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Maithili

@maithu_

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Posted: 7 years ago

#721

Originally posted by: Eatifi

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Maithili

@maithu_

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Posted: 7 years ago

#722

Originally posted by: Eatifi

So what if you went there with your family,???

Nothing dear!

Dont tell me that you were not missing your special someone,amidst all the tranquillity.😳

I'm angry on you that you know me well!😡
Yeah! I thought "If it's possible, we should go to these kind of places every weekend!"
And it's so not a big deal yaar! And it's just a wish, let's see what future has in store for me.😳

Yeah for starters its needed,but for pros its possible anywhere,anytime😉

Hehehe
I see a lot of pros, everyday, everywhere dear!😛
They are just pros yaar! No banging head or anything, straight to point!😳☺️

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Maithili

@maithu_

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Posted: 7 years ago

#723

Originally posted by: Eatifi

Oh god,Maithu.how come we both tend to think alike😳

Because we are crazy!

And love is everything in our dictionary! 😳

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Maithili

@maithu_

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Posted: 7 years ago

#724

@Eatifi

I'm also feeling great chatting with you all as I get to know what I did and what it's seen like.

Yeah! I will be starting my job from tomorrow, so that's the reason I thought to chat with you all up to today evening.

Let's see what these naughty questions can do! Hmmmhmmm

>> I have always seen men trying to be intimate and women shying away,especially before marriage.but in your case it was totally different.

I am not saying that women should held back their desires and I agree that even your man had his share for all the specified convos between you two.

My question is,was it just natural for you to behave this way or SURAJ WAS JUST TOO IRRESISTIBLE FOR YOU TO BEHAVE?

Finally there is someone who is agreeing on the fact that Mr. Perfect had his share on everything! And that he is not an innocent baby! ;-)

Well coming to your question, it think it's a combination of both: my nature and my hubby's power.

I'm a shy type but not tooo much, and the environment where I grew is like that only, so for me it's natural and the plus point here is I feel free with him.

No limits, no conditions, no differences between us, so I tend to be myself with him and sometimes I just get carried away by his irresistible lips, parfum,...

So you can conclude that it's both in their own way, mingling and making me go wild!

Oups!

I just got carried away here tooo with my explanation!

I'm getting a call from him!

Will reply soon to your other question!

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Maithili

@maithu_

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Posted: 7 years ago

#725

@Eatifi

Coming to your second question!

Well let me try to go back and see what I did!

>> I know you have answered it before as well,but tell me what you were actually up to,the night when Suraj was in your bedroom,had he wouldn't have held himself back?

That night, I felt bad when he stopped but understood what could have gone through his mind when he precipitated to go out of that place.

I saw his face turn red but the seriousness was there when he left.

All I know is that we will not go to that extent of intimacy with him being all goody goody and me being all shyyy shy.

Well I didn't shy a lot but yeah, I think even if he was ready, I would have stopped him as I don't want our special moment to be seen as a bad event or to be regretted in any of the future days. But a simple make out session of level 2 would have been not bad if I can say.

It will just make us feel more and more comfortable with each other and nothing else, so I don't see anything wrong in that and I would have felt to be his wife by 75%!

Don't you think so?

This got me to ask you all an interesting question!

What do you think about being close with the person you love, your would be husband before marriage? At what level?

If it's too personal, no need to answer!

And this question is for everyone who are here!

Thank you!

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Maithili

@maithu_

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Posted: 7 years ago

#726

Originally posted by: meshmesh
Hi Chakor,
Thank you for taking time to answer my questions.

I think if Suraj didn't have to go, you would've spent the night talking somewhere quiet. I don't think anything serious would've happened between you both because it was too soon and you haven't started missing each other. After you both went home, you would've talked on the phone.

I agree with Rabia, it's good that he left because if he found out that you were his boss' daughter before your love has taken control of him, he would've backed off and your love story would've taken longer to blossom, but I think you would've still ended up together because no one can resist love.

Hey!

I'm enjoying chatting with you all, so thank you to you all for taking time and answering!

Awww I like the last few words of your message "No one can resist love!" and I think it's so true.

I think that's what would have happened mostly! Getting to know each other if he stayed but the risk of getting my identity out was big! Thank god! It didn't happen!

Luckily he left that day and all went well and now everything is just perfect!

Thank you for replying!

See you soon!

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Maithili

@maithu_

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Posted: 7 years ago

#727

@meshmesh

Hello!

Interesting set of question! Instead of replying seperately, I will answer in a go!

Hope it's okay with you!

>> Do you think such a short time was enough to know that Suraj was the right man for you?

Now that you know Suraj better, is his personality the same as expected?

First of all there was no expectation bigger than love and respect, so he is still the same person I met on the first day on these matters.

Time is just a factor that get us to know more and more about the person we are with, and the reality of the person can be seen in his eyes or his actions or his words in just few seconds or minutes.

No one is a perfect actor, no one is a perfect person that's what my Papa says to me. So he is just perfect for me!😳

We just tend to trust people with what we see and learn and that's how our relationship started with the base: trust!

And I think nothing can break a relationship until trust and love is there, so in our case, we started with trust which blossomed as love, so it was more than enough time to know him and trust him with myself for the rest of my life.😊

One anecdote about him being the same is:

Yesterday, I was in kitchen and helping Maa by cutting vegetables, he came back from office and came to kitchen to see us after freshening up!

When he turned to my side, he smiled and I winked just like that and his face just turned red and his eyes travelled front and back from Maa to Me and Me too Maa when Maa was having her back to me since minutes.

I think this one example of yesterday event is enough to show you how much he is still the same Mumma's boy!😉

And I love him more and more with his this cuteness! Oh my Mr. Handsome!

Sorry!

I started to dream here itself!

Are my replies enough for your question?

Let me know that!

By the way I asked a question in one of previous post, if possible can you try to answer it!

Thank you!

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

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Posted: 7 years ago

#728

Its feeling really great to chat with someone bubbly like you,Chakor,,,,😃

A secret-even me and Mithu,are somewhat like you(dont tell her)😉

Coming to your question,

What do I think about being close to the person I love,or my future husband,and at what level?😛

Okay,I will be totally honest and truthful here...😳

Actually,this question is not for me.😛

In my community,and especially the way I have brought up and in my society,when the marriage is fixed,even phone conversations don't happen,forget meeting or being close.

Yeah,many couples do indulge in phone conversations,keeping it as a secret from elders..

Personally,in my case I really wish to meet him at least for once,(which seems impossible)😊

Edited by Eatifi - 7 years ago

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Maithili

@maithu_

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Posted: 7 years ago

#729

Originally posted by: Eatifi
Its feeling really great to chat with someone bubbly like you,Chakor,,,,😃
A secret-even me and Mithu,are somewhat like you(dont tell her)😉

Coming to your question,
What do I think about being close to the person I love,or my future husband,and at what level?😛

Okay,I will be totally honest and truthful here...😳
Actually,this question is not for me.😛
In my community,and especially the way I have brought up and in my society,when the marriage is fixed,even phone conversations don't happen,forget meeting or being close.
Yeah,many couples do indulge in phone conversations,keeping it as a secret from elders..
Personally,in my case I really wish to meet him at least for once,(which seems impossible)😊

Awww I too feel super good chatting with you all!

Okay okay all secrets are secrets only with this Chakor!

So no worries! ;-)

What are you saying?

You can't even see him!

I just wish for you that your wish comes true and you get to talk with him before marriage.

I thought that meeting the partner outside of elders surveillance was the only thing which was not allowed.

Thanks for sharing this information with me.

- Chakor

Edited by maithu_ - 7 years ago

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Maithili

@maithu_

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#730

Originally posted by: Eatifi
Its feeling really great to chat with someone bubbly like you,Chakor,,,,😃
A secret-even me and Mithu,are somewhat like you(dont tell her)😉

Coming to your question,
What do I think about being close to the person I love,or my future husband,and at what level?😛

Okay,I will be totally honest and truthful here...😳
Actually,this question is not for me.😛
In my community,and especially the way I have brought up and in my society,when the marriage is fixed,even phone conversations don't happen,forget meeting or being close.
Yeah,many couples do indulge in phone conversations,keeping it as a secret from elders..
Personally,in my case I really wish to meet him at least for once,(which seems impossible)😊

OMG!

What are you saying buddy!

I thought phone conversations were accepted and all.

And in my family, we get to meet the supposed person and interact with the person before deciding.

And you know what?

My uncle who got married 13 years ago, he got to talk with my aunt through phone calls after the engagement as he was in France and my aunt in India.

And I think if I get to give my last word to my parents, they will for sure leave me to communicate with him before I decide. 😳

And I really thought phone conversations are nothing but reading your post I feel like it is a biggy big thing LOL

Hope your wish comes true dear!

Let me know about it when it happens! 😉

- Maithili