Originally posted by: Divyaamurali
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Umashankar an epitome of sacrifice he has almost sacrificed everything in his life he has sacrificed all his happiness all his desires even his childhood happiness at very young innocent age he was made the head of the family he took over all the responsibilities of the toshniwal haveli .Umashankar grew up into perfect gentleman he is a religious person but man with golden heart his principles are different his lifestyle his thoughts the way he sees the world is totally different and unique he is bounded by dharm vachan and niyams he leads a discplined life he is teetotler he is man of value man of outstanding virture man of words but man of few words he never shares his feelings he does not have any sentiments he does not even no to show his emotions out he was taught that men should not cry at any cicumstances he values relationship and he carry out his responsibility perfecly, He is a perfectionist his character appears to be a chauvenist but when we understand the depth of his character we can find that he respects woman he was wrongly misguided by massisa.A mother is a first guru for her child that child follows only his moms teachings.Massisa has preached wrong dharam to him her teachings her influence in his life her wrong misguidance made him a strict dharmic follower Mainly umashankar is not an egoistic character he never hesitates to apologize admit his mistakes he regrets for it when he realizes his mistakes.We have almost travelled along with umashankar.Hatsoff to the cvs for showing us how slowly and steadily uma is changing they did not compromise for trps they did not show the sudden changes in umashankar it was a slow and beautiful but a steady changeover cvs drives point that any person can be changed out of true love.Love brings beautiful changes in one's life love brings meaning to life loves makes life beautiful. Now uma understood the value of true love the meaning of his life his kanak is his life he chose kanak his soulmate above all his vachan dharam and niyams..Right from first the forced marriage was the only issue only black mark in his character i was waiting to see how they will make uma to regret his mistake although he has apologized to kanak for imposing his decision on her but he never felt that a marriage or relationship cannot be forced both requires mutual consent .But now uma realized his big blunder of his life he understood love cannot be forced its a wonderful message by the cvs to the society its very much needed now I was very happy to see uma regretting his blunder he is feeling for behaving badly with kanak out of anger.Atlast he apologised and admitted his mistake of forcefully marrying kanak without her consent but somehow i felt that apology does not create any impact cvs rushed in that part they could have shown uma apology to kanak in a better way becos this is the ultimate big change in uma the transformation of uma character was brilliantly shown but this apology part which is the main part of showing uma redemption was lacking if they showed in a different way or different circumstances it could have been better it would have reached the viewrs it could have created some brownie points to uma character.Friends this is my personal opinion i would be glad if u share your views tooSorry for the long post but i just want to share my opinion with u all