VanSha Relationship Is Very Unique

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Mages I agree with each and every word of yours👏..and I hv written something similar in some other post that if we can keep Veer-Ichha factor out of our minds and see VanCha romance from a different angle then hands down their chemistry is terrific👍🏼...Mayb because Tina is extremely comfortable doing those romantic scenes with Rohit which was not the case with Nandish..and because its a husband-wife relationship..so that passion element is more here😉😛..

yup i have seen that post and to be honest i always see vansh-ichcha love story as a new love story taling out veer from the picture and tapwater in the hell....the chemistry between VanSha is very unique and also at times with emotional scenes they are very touching....i get tears too when i see their emotional scenes especially the scenes on the cliff when ichcha was taking out her outburst how she can't live without him.....and tina is really vey comfortable with rohit rather than nandish......yup because of husband-wife relationship the passion and intense element is more which i am happy because i never seen ichcha so passionate with veer and with vansh she just crosses all limits of passion....thank god rohit did not want the role of veer or else i would be hating like now how i am hating veer...a degrade character he has become....a puppet who dances the tunes of his evil wife.....thank god rohit is vansh and he is spared from tapwater clutches.... vansh is complex character but very unique sometimes he have this childlike attitute and nautiness in him especially wheh he is with his wife

In fact even their chemistry before marriage in the rehab center was very good 👏...its developing slowly..first Vansh used to address Ichha as "Teacherjee" during rehab-center days which showed that he started respecting her first which also proved that it was not really love at first sight for Vansh😳,..its not as if he got attracted towards her beauty and became obsessed for her😆..his affection for Ichha started with respect😳..then when Ichha started visiting rehab-center regularly..Vansh started seeing her as a good friend because she was the first person who understood his psychology and was ready to spend time with him despite his shortcomings👏😳...then after Paras's death,for the first time Vansh realised the value of life after seeing Ichha crying her heart out for Paras...So he started admiring Ichha as a person for whatever pain she took for Paras😳...then when Ichha stopped coming to rehab-center after she got shot by Sidh..we saw Vansh starting to miss Ichha for the first time because he din't hv any other friend or guide other than Ichha😳..thats the time when he realised that he is in love with Ichha and wants to spend his life with her...So if u analyse the complete VanCha story..u will see that there was no attraction or infatuation between them..it was actually deep love from the word go from Vansh's POV as he din't love Ichha on face value but loved her because of that beautiful inner heart and soul which Ichha possesses😳

yup i agree...in rehab centre the chemistry is very good and the story of vansh-ichcha is very good infact i will say even better than veer-ichcha...as its so touching....i don't believe in love at first sight concept....but i did like veer-ichcha relationship but vansh-ichcha is more of the matured side and more of husbnad-wife type of relationship i could realise it through their rehab centre scenes....what i love about vansh is that he never loved ichcha immediately when he sees her....he took time and firstly he gave immense respect to her...which is a beautiful phase of relationship and the first step on a relationship....then he got mesemerise by her inner soul...infact vansh loves her inner beauty than outer beauty....and also the fact that noone cared for him like what ichcha does for him...this all factor makes him love ichcha madly......he is very innocent....sometimes i feel so sad for him that he have to go through such hardship in life.....he is a very nice person and honest soul and any women can fall in love with him...which what have happened to ichcha after marriage...i hope she confess her love or he might think she even now pitying him only.....what i love vansh is that he is a very simple man and that simplicity touches the heart of ichcha....even in rehab centre i could see that somewhere ichcha was attracted towards him because the person he is......i will not say love as the veer factor was still there before marriage....but whenever she is with vansh she completely forgets about veer and gets attracted towards vansh....

i would say that ichcha loves vansh more than veer....because the way she stands up for vansh for once she never did for veer and thats what i call love....it was always veer who stands up for not once she did...but for vansh she is fighting all odds and even went to a extend of slapping tapwater and commiting suicide......if such things she have done when she was veer...i am sre veer-ichcha would be happily married...

but right now i don't even want veer with ichcha after seeing VeeYa disgusting suhaag raat.....i hate him for letting tapwater touches him passionately.....how disgusting and cheap

Whatever happened on that marriage night was unfortunate but can we really blame Vansh for not trusting Ichha fully today ??🤔..even a normal person will find extremely difficult to accept his wife's past with his own brother and here Vansh is not even fully normal but is on the way of recovery...but I loved the way in yesterday's episode Vansh opens his heart out to Ichha and tells her directly that yes he is insecure about her past with Veer...normally noone will share these insecurities with his own wife but Vansh yesterday shares it with Ichha which is again a proof that he trusts Ichha...but he doesn't trust his own destiny which has always given him pain and so whenever he hears about Veer-Ichha he feels that mayb Ichha married him out of pity and not because she loved him which is true somewhere...Even though Ichha now loves Vansh but we cannot deny the fact that she decided to marry him to save Tappu's marriage..so somewhere

Vansh's insecurities r justified😊...

yup a normal person too will have difficulty accepting his wife's past especially if its with own blooded relatives.....i can't blame vansh because the harship he went through and he got no love from anyone.....the insecurities is justified....because he loves ichcha way too much and for him she is everything to him..he fears that ichcha might leave him and go...and he won't be able to take it...as she was the first person who understood...cared for him and makes him realise the value of life and love....which his own family couldn't do because they shut him in the room....the trust factor will come graudually

He went to the cliff not becuase he din't trust Ichha..he went to the cliff becuase he was frustated with the fact that he was not Ichha's first love...He is not hating his brother..he is giving angry looks to Veer because he is hating the fact that Veer din't tell him the truth before his marriage...He is hating the fact that everyone in the house showed him pity ...Yes he has this suicidal tendency and so the family members had hidden the truth from him..but had those same family members tried to help Vansh to overcome his suicidal tendencies by telling him the real truth..then the situation would not hv been so complex and mayb eventually Vansh would hv married Ichha but after knowing the full truth...😊

he doesn't hate the jerk veer...but only angry with veer that he never told him the truth....he was heartbroken because the two person he loves the most is his brother and wife...and he felt both of them hides things from him....and also he feels guilty that he have married his brother's love....all this creates frustrations and anger in him....well its justified since the hardship he went through...he is a honest man...he expects everyone to be honest with him...yup he is hating the fact that everyone is pitying even ichcha too.....he is just heartbroken thats it....he doesn't want to loose ichcha in any cause because he loves her too much....even more than his life

Originally posted by: biryani

ya Mages i totally agree wid u

Originally posted by: matwamango

So true. The foundations are more important without substance you have nothing in a relationship. Its not all about attraction other things like understanding one another being a pillar of strength for one another is also needed.