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Posted: 8 years ago
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After watching so many spoilers I feel like Kanak moving fast and trying to push all her views into Uma's mind so fast
Why she is not giving space and trying to make attempts only when necessary

She should wait for moments and use them accordingly..

She should try to accept things which is not necessary wrong

Step-by-step

Will everyone be around angry, her attempts should be within their limits not exposed in front of others.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sneha_17

After watching so many spoilers I feel like Kanak moving fast and trying to push all her views into Uma's mind so fast

Why she is not giving space and trying to make attempts only when necessary

She should wait for moments and use them accordingly..

She should try to accept things which is not necessary wrong

Step-by-step

Will everyone be around angry, her attempts should be within their limits not exposed in front of others.



I think she is doing right.

The problem with Uma is not his Dharam more so how he interprets Dharam and it is totally biased towards male in some cases. Kanak intention is to make him look the same dharam in different point view and it need happen in each and every step of the way so that he will at least start thinking that some of his views may not be so optimally correct.

She is not opposing Uma and Uma's Dharam but his interpretation of Dharam.

It need to happen gradually not once in a while so that change will come.

We cant change our thinking in one single moment. It takes lot of time too to change our thought process and Kanak is also trying to change his thought process. So each and every step he is doing will be questioned by kanak so in few days or months Uma will do so same by himself.



That's my POV.

Please share what you think?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: manasa.123



I think she is doing right.

The problem with Uma is not his Dharam more so how he interprets Dharam and it is totally biased towards male in some cases. Kanak intention is to make him look the same dharam in different point view and it need happen in each and every step of the way so that he will at least start thinking that some of his views may not be so optimally correct.

She is not opposing Uma and Uma's Dharam but his interpretation of Dharam.

It need to happen gradually not once in a while so that change will come.

We cant change our thinking in one single moment. It takes lot of time too to change our thought process and Kanak is also trying to change his thought process. So each and every step he is doing will be questioned by kanak so in few days or months Uma will do so same by himself.



That's my POV.

Please share what you think?


Agreed.. still I think she should accept one or other thing from his views too right

It's again one sided..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes... Too fast and unnecessary points as well...
E.g. Name and making marks on umas marks...These are no way demeaning to any gal...

She should have taken up. Periods cause, working women issues. The actual issues affecting gals... Not some stupid name change and all...

If name change is the concern she should have asked her mother as well why she became Rathi...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sneha_17


Agreed.. still I think she should accept one or other thing from his views too right

It's again one sided..

@manasa is right, changes won't come all at once, but Kanak should point her different views whenever she considers could help. They have already concluded they are poles apart, if Uma tries to impose his views, why not Kanak?
Besides this, I think it's just our perception. Makers show us only significant moments for the track, not all normal moments in their life.
For now we have seen only promos, maybe when we'll watch the whole episodes the perception will change if lectures alternate with romance.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sneha_17


Agreed.. still I think she should accept one or other thing from his views too right

It's again one sided..


I agree with you Sneha that there is no point you trying to change something in others without you do that change in one self.

Like Gandhi said (from memory , sorry if it's wrong)
Be the change you want to see in the world or others.

That individual scene in temple (name change and walking in footsteps) is all looked perfect to me.

But Kanak also need to re assess that strategies that she using are working or not. There is no point she doing all this just vent out her views. Showing she actually started following footsteps before choosing to do otherwise shows that she is doing this strategically.

Again it's Uma's job to point out the faults in her views if there are any so that they can actually discuss and get a best of point of view that both agree.

As hindifan said I will wait and see what CV's actually going to show.



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