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sonia77

@sonia77

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Posted: 15 years ago

#51

Dear Arunima..i am well aware of the Indian culture and systems!!...i am from Delhi and i am often referred to by our staff as didi or bhabhi!!..and you rightly said its kindness and love which is a two way thing be it with anyone let alone a servants daughter!!....however it is highly unrealistic for a servants daughter to be given the same kind of upbringing as ones own child!!.........but nothing realistic has happened in these like shows..so why crib!!!.

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Rashi

@rashi85

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Posted: 15 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: arunima_luvdsky

well in indian culture ..specially in villages .......at lest in east India..young servants use to call their masters n their wives as Babuji..Pitaji n maji .even many servants used to call my Granpa as father as reverence

it is used to show to others that u consider young servants as almost yr sons n daughters..n love them

typical mindset of veeya fan 👎🏼..such a laughable topic 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆.......quality of the forum has degraded

agree with u arunima👏👏....totally agree...its such a sad topic ...as i wrote before it shows the mentality...🤢

in bombay tooo as i wrote..there r servants workin for years they call my cousins n elders like didi, badima and all....

by saying this it shows only blood relation means everythion n theres nuthin like humanity🤢

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Rashi

@rashi85

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: sonia77
Dear Arunima..i am well aware of the Indian culture and systems!!...i am from Delhi and i am often referred to by our staff as didi or bhabhi!!..and you rightly said its kindness and love which is a two way thing be it with anyone let alone a servants daughter!!....however it is highly unrealistic for a servants daughter to be given the same kind of upbringing as ones own child!!.........but nothing realistic has happened in these like shows..so why crib!!!.

i beg 2 differ... but in my family there is an upbringing....and none of us kids or cousins have ever felt jealous...!!!!! coz we knw the amount which they have done for the fmly !!!

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Rashi

@rashi85

Sparkler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#54

oh by the wayy pple..........did u read an article in Mid Day few days back

one old parsi couple......died and gave everything all the money n stuff to their servants coz they ahd taken complete care of them for so mnay years and now they cud educate their kid n everything.....

i so loved that..atleast it shows that is humanity!!

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Abhay Kumar

@abhay119

Navigator

Posted: 15 years ago

#55

No Tapu lover ever talk abt the Ichha father loss, but they always see wht Thakur gave to Ichha. will theses comfort compansate a father loss. if Damini wanted she cd send him jail and thn our Tapu Baba cd realise wht is father loss. i think Damini did AHSAN to Jogi and not he. ofcourse jogi greatness tht he realised his fault and doing whtever possible to buy his sin, but once again nothing can compansate the father loss. finally whts the result, Tapu Baba spoiled her own life with Ichha life. no body is happy in this serieal only due to one person. somebody is saying tht Veer was treated well by Dadaji and tht why he came out of jealousy. didnt they notice how much time Jogi tried to explaine Tapu, very lovingly? its depends on how u r taking ealder suggetion. jealousy is common in child, but in tht extent like Tapu is a mental disbalance. and in tht state of mind people is not in position to take anything positively. they need treatment. and thts wht we r recomending for Tapu Baba. but tht was also on certain extend. not her devilness reached in such a point tht she sd be kept away to save the people around her.

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Arunima

@arunima_LUIT

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: sonia77
Dear Arunima..i am well aware of the Indian culture and systems!!...i am from Delhi and i am often referred to by our staff as didi or bhabhi!!..and you rightly said its kindness and love which is a two way thing be it with anyone let alone a servants daughter!!....however it is highly unrealistic for a servants daughter to be given the same kind of upbringing as ones own child!!...
omg hav seen many ppl do it... its realistic for us ....kids r same all over god's gifts to us.....being a thakur's daughter or a servant's daughter ...thats my mindset
......but nothing realistic has happened in these like shows..so why crib!!!.

i strongly disagree .wen ur parents hav enough ..it is very gud hav they give same kind of upbringing as yr own kid..now wats wrong if ur father has enough to buy ur adopted sister same goodies as u wats the big deal......Jogi was never shown being partial to Ichcha..n ichcha used to work like a maid in the kitchen..wear simple clothes ..unlike the lavish lifestyle n clothes they showed for Tapasya😃😃😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

there r many families in India who adopt n raise kids inspite of having kids of their own

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_Invincible_

@_Invincible_

Rocker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: arunima_luvdsky

i strongly disagree .wen ur parents hav enough ..it is very gud hav they give same kind of upbringing as yr own kid..now wats wrong if ur father has enough to buy ur adopted sister same goodies as u wats the big deal......Jogi was never shown being partial to Ichcha..n ichcha used to work like a maid in the kitchen..wear simple clothes ..unlike the lavish lifestyle n clothes they showed for Tapasya😃😃😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

there r many families in India who adopt n raise kids inspite of having kids of their own

arunima dis is 4 u buddy..............🤗

very well said.............

to understand all dis every1 should have broader vision.........

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morel

@morel

Explorer

Posted: 15 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr
ichha received a new and good life right from when she entered thakur house. what had she not got? love...education...nice clothes...a new house...happiness...a whole family. it was tapu who suffered the most becuase of the jealousy that was never cured.

Wow what an explanation !!! But anyways I dont feel like arguing here. One suggestion though, when you get time, pls do watch Sandra Bullock's "The Blind Side" -- the true story based on a homeless and traumatized boy (Black Boy/African American) who became an All American football player and first round NFL draft pick with the help of a caring woman (White & Rich) and her family.

Edited by morel - 15 years ago

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morel

@morel

Explorer

Posted: 15 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: Prithika_C

jogi is to be blamed for what has happened not because he treated ichcha like his own daughter but as a responsible father jogi should have known that his decisions affect tappasya also tapasya was not yet ready to accept ichcha as her sister.tapasya gave to many hints to jogi and divya that she was insecure but they ignored her feelings.

<div></div>jogi was not wrong in doing his praayschit by giving ichcha all the happiness but indirectly he hurted tapasya a lot which made her feel lonely and unloved

Then why didnt TAPASYA let Ammo & Ichha go (I dont think you remember those episodes)??? Many times, Ammo and Ichhki were ready to leave the haveli. But it was Tapasya who was alone and needed Ichha everytime. (as if "Ichhiki" was a toy to her -- Jab tak man kare khelo, nahin to phek do)

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#60

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr
🤣 it would be a good experiment abhay ji, if u guys were put in this exact same situation. It would show you what we mean.

srk i agree that may b u feel jealousy but only if sum1s parents don't treat them equally. but here jogi gave preference 2 dracula though he also gave luv 2 iccha but his fatherly luv is only 4 dracula but she never understood it. and jogi always tried 2 explain her that he luvs her more but she chose 2 listen 2 her jealousy.

and jealousy doesn't mean attempting murder, snatching sum1's groom or instigating sum1 2 suicide.🤢🤢🤢

and i"ll give e.g from our family. we'd a maid who lived wid us & took care of us means me, my younger sis & bro. we gave her full freedom & sumtimes wen my parents'd gone 2 their work & if any guest came she prepared dem all delicacies on her own & wenever my parents wud cum she told dem abt all & also told dat she prepared gud meal on her own & even kept 4 the family.

now we've a maid who also stayed 4 nite at our place & she also sumtimes call my mother mummybut we never felt jealousy. and wenever we bring sumthing my mother always said give 2 her 2 & we always do it.and her niece also cums 2 us & my mother always treat her like she treated us in our childhood. as we know that shes treating her fairly & inspite of it we know she also luvs us a lot.

and by the way u always think abt dracula's position but u never put urself in iccha's shoes.plz try 2 follow wat u preach. atleast we r defending or saying wat we ourself practises.

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