Kaka and Malhar were not selfish ! Malhar was heavily betrayed. He was a good soul .Sampada inflict poison . Neelkanth hone ke bad Ma parvati ne Shiv ko breast feed kiya tha tab unka zeher amrit bana . Yaha vi us zeher ko amrit Kalyani ne banaya tha . She eliminated the poison from his system . Mata parvati ko vi toh kasht hua hoga vaise hi kalyani ko vi sehna pada dard . Toh malhar ko hum.benefit of doubt de sakte hai dolly . And kaka ka gussa vi jayes hai na....Unke vi kuch sapne the He really loved Anu and secured and stand supportive to her .He has always been a support . So in dono becharo ko maf kar dena chahiye . They are the innocent sufferers like us . But yes Baki gharwale bohot selfish hai....yeh bat toh bilkul sahi kaha tum ne. Hope i did not hurt u.Originally posted by: Dolly567890
Exactly di the point you have highl9ghted is valid. Even in anu's slit track by aswari they showed kalyanis fear of losing anu and she described dat dat she somehow made peace with her fathers death and could not afford to loose anu., and as you said her age is another important factor and she feels secured only with anu since both of them accepted each other without any obligations. malhar,kaka, AS and others have been selfish at one point or the other to kalyani but not anu.