The Love Triangle: Who Suffers The Most?

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Nabila

@Tomiko

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Posted: 16 years ago

Okay, so I'm not known for my discussion topics but this is one I've been itching to post since the mandir scene on Monday.

The current track revolves around the love-triangle between Yug-Vrinda-Raj and understandably, all of us YuVi fans are outraged that the Kreatives would even think of a pairing other than YuVi;

But really, who is suffering the most?

Raj who's married but doesn't have a wife?

Vrinda who's torn between her love - Yug - and her kind husband - Raj?

Or Yug who's just loved Vrinda and hasn't ever thought about anything else?

NB// This is simply a discussion thread - if you have any bashing to do then you're welcome tow the Gussa thread Gussa Thread 😃

Edited by Tomiko - 16 years ago

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Posted: 16 years ago

We suffer the most 😔

I don't really see RB's suffering because I just don't FEEL it and its not just because I hate him coming between YuVi but I just can't believe Ekta copied Suri to this extent. I fell in love with Suri after watching Rab Ne but this just takes the p***!

Ok I'm not answering the question. Its never easy to know who suffers most in these kind of situations. Yug tried to win Vrinda's love for so long and when she finally fell for him, she got married somewhere else. Rajbeer is apparently an innocent victim (at the moment I can't seem to talk positive about him) and Vrinda is still in love with her first love while she has a duty owed to her husband. I'd hate to be in her position!

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Neetu2825

@Neetu2825

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Posted: 16 years ago

I think Yug suffers the most. Before everyone starts assuming I'm saying this only because I like Yug the most...let me explain😆

Vrinda's suffering is great, yet on the whole she has a full life. Her family loves her because they are assuming that she has finally accepted RB as her husband. They love her for that and are bestowing unconditional love on her. Though she suffers (which I don't really buy because the creatives have done a really bad job at portraying Vrinda's love for Yug...I really don't see it anymore...), she is still comfortable in her life because she has found a "friend" in RB. She has someone to talk to...someone who listens to her advice and generally respects her. Someone she can go out to dinner with...ride on a motorcycle with...lol...you know, someone to spend time with overall.

RB suffers knowing that Vrinda loves Yug still but I still think that even he is surprised by Vrinda's unwavering devotion (just like the audience😆). She rarely ever mentions Yug so I don't think he ENTIRELY believes her. Yet, he does have a wife. If not in every sense then at least in the physical presence. A wife that takes care of his needs...his family's needs...someone he can talk to...take out to dinner...someone who brings him lunch...on the whole, a "friend". He loves her...and if nothing else, he can spend his day with her...in her presence. Not to mention he does have his "HEART" for company 😆😉....lol...okay, sorry...I got distracted there for a minute.

The main point is that RB & Vrinda both have someone there to comfort them.

Now, there is YUG: he spent the greater part of this show trying to win Vrinda...finally wins her...finds out her dad killed his father...is forced to distance himself due to the guilt he feels and obligation for his family. Realizes his mistake and comes back to her...only to be kicked out of the house and loses her to another guy.

He lives each day counting towards that 6 month period...while Vrinda and RB are busy with their family life (trying to solve RB's sister's love life...atttending weddings, etc.), Yug spends his day trying to distract himself with his work. Anything and everything to keep his mind off Vrinda when all he thinks about is her. Personally, I think this is more suffering...trying to live your life with "WHAT IF?"

What if he had arrived in time to stop the wedding...what if he had forced Vrinda to come with him by not agreeing to the 6 month thing...what if his grandfather had understood his love...what if there had been no enmity between the two families...WHAT IF?

ITS MUCH HARDER to live like this. Always wanting to be with someone and not being able to. Wanting to see that person and not being able to...wanting to talk to them and not being able to. Yug has suffered for falling in love with Vrinda. She crushed him further by leaving him at those Mandir steps and running behind RB. Even further, she didn't explain her reasons to him when he came to see her...she explained them to RB but not Yug? The guy she supposedly loves and a guy who is crazy about her.

Yug is suffering the most because he has to watch the girl he loves the most in this world slip through his fingers....he has to watch her choose RB over him. God forbid, but the day that happens...I think he will die. He will be torn apart...his heart in pieces. He has suffered the most...he is suffering the most...and he will suffer the most at the end.

Unless, Vrinda wakes up and chooses him.

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nishi

@nishi0904

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Posted: 16 years ago

i think we suffer the most and other than we fans i think its yug who is suffering

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Nabila

@Tomiko

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Posted: 16 years ago

Beautifully written Neetu!

I don't hate RB and I sort of get why Vrinda is doing what she does but I definitely for Yug the most.

RB and Vrinda at least have each other when they feel lonely - Yug has NO-ONE and Vrinda still expects him to be waiting there at the end while she tries to figure out if she'll stay with RB or leave him.

Monday's scene at the mandir was directed beautifully but I really, really loved Kunal's expression the most.

I don't know if I want YuVi to untie or for Yug to move on.

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Nikita

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Posted: 16 years ago

Nice debate!

I have to say I agree with Neetu view that Yug is suffering the most and i have to say he has been the one suffering the most from the beginning.

Vrinda is semi-happy because of Yug, I mean her family love her unconditionally now because of Yug, she has her father back because of Yug, Yug has given her a lot and she hasn't done much for him at all it has always been about her principles and values, If she wanted she could have not married RB, but she did, she has ruined her own life and RB life, who has to suffer.

I have nothing against him, and I think he deserves to happy but with someone else.

And all of this Yug has suffered because he loved her from the day they met and has loved her unconditionally since. He has given up so much for her, even forgave his fathers murderer. He is the one waiting these six months alone, he is the one that's been beaten up, he is the one that has to fight for what he wants, he is the one being ignored by Vrinda. If Vrinda wanted she could have the easy option and stay with RB and in the end it will be Yug that suffers. (Hoping she doesn't but the way her character is and what she did on monday its a high possibility)

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MonMad

@MonMad

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

Great post Neetu.... I too agree Yug is sufferring the most. I cant stand her being with RB, not that I do not like his character, but YuVi as a pair are out of the world.

Edited by MonMad - 16 years ago

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Sufia

@.x.Shilky.x.

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Posted: 16 years ago

I agree with Neetu view that Yug is suffering the most and i have to say he has been the one suffering the most from the beginning.

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shabana

@shab_rules

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Posted: 16 years ago

neetu, reading your post tears were spilling down my cheeks.

i looked at this topic yesterday, and was soo frustrated that i could not bring myself to put into words what i felt.

but reading your post you have described my feelings perfectly.

thankyou hunn👍🏼👏

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@Lamia17

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

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I agree with Neetu too!! Yug has been suffering the most. Vrinda..shes suffering too but for some reason I cant feel her suffering like the way i feel Yugs....and Rajbeer...i guess hes suffering too but its my Yug thats suffering more!!!

On the whole its all of us thats suffering!!! Yug...Vrinda...RB...us viewers...

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