Originally posted by: ghotalaz
Let me first tell u guyz... I was just writing down my analysis of what i felt after watching that episode. Whatever i said was strictly my pov. & i don't think there's anything wrong to write down what one feels. Who am i to come here after six months n tell u guyz were wrong. I wasn't even following this forum that time so how do i know what u guyz were discussing at that point of time or whether u all were agreeing on the same opinion or whatever. Really don't know what makes u feel i've started the discussion to prove anybody wrong. I thought everbody here is free to express their pov... Looks like the rules are different for new members here. If that's so then i guess i'll be happy continuing my silent reading rather than posting anything. After all i'm not here to hurt anybody or make anybody uncomfortable with my writing. I believe in spreading happiness n would never want to get involved in making anybody angry with my pov...if i've ever hurt anybody's feelings knowingly or unknowingly then i'm sorry 😳
Happy posting. God bless u all 😊
Since it was I who made a personal statement regarding your post, it's my duty to also explain to you why I did it.
It had nothing to do with the right of writing a different point of view than the majority of the forum. It is an open forum, after all! And I am myself a person who, most of the times, gives another interpretation of the events than the rest of the people. Then, how can I say something to someone who does the same thing!
But, let me tell you why I did write down the last sentence. It was an unwelcome personal remark to another personal remark that you made in your posts. You said something among these lines "... people got it wrong... they didn't watch the episodes... only the promos... but I did... I know how it happened...". Well, I found this very hurtful since I was the one who just explained in the posts above that scene, hence it was indirectly addressed to me. Why make such assumptions without knowing the person? How do you know that I didn't see the episodes and I am just talking for the sake of talking?
Let me tell you another thing. I am among the few members who actually followed the whole serial and I can't tell you how many times I had to narrate to people what happened in the past episodes, but I have never answered to someone with "you haven't watched the episodes that's why you got it all wrong". Why? Because this is personal and quite insulting. Maybe he doesn't have the time, maybe he wasn't paying attention, I don't know. Who am I to question him?
After I've spent some time in explaining to some people what happened in an episode which aired a long time ago, the next thing is to receive an answer with "people haven't watched the episode and they don't know..." Why would I have spent so much time writing about something that I don't know? Just with one accusation you were nullifying what I have tried so hard to explain.
But, please, don't feel bad and don't stop writing on the forum because of this small incident. I've read another post of yours and I know that you're good at finding new means at what's happening in the show. It will be a loss to the forum if you stop coming!
Only, just a small advice: you can start your post by saying" this is how I see it...", 'I have a different point of view..."," I believe..." And avoid making accusations like "people/you haven't done this or that", just speak generally. In this way you will avoid generating the defensive reaction of the person who is reading your post. Otherwise that person may step in order to defend himself. I am myself exercising with this attitude.
Again, please, don't leave the forum because of me and don't stop posting different points of view. They are most certainly welcome! I wrote what I wrote because I was under the impression that you believe that after discussing this show for so many months, people here still don't know what they say. That was all.