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eljay

@eljay

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Posted: 15 years ago

#691

@Amara sir, this is where some more explanation is required. In our family, this athai's children and mama's children being murai paiyan and penn has been dropped, we are all brothers and sisters to one another. I guess I should have pointed this out earlier. So we all call each other akka, anna, etc., strictly based on age, even a difference of two months sometimes, and our children have been taught to go on the same principle. So we are able to take away some of the confusion. Howzzz that?

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@Meena.IF

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Posted: 15 years ago

#692

@Eljay,

I understood ur point so easily, coz it is the same way in our family too.. we dont make it as murai ponnu or muari paiyan.. we just call them anna, akka.. so i call my athai's daughter's hubby as athimber, and also my younger sister (chittapa ponnu)'s hubby as athimber(he is elder to me) though as per uncle's and most ppl's analysis my athai ponnu's hubby should be anna..

we dont see that "ur better half's murai ponnu or paiyan is like sister or brother." its never practised on our family.. and even while marrying i have seen certain ppl seeing what relation they become.. in our family, if they are distantly related, we dont see the murai.. its only for immediate cousins...

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@Meena.IF

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Posted: 15 years ago

#693

And i have to mention this here...

i learnt to find out these murai's from my schoold friends.. and i wasn't matured enought to see how it is taken in my family.. once in a temple i just saw my dad's dad talking to my mom side auntie's mom..

my aunt means my maami - maama's wife... maternal uncle.. my uncle and aunt were having a child by then..

my grand pa means my dad's dad..

so here it goes..

my grand pa had one athai's son, though not immediate cousin.. so i concluded if grandpa's athai paiyan it is like grandma' brother..

so mamaa to my dad...

and that maama had one daughter.. so it is like my dad's mama ponnu.. so my dad's murai ponnu..

so obviously sister to my mom.. and then sister to my maternal uncle too.. but they are married...

i told my mom, i have a doubt.. based on the relationship that was digged out of earth after such long time, "maama and maami should are brothers and sisters, since u and appa married..."

and guess wat i got? a tight slap and she asked to shut up.. and from then on i stopped doing such calculation...

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amara_50

@amara_50

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Posted: 15 years ago

#694

Friends!

My son Parthiban's wedding has been finalised. He is getting married on 27th August 2010 at Vijaya Mahal (opp. to Holy Angels Convent), Pondy Bazaar, T.Nagar. If any of you have any plan to visit Chennai, please make your trip during that time. Vaasalil varavaeRkak kaaththiruppaen.

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eljay

@eljay

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Posted: 15 years ago

#695

Congratulations, Amara Sir! Chennaikku andha samayathil vara paarkkiren, appadi vara mudiyavillai enraalum maanaseegama kalyaanathil serndhu koLLuven! Aahaa! Kalyana sweets ellaam imagine paNNi kondu irukkiren. Kalyana samayal saadam ...