell me that I am using weapons to gain sympathy? Sympathy for saying "NO" to hearing certain kind of suggestive comments.Mr Vaid... I am strong enough to stand up against any kind of wrong attitudes- I always have and I always will.


For the last time i am telling you i have a sister at home and two sisters on this forum, i very well know where to draw a line. if still you think i sugeested something wrong i can say sorry for womanhood sake though i know i was not saying anything wrong but you took it personally and reacted like i have committed a murder...why dont you just relax...have you come here to enjoy or fight????....have a heart....and what i beleived is that veeya fans looked at that scene from a different angle and found it really pure but i am so glad ki aaj sachai samne aayi that even you consider that scene as rape😆thank you mam aapne atleast sach toh bola😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tiny15

he hasn't said any indecency 2 u or any oder prsn. we know rahul & he knows how 2 behave wid women👏.

he'd only said that if u also support such evilness or evil scenes then its ok 4 him as u urself said if sum1 like them its their choice. and now u r getting hurt even if sum1 simply quoted u & ask us that we support indecency 2 women. 1st go & check ur posts & lang & then comment on oder ppl's posts. and also go & readmy full post & not incomplete1.and do behave urself & mind ur lang & its tone & then go preaching oders!!😲😕😲




My current post had nothing to do with enjoyment of any kind. If he brought this line un-necessarily "If you enjoy such scenes..."..it was with a clear intention of intimidating in a suggestive way. And if I say "Mind you language" at such a post-I am absolutely right.
Kindly don't lower your integrity while justifying remarks of such level.

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Posted: 15 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: Rahul_Vaid

For the last time i am telling you i have a sister at home and two sisters on this forum, i very well know where to draw a line. if still you think i sugeested something wrong i can say sorry for womanhood sake though i know i was not saying anything wrong but you took it personally and reacted like i have committed a murder...why dont you just relax...have you come here to enjoy or fight????....have a heart....and what i beleived is that veeya fans looked at that scene from a different angle and found it really pure but i am so glad ki aaj sachai samne aayi that even you consider that scene as rape😆thank you mam aapne atleast sach toh bola😊

rahul we know u very well and u dont need to prove urself to any1.............
but it needs to break ones shells and have a broader vision...........
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Posted: 15 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: hima_123



So you are justifying your remark !....I don't know what is your age...but if my younger brother had said such a thing to any woman.....He would have had it in a better way from me.



Beleive me if my elder sister would have supported a character like tapsya so damn despo i would have stopped calling her didi😡but i call you my didi and say sorry if you thought it was a personal remark😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: pooja83

so ms...
will u plz see wat language r u using for a women?????????
a doormat,low self esteemed?
iccha has low self esteem den wat abt tapu?
self esteem lies in destroying others lives to settle down ur life as tapu did?
and abt vansh..............
dont the drug addicts have any right to reform and live?
should dey just b killed coz dey r not fit for ur so called self esteemed society?
Ig srk doesnt give explanations den why she created dat whole thread abt her realization dat she is not feeling good and is over obsessed etc?????
we never told her to do so?
wats ur take on all dis?



Ms Pooja...the line is to illustrate that all charcaters are suffering from some disorders. You cannot equate someone talking in a nasty way to me...with me pointing out flaws in a fictional characters.

You show zero empathy for Srk when she was targeted...the way she was dealt with was canned harassment....she was constantly blamed for things she never did.

I can't understand your empathy for any charcter..if you choose to ignore harassment of any real life person of flesh and blood.




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