Is it possible to forgive ur husband's killer?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I mean Damini is just looking at the luxuries and opportunities her daughter is getting.. all her concern for tapasya is fake or else she would have tried to do something to help Tapasya out with her current emotional issues.
But for any person is it possible to not just forgive but face and live with ur husband's killer day in day out.. inspite of genuine mistake on the killer's part? Is it possible to overcome ur anger and interact with the person normally? How about just accepting monetary compensation and moving on in life? Isn't it unfair to the dead husband that his wife is literally playing house with his killer?
Ichha has not asked about her father even once..wasn't she expecting him to come home? As a daughter should Iccha feel bad about Damini's decision when she grows up and comes to know the truth?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i am not a regular view and miss episodes and don't get to read the updates as there are none...😭
but whatever i undertsand about the serial, damini realises that thaukur saab is a nice person at heeart and also understands that her daughter can never get te kind of upbringing as she will in thakur's house.
I think even with some humiliation, it is worth staying at thakur saab's house..When people say damini should move out...are they saying/meaning that her life outside thakur house will be any less humiliating....poverty and hunger humiliates you every day/minute....so even with the current state of affairs at thakur's house she is better off staying put, then leave on the name of some so-called self respect....
thats my opnion
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree Gullicricket!! Its a bit strange that Damini is living with her husband's killer. When she came to know that Jogi is behind her husband's accident, there was a whole episode shown on Damini giving a lecture to Jogi, but after that when Thakurain slipped from the stairs, Damini took her to the hospital and saved her life, I feel after doing this Damini should have left Jogi's Haveli!!!

But then I think how is the story going to move on?? I feel the creatives could have come up with something new like Damini leaving the Haveli and struggling while showing Tapasya's track in parallel, and how after the leap the two girls meet. Something new and fresh could have been shown!! The present track is kind of typical and predictable!! 😔

But still with the star cast's good acting, I really like this show 😃
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalgo

i am not a regular view and miss episodes and don't get to read the updates as there are none...😭

but whatever i undertsand about the serial, damini realises that thaukur saab is a nice person at heeart and also understands that her daughter can never get te kind of upbringing as she will in thakur's house.
I think even with some humiliation, it is worth staying at thakur saab's house..When people say damini should move out...are they saying/meaning that her life outside thakur house will be any less humiliating....poverty and hunger humiliates you every day/minute....so even with the current state of affairs at thakur's house she is better off staying put, then leave on the name of some so-called self respect....
thats my opnion

Moving out means moving back to the servant's quarters not entirely out of the haveli..this way she can keep her self respect..now her character comes off in a very bad light, staying in the haveli, letting Thakur father her daughter, why can't Damini cook and eat with iccha in her room..depend on Jogi for Iccha's education and toys, clothes that he might buy for her..don't try to get all luxuries and then roam ard with 'such-a-poor-soul' sad face.. these are small things that help u maintain ur conscience and inner character and gain respect.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Well…whatever happened was just the game of destiny…Thakur saab is a good man…not a killer by instinct…he made a terrible mistake and he is shown repenting it all the time…his heart is pure and wants to do everything for Ichcha like her father would have wanted…e.g. admitting her to the best school he can afford and giving her fatherly love….Besides, whatever he is doing Damini could dream of doing the same for Ichcha but could barely realize her dreams…giving her daughter a good environment for her to grow up…studying in a school where all her talents are appreciated…giving her the proper food and clothes is like a dream come true for any mother….hence, I personally think that Damini should forgive Thakur saab though his mistake created a void in their life yet he is doing everything possible to bridge the gap….

Thakur saab's love for Ichcha out of repentance is justified but he should not do this at the expense of his daughter's happiness…he is shown neglecting Tapasya while taking care of Ichcha which is not acceptable at all..after all she too is young and needs time to understand this change…Loving Ichcha doesn't mean he has to neglect Tapasya…he should bring up both of them without giving a chance to initiate sibling rivalry between the girls.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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yeah i dont get why damini is doing so :S

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