Taming the Shrew - Take 7: Success breeds success & jealousy too

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Taming the Shrew - Take 7: Success breeds success & jealousy too

Success breeds success and unfortunately jealousy too.

Rhea's success in today's episode was attributed to passion, hard work, talent, focus, and having great ideas by both Pakhi and Girish. However both of them (I mean Girish and Pakhi) failed to mention privilege and luck.

The advantages and head-start that Girish and Pakhi bestowed on Rhea actually led to her success. The initial advantage that she received was Lavanya granting her space to display her designs at the exhibition. Next advantage, was Girish nudging Lavanya's clients towards her by openly stating 'newer designer will be less expensive. These two initial advantages snowballed into Rhea getting 23 orders or success and achievement. In other words, with a little deliberate manipulation her initial success led to more success.

Rhea's success unfortunately gave rise to jealous feelings in Lavanya. It was humiliating to Lavanya that her client advised her to showcase Rhea's designs because her designs are old - in fact she literally asked Lavanya to move over and make way for young talent. I do not fault Lavanya for the twinge of envy - but that twinge of envy got fueled to jealousy because of Girish's role in promoting Rhea.

Lavanya's jealousy was a knee-jerk response because of the humiliation she was subject to as a result of Pakhi and Girish promoting Rhea.

Jealousy is destructive and Lavanya temporarily lost her sanity and publicly misbehaved with Girish. She then poured out her feelings to Anuja

Anuja as we all know is so consumed with hatred that she (most likely) put Ayaan's life in jeopardy. It is important to note how Lavanya's words triggered Anuja to behave hatefully towards Rhea and indirectly to PakhVeer.

Pakhi's and Girish's intentions were pure but Lavanya-n-Anuja's frame of mind is steeped in hatred and insecurity. So any success that PakhVeer celebrate will only increase their jealousy!

As always, please comment and share your views.




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well penned down ..

It was clear lavanya pouring so much venom to Pakhi was pure out of jealousy..She just disgraced pakhi just to claim she is superior than her...in reality Lavanya knows Pakhi is way better than her .Be it in taking care of Ayaan..Anshuman business..the Rathore mansion or being a housewife...she succeeds in everything..Now Riya forms part of Pakhi's family and she kinda got recognised for her designs...this added more fuel to her hatred towards Pakhi..

As the saying goes...Jealousy is a lack of self-confidence and its just another name for insecurity..

This applies so well for both Lavanya and Anuja..

Both are very insecure persons in contrast to Pakhi and Riya...This jealousy..oversmartness will be destructive for both in the end...
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Another insightful post. Anonee

Its always a pleasure to read you posts.

I completely agree with what you have said.

Anjua and Lavanya's jealousy will be there downfall because jealousy is a very destructive emotion that blinds a person from everything else and the longer it carries on the more corrosive it becomes.

But I have to say I am seeing some traits in Reha that are a little disturbing and if they are not checked now may become part of her character:

The sense of entitlement - many people have talent but if the person does not get an opportunity than that talent never reaches its full potential.

Lavenya allowed her to display her catelogue - did she thank you - No

Pakhi and Girish helped her get this opportunity - has she said thank you to Pakhi - No. Yes she did thank Girish but she has an ulterior motive for that.

Children who grow up feeling entitled never truly appreciate/value what they have and are not equipped to deal with failure. And in life there is always successes and failures

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Jealousy is a very bad thing. It can cause a person to commit crimes. Anuja is jealous of Pakhi and her hatred has escalated to such a level that it might cause her destruction.
Ayaan 's life is now in danger. Ayaan is clever but he is also very young and Anuja has managed to brain wash him once about getting Aryaman as his new dad so Anuja is again him to throw Rhea out of the house.

Surely Anuja has no claim to the house since the house belonged to Pakhi's late hsband so by law Pakhi is the rightful owner. Pakhi should throw her out. Anuja is a con woman, a devil in disguise. She probably does has a heart of stone. All traces of humanity has been erased from her memory. She is using an innocent child for her own selfish and evil deeds.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yes as always great post!!!
i was very obvious that both Lavanya and har mother suffer form a bad case of Jealousy. Lavanya being sidelined yesterday in her own exhibition had her lashing out at Paakhi, cause to lash out on Riya would be a bad move on her, not that what she did made her look like a saint. she publicly embarrassed her own self and tarnished er own image , while Paakhi walked out with her held held high.





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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: saveeta24

Well penned down ..


It was clear lavanya pouring so much venom to Pakhi was pure out of jealousy..She just disgraced pakhi just to claim she is superior than her...in reality Lavanya knows Pakhi is way better than her .Be it in taking care of Ayaan..Anshuman business..the Rathore mansion or being a housewife...she succeeds in everything..Now Riya forms part of Pakhi's family and she kinda got recognised for her designs...this added more fuel to her hatred towards Pakhi..

As the saying goes...Jealousy is a lack of self-confidence and its just another name for insecurity..

This applies so well for both Lavanya and Anuja..

Both are very insecure persons in contrast to Pakhi and Riya...This jealousy..oversmartness will be destructive for both in the end...


Thank you Saveeta. 😊

Your comment nicely highlight the negative effects of jealousy on Lavanya and Anuja.

Very true "Jealousy is a lack of self-confidence and its just another name for insecurity."
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: payal7

Another insightful post. Anonee


Its always a pleasure to read you posts.

I completely agree with what you have said.

Anjua and Lavanya's jealousy will be there downfall because jealousy is a very destructive emotion that blinds a person from everything else and the longer it carries on the more corrosive it becomes.

But I have to say I am seeing some traits in Reha that are a little disturbing and if they are not checked now may become part of her character:

The sense of entitlement - many people have talent but if the person does not get an opportunity than that talent never reaches its full potential.

Lavenya allowed her to display her catelogue - did she thank you - No

Pakhi and Girish helped her get this opportunity - has she said thank you to Pakhi - No. Yes she did thank Girish but she has an ulterior motive for that.

Children who grow up feeling entitled never truly appreciate/value what they have and are not equipped to deal with failure. And in life there is always successes and failures


Ah Payal - your comment on Rhea's lack of gratitude is truly perceptive 👏

You are correct Rhea has a strong feeling of entitlement and lacks simple manners. Does she not see and Ayaan say thank you and express his gratitude?

Rhea is one haughty (and hottie 😉) teen!

Right now she thinks she is on top of the world because Anuja-Lavanya need her and for similar and opposite reasons VeerPakhi-n-Ayaan need her, and if she can get Girish-Lavanya to fight may be she will get Girish to need her.

The giddiness that comes from thinking that one is on top of everyone else is making her ungrateful, rude, hateful, and down right petty.




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pamela01

Jealousy is a very bad thing. It can cause a person to commit crimes. Anuja is jealous of Pakhi and her hatred has escalated to such a level that it might cause her destruction.

Ayaan 's life is now in danger. Ayaan is clever but he is also very young and Anuja has managed to brain wash him once about getting Aryaman as his new dad so Anuja is again him to throw Rhea out of the house.

Surely Anuja has no claim to the house since the house belonged to Pakhi's late hsband so by law Pakhi is the rightful owner. Pakhi should throw her out. Anuja is a con woman, a devil in disguise. She probably does has a heart of stone. All traces of humanity has been erased from her memory. She is using an innocent child for her own selfish and evil deeds.


Thank you Pamela for the comment 😊

Yes, in trying to brain-wash Ayaan, Anuja is stooping very low. Each day she is getting more desperate and is trying more dangerous means to hurt PakhVeer.

Anuja's claim on Rathore wealth may be nebulous, may be she is a con woman - but until PakhVeer begin suspecting her and expose her they will have to put up with all her heinous deed!😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vinnie79

yes as always great post!!!
i was very obvious that both Lavanya and har mother suffer form a bad case of Jealousy. Lavanya being sidelined yesterday in her own exhibition had her lashing out at Paakhi, cause to lash out on Riya would be a bad move on her, not that what she did made her look like a saint. she publicly embarrassed her own self and tarnished er own image , while Paakhi walked out with her held held high.







Vinnie thank you - for the comment 😊

You raised a very important issue - and that is how Pakhi responded to Lavanya's fit of jealousy. 👏

All of us one time or another are faced with people like Lavanya. Pakhi here clearly showed - how to stay cool, calm, and maintain one's dignity when confronted with such a person. In the end, it was Lavanya who looked petty while Paakhi came out smelling like a rose!

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