Should we applaud damini ???

I noticed a couple of posts in the forum which read otherwise....but Im extremely unhappy with damini--how could she let Icha ruin her life ....yes, Damin's dialogues were good -- "yeh dhoka hain thakur sab se, veer se" and to tappu, she says" aaj main apko icha ka uttaran deti hoon" , but it was time for action not for dialogues......OK, so, Icha forced Damini into making this dirty promise of not telling anyone that Tappu is the one in the ghunghat, but think practically , was keeping up the promise so impt if that promise was ruining ur daughter's life......I never admired damini as a mother , bcoz she has inculcated that loser mentality in iCha, she has always taught icha to sacrifice and let go off things which are rightfully hers and with this last act of damini --- she seems to be the worst mother one can have , sorry for the strong words -- but damini could have saved the situation.....

She tried , though i agree i blame damini for wat ever icha has become today ......