Shivani first of all a round of applause for putting up this grt debate post👏👏...
In the serial Tappu's justification was wrong from the word go👎🏼..but when we try to go into the roots of Tappu's character and try to find out when,how and why it went all wrong..we might find out some logical reasons as far as Tappu's attitude towards Ichha is concerned...
When I look back to my childhood I realize that somewhere even I had commited many sins..I was the only child of my mom-dad..no wonder I was a pampered one and also a bit spoilt😆😳..So whenever my mom used to shower love on my Bua's son who was very young and lost his mother at an early age,I dunno why I used to feel extremely jealous and I remember once I tried to put blame on my bro by telling everyone that he stole all my chocolates which was not the case..I had hidden them somewhere😆...Its a very small incident but today when I look at Tappu and try to remember that incident of my childhood I realize..how m I different from Tapasya ??
In short we human beings hv both good as well as bad side of our personality..some humans expose the good side more and try to hide their bad side whereas some humans out of psychological disorders end up exposing their bad side to the world..but the reality is there is a Tapasya existing in all our minds...
When my mom-dad came to know that I had hidden the chocolate just to blame my cousin brother,my dad instead of punishing me,explained to me in a very matured tone that my mom is giving him love just because he has lost his mother and is very lonely sinse his father was in dubai that time..I remember my father kept explaining me about my brother's condition for over a month..and today he is very close to my heart..I never take any decision before consulting that brother of mine...today when I look back I guess I should thank my father for explaining me the plight of my brother at that point of time...😳
But in this serial,Jogi decides to punish her daughter by sending her to a boarding school which I think had the most adverse effect on Tapasya's mindset..At that point of time Tapasya needed a good counseller to explain to her about her wrong deeds..mayb Jogi or Divya could hv been that counseller...
So when I compare Tapasya's plight with my childhood days when I used to b jealous of my cousin brother..I guess I can relate to the situation..if that time my father had not explained to me ,who knows I would hv been another Tapasya today😆😕
Whatever Tapasya is doing today..is of course a sin which has no justification whatsoever..but if we go on to analyse the roots of all these sins we might realize the psychological disorder that Tapasya possesses sinse childhood where somewhere I will hold the parents responsible😊..today that psychological disorder has worsen so much that she can even go to the extent of killing someone..If it was treated at an early stage..damage could hv been controlled..but now its too late
