Does it not remind you of KANK? - Page 4

Originally posted by: music_girl

Guys your views on TM's topic

Coming to the topic. I too hate normalization about EMA because it’s not about love it’s about cheating. It’s about hurting someone you promised to love. I accept falling out of love with your partner and falling in love with someone else but cheating is a big no no.

Miss awaamkijaan I do not want to publicly call out and humiliate anybody or u for any reason but today u have literally lost ur nuts. I mean I've noticed u favouring jasfa which is OK if u like them but today the reasons why fateh should be cheating Tejo and how him being infidel is legitamate according to u just Cauz u think Tejo is ugly, immoral, deceptive and deserves to be mistreated and humiliated .

I with utmost respect but with absolutely no remorse say this u woman need to get some help. I will personally book u an appointment if u need but it's cause of women like u that other women undergo mental sexual and physical harassment. As u think women are and should be inferior but please keep ur sick toxic views to ur self or I'll report ur account if u even dare humiliate another girl with ur uncivilized uncouth mentality and if u even then open another account and continue ur horrendous behavior ,I swear on maa ambe I will hunt u down each time u utter trash and keep giving it back to u until u civilize ur self ,and mind it I'm not somebody who believes in respecting everyone yes I'm courteous and polite but that doesn't mean I let people walk all over somebodies dignity. Respect is a two way process give and take. Treat people the way u want to be treated or else u will see a not so nice side of me and let me tell u as I can get pretty creative with curses and swears.

we all here come to have friendly banters and share our views by getting to know each other and becoming friends if you can plz be decent like the rest of us or just keep ur trap shut as such nonsense will not be tolerated.

Originally posted by: aahrita

dude..!! dafaq did i just read??!! 😕

please help..!! i cant decipher anything..!

Forget about it😊. I reported her . Let's just discuss about the topic of this post.

Originally posted by: hapc

Hmm and why do you think Jasso is so innocent? Like genuinely I haven’t read your previous point of view.

What is Jasmine's fault?

She broke her wedding with Fateh because he didn't tell that he lost his Canada job. Relationships are formed on trust. Hiding secrets like these are not good for anyone.

Basically Fateh was trying to trap Jasmine in marriage by not telling her the truth. She was right to call off the wedding to give time to Fateh and their relationship.

Currently Fateh is married with Tejo, but he still loves Jasmine and she loves him too. Who is coming in between? Tejo.

Originally posted by: masin

Intent - exactly that!

It was hard to sympathize with SRK and Rani because they could've easily asked for a divorce from their respective spouses before they decided to cheat. Sure, they were unhappy in their marriages and fell out of love. Sure, they fell in love with each other. It all made since even up until they took each other to bed. Divorce lete, phir yeh karte, then it's totally justified.

Falling out of love with a good person is difficult to compute, but it's very much possible. For all intents and purposes, Fateh didn't even fall in love with Tejo (a good person), but what he did to her is not excusable. Nahi pyaar ho raha tha, Jasmine ko nahi bhula pa rahe the? Cool. Then leave Tejo. Don't string her along as you try and figure out which spouse is more capable of bearing the responsibility of a manchild-like husband.

@bold KANK: 100% agree. They were in situations where cheating wasn't needed at all. Again the only time I'm "ok" with cheating is if the other spouse has already cheated (but not sought forgiveness) and/or abusive relationships (often its hard for spouses, esp wives, to leave the relationship). If you don't like ur spouse, ok, thats fine, life happens & people change, just divorce them!

@Bold Fateh: See this is where I'm a bit more in the middle (before the 2-3 recent episodes). Hear me out... lol.. I actually understand what Fateh was attempting to do with Tejo. He was trying to move on. Often when we're out of a nasty relationship, its easier to just be with someone new even if we're not really "feeling it" or you don't have the same feelings as you did with your ex. It's also really easy to sleep with people in order to forget your ex. Tejo was his rebound and sometimes rebounds work out to be great relationships and other times rebounds are failures. In this case, it didn't work because Fateh was never able to really cut Jasmine out.

However, in light of the whole thread engagement, hugging, attempted kiss with jasmine, vows of love etc., he's full on cheating on Tejo now and seems to be no longer interested in pursuing whatever he had with Tejo. And that is inexcusable. As soon as he realized that he wanted Jasmine again, he should have told Tejo right away. He's so ashamed that now he's being worse to her by making her think everything is fine & he's fully moved on yet still keeping Jasmine as his side piece.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

What is Jasmine's fault?

She broke her wedding with Fateh because he didn't tell that he lost his Canada job. Relationships are formed on trust. Hiding secrets like these are not good for anyone.

Basically Fateh was trying to trap Jasmine in marriage by not telling her the truth. She was right to call off the wedding to give time to Fateh and their relationship.

Currently Fateh is married with Tejo, but he still loves Jasmine and she loves him too. Who is coming in between? Tejo.

Jasmine breaking the marriage was completely justified. I had no problem with her doing that. But what excuse do you have for what she’s doing with Gippy? Is that not cheating? What excuse do you have for her having a problem with Fateh being happy in life when she broke the marriage for whatever reasons(imo pretty valid)? Fateh and Jasso were exes. Their relationship ended at the wedding day. I’m pretty sure most people who have exes do go on to have relationships with other people. Is that cheating? And is having a relationship with your ex while you are dating someone else not cheating? This isn’t a normal relationship but Fateh and Jasmine are still exes. I would normally blame the person in the relationship much more than the other but over here Jasmine is her sister. What excuse is there for Jasmine to use her sister to get back with her lover and play with her sister’s emotions? Tejo never played with Jasmine’s emotions like that. Why did Jasmine call Fateh her zidd? Why was she so desperate to have him as a ghulam? Why did 90% of her monologues speak about Fateh’s love and not hers?

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

Your reply has nothing to do with my post.

Tejo being a professor doesn't change the fact that she's a backstabber and cheater.

yes it does.

u r straight away attacking the actor playing tejo character.

where as we r talking abt the characters only..

u do understand that physical beauty holds no merit in front of personal achievement right??

it only takes a stylist to make u a beauty queen..!! but to achieve something, u gotta work ur as* off!!

Nobody, even the worst person on earth, deserves to be led on and cheated on. If it was Tejo also doing this on Fateh or Jasmine, I would have said she is wrong irrespective of how I find her right now. Fateh is cheating, whether he loved Jasmine before, doesn't love Tejo right now, whatever, cheating is and always will be unforgivable. Forget about the night they spent, lets assume it was just lust from both the sides, if Fateh had gone up to Tejo and said that he is still not sure and feels he maybe still loves Jasmine, I would have respected him for his honesty even if he went back to Jasmine and all this happened. Here he is aware of what he is doing, is actively hiding from Tejo, and is pretending to be the perfect husband to her while he cheats on her with her own sister. That is unforgivable and has no explanations. If his love and intentions are so pure, he should tell Tejo, the fact he is lying, shows he isn't as pure. I won't even talk about Jasmine here because she is just a selfish woman who has no love for anyone but herself, including her sister, so don't expect her to come clean, be pure and plus, she isn't the one cheating, she is just being her pure selfish self.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

Jasmine is not a cheater. Fateh and Tejo are. They had sex behind Jasmine's back. While I know that they are married, but Jasmine and Fateh's affair started way before his marriage with Tejo.

Tejo betrayed Jasmine by marrying her jiju. What happened to the code of "sisters before misters"? Tejo didn't respect the code so why should Jasmine respect it?

As for Fateh, he's a two timing jerk!!!

Sisters before misters and the sister code- Tejo told Jasso the elders are asking her to get married to Fateh and Jasso handed her the Chuda. She let the wedding happen and then did the whole Jiju jiju thing on the next day of the Pagphera. As to Tejo her dad collapsed in front of her. I’m pretty sure anyone worried about their dad getting a heart attack isn’t going to think about the sister code. As much as I respect these codes, relationships are much more complicated than these rules and emotions and people always take precedence over these codes.
Is Tejo somewhat responsible for this mess? I believe yes. But is she solely responsible? No.

I believe I said this on the last thread too but I’m still repeating it here. As to Jasmine.. I’ve replied about that separately.

I know she is sick I to just few minutes back posted a long post on her calling her out and that if she can't be civilized in putting forth her views better keep her trap shut. She is sick I threatened to report her .