Well yes Ichha's love for Tappu is somewhat extreme and unrealistic as Tappu commited a crime of trying to kill her and still she can't see anything beyond Tappu😆😆..but I guess tomorrow if Padma turns as evil as Tappu..even then Jyoti will continue to sacrifice for her family😉😆..I m trying to say that main leads in almost all daily soaps hv more or less the same sacrificing mentality..latest example is Laali of Agle Janam mohe bitiya hee kijo ..who takes the blame of a murder to save her lover's mother who actually commited the murder of her own daughter😆😆...so again doing unnecessary sacrifice😡...😆..Ichhas,Jyotis,Laalis..r no different...CVs just try to project their main leads like sacrificing lambs..
what Laali had done is same what santu had done in Bandini..so you are absolutely right