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radash

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Posted: 16 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: payalgarg
sad na radash,even whn we want to see such things iccha did not get the 50 lakhs even after winning it. bcoz this is the truth.they are illeterate.they buy lottery the most.but what if they win it?what if they have conquered their dreams?their poverty and illeteracy comes in the way of accessing it.tell me one thing had u been at nani's place had u whole heartily announced that icccha you have won 50 lakh's of rupees?u are no more a poor maid's daughter.congratulations! none of us wud have done that.maybe bcoz we want to see them like this only.at our feet.unki kya aukaat jo hamare barabar aa kar baithe?haina.that's why the show is more than real and has won the hearts of millions of people in a few months.bcoz public no more likes saas bahu artificial and unrelaistic jhagra nowadays.they want truth like balika vadhu,uttaran and ndtv imagine's jyoti

i agree 100%

logo ko koi aga aya to nahin achha lagta hain, rich people don't want to see poor people get anything. all that rich people want is "nakrani rakhna" because they can controll them or get their work do. I don't think anyone would have announce that here iccha you have 50 lakh rupees, How sad it is that people in sociaty don't like someone do better then them. This is why i like the show that if not slum but in havaly they still show the reallity of maid, notice damini's and iccha's way of living has not change, just because they live in big house they don't behave being rich, it is nani who behave like spoil brat even though she has nothing and still behaves like lady of the house. And thank god we moved on from saas bahu drama to realistic show,

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Posted: 16 years ago

#22

thanks radash for agreeing with me

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gullicricket

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Posted: 16 years ago

#23

Hey Payal lets not fight ok.. we just have 2 different view points .. doesn't that make the discussion more interesting? Try not getting too hostile.. dunno about u but Im here to pass some time and enjoy other viewpoints.. I wud prefer not learning my lessons from TV shows 😊

About the lottery I think it was pretty dumb of Iccha and Damini to trust Maasiji of all the people in the house.. don't need literacy for that just some common sense. Also I think u r getting it all wrong, I don't want to see people like Damini suffering all their lives, infact I've always said she shud demand a huge monetary compensation, a decent job in one of Jogi's factories(there are lot of unskilled jobs for uneducated people too).. the life and disrespect she and her daughter are getting is because of her decision to stay in Tappu's house.. probably she is enjoying living in the big haveli or Jogi's fatherly affection for her daughter .. Im really not sure why. U can say Tappu's parents begged her to stay but thats no reason to make ur life miserable...unless u r in fact profting from it. Also my scraps from the past are proving true for our poor Tappu who is now getting kicked out of her own house.. tragic. Again, just my point of view Payal..chillllllllll 😊

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rgattu

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Posted: 16 years ago

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gullicricket - no offence but dont agree with what you write.

Damini slogs her butt off even in the haveli, just cos she is 'in there' now, its not like she is lazing about all the time. She is still doing a job - maybe getting paid in kind (as in Ichcha's education etc.). What is wrong with it? And if you remember one of the main reasons for staying back was to be Divya's support in her bad time. And if Jogi and Divya want to help out Ichcha - whats wrong? Damini wants the best for Ichcha, that which she can't give, every mother makes these sacrifices - and she is not SPONGING OFF.

Re Tapasya - she is spoilt, period. And in all this dont forget the mindset of 'nani' who is manipulating T for her own nefarious purposes.

I do admit that Jogi was a bit OTT cos of his guilt which kicked off the whole thing, but it is natural. When we were kids if my sis or me did something wrong and got majorly shouted at by some elder, than after some time they would be extra nice to make up and end up making the other sibling jealous, but in this serial this was like shown 100 times worse.

And please - in all this, Ichcha is the silent victim one way or the other and please remember she is a child.

I must admit though, I am shocked how many seem to agree with your view. And give importance to material things...

" People are made to be loved and things are made to be used. The confusion arises in the world when people are used and things are loved".

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payalgarg

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Posted: 16 years ago

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mr gullicricket as for the ticket,i think u can ask this question urself if you had announced the news to damini and icchha.thats the best way out

i think damini is leading the life in the house as a respectful supporter and not the maid anymore .the same difference a between a saarthi and a daas.the family wants her now to give good culture to tapasya which is an honour.as i said earlier a kid's mind is a plain paper.whatever u write on it is written.tapasya is going to boarding but not bcoz of icccha but bcoz of nani who converted a golden heart girl into a black hearted girl.whatever be the reason,a 9 year old kid is not that small that she wont understand something could have happened to iccha.when she separated iccha from damini she was more than happy,then why is she crying whn she is being separated from her parents to move to a safe place and not a jungle?it is bcoz she has developed an attitude in which u only feel ur grievances and are free to hurt others. and thanks to nani again,after doing such a big scam,she is not even embarrased or regretful.her only intention is that her parents shud forget her anyhow so that things can be as usual as ever.parents do have to take a strict decision to nurture their child's future.she is going to boarding bcoz divya and jogi care for their daughter's future.they want their daughter to learn to share her things with others rather than ordering everybody as her slave being jogi thakur's daughter.they want her to be a nice human being who can understand other's grievances as her own. they dont want their daughter to grow into a rich rad who thinks she can buy anything with money and can hurt anybody for fulfilling her dreams.its not all about iccha,its about tapasya and only tapasya the husband wife duo is thinking about.but as it is easy to put the blame on somebody,iccha is best as the bali ka bakra.

for ur earlier posts,i think ur the best person to judge urself

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Posted: 16 years ago

#26

mr gullicricket i am sorry but if somebody has made a good effort to change the mindset of people,i appreciate it. and will also fight if somebody abuses it.u can continue with ur interests and disinterests n i can understand that a tv show can never change the way u look at housemates.something dekh ke makkhi nigalna is more easier when the milk is tasty.right?

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payalgarg

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Posted: 16 years ago

#27

rgattu,i am glad to see a mature user in the blog.but its sad that the blog has a different viewpoint. to understand the flow of the blog,i request u to please go thru the earlier posts in the blog(especially the first one) and do comment about it

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Sania

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Posted: 16 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: gullicricket

This is one series where im just unable to connect with the main character Iccha. The makers are trying in every way to make us feel sorry for her but I don't. She is living in a good house, does no work, goes to school, plays with the best of toys.. there are so many kids in her situation who don't even get this much.. eg. her old school friends, her basti friends. From the first episode where she throws the birthday cake her friends get for her, then when she expects Tapasya to shop for her in the mall, the whole school track.

I feel a little sympathy for Damini but now after the whole bhashan that she gave jogi thakur she has forgotten everything and is living with her husband's murderer like its a no big deal. She is raising her daughter on his wealth not on what she is earning. Whats the use of crying in an episode or two.

The only person I feel sorry for in Uttaran is Tapasya. Her mother never tried to play with her or keep her occupied. A servant is literally bringing her up. Her best friend is an undereducated girl. And the jealousy she has started feeling is totally justified. I want to watch this serial but it just gets more and more annoying.

I TOTALLY TOTALLY TOTALLY AGREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!🤢

Now poor Tapasya is being sent to live in a hostel. Like its her fault. Sure she left Ichcha behind but I feel sorry that shes living in a house where her parents are showering their love on someone else.

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payalgarg

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Posted: 16 years ago

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SRKLovr,the only question i have for u is what wud have u done if ur kid had been jealous with someone to the extent of being after her life?i dont think tapasya is being sent to boarding bcoz of iccha but bcoz of her dear nani who converted the golden heart girl into a black hearted girl.no parents can tolerate that.the decision her parents have taken is cent percent right.she needs to be a good human being not a negative minded rich rad.it is for tapasya's betterment and not for iccha's favour.pls watch the episode again and understand the whole situation. and ofcouse its her fault.an out of bounds fault

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gullicricket

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Posted: 16 years ago

#30

Payal, If you think by sending Tappu to hostel she'll start appreciating Ichha and develop affection for her and Damini.. I don't even have a counter answer for this 😕. Maybe (0.001%) Jogi's decision was right but his timing was XTREMELY bad.

Now if u don't agree to this maybe u have some personal vendetta aginst me. 😆😆😆

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