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Posted: 8 years ago
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well, from this episode.. kanak bags everything..including her smile.😊..good going lady.
well, Is she really a victim, or just an accident.??

From that one action of human violation from uma, indeed kanak bagged everything holding her esteem high as if she achieved something while, viewers community stuck 😭 symphatizing for her being a victim of forced marriage.

where is the pain,loss hurt ? if it was ...wouldn't she stood up for herself first? even before,gandhiji went out become father of nation, first he stood up for himself in south Africa. He made justices for himself FIRST.


To me, it looks like tsms is showing lot of new way to look at it

ex- new definition of 'victim" . 2) shatpatni dharma can be played as game ..etc.




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Posted: 8 years ago
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The way Uma married Kanak is wrong and no fact can change it

No one has any rights to force others

Uma used his forced and strength against a physical weak girl which can't be forgiven

But what Kanak did to get papers is not right too

Particularly giving the test is extreme foolishness
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Posted: 8 years ago
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What are you talking about?
She refused to marry him in front of the entire town of Ladno and what does he do? He picks her up and carries her through the pheras...while she is kicking, biting him, and screaming at the onlookers for help.

Even after the ceremony...she tells him she doesn't accept this forced marriage and runs...as far as I remember she was caught, gagged, tied with ropes and handed back over to Uma.

She was crying? How much more sorrow do you want her to express?

Still she held her ground and didn't enter his house. It was only absent mindedly that she entered the house when she caught a glimpse of Gabasa...the man she suspected of stealing the sweet shop.

She got herself out of getting branded.

She ran from her first Suhag Raat.

How much more do you want her to fight?

When she learned that Uma has valid papers to the shop she put her own feeling on the back burner to get the shop back any way she knew how.

In the process...she never hurt anyone (except for lying to Uma)...nor did she stoop to doing any task that was beneath her dignity.

To his credit...I have to say that although Uma forcibly married her, he did not force her to have physical relations with him...and that gave Kanak a huge...and I mean a huge sense of security and and advantage in this entire scenario.


I wouldn't feel completely sorry for Uma though. He is one smart cookie...and we know from spoilers that he has only given her 50% of the shop...so the game is not over yet. 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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my point was..when a victim get compromised and get whatever they want and moved on happily. do we still symphatize as victim? or not...im just asking.

Like sneha said, crime is a always a crime.whr there is absolutely no compromise.

sorry for going round in round..:(
about the kanaks fight- let it be new topic sometime to chat..:)



Edited by zazu123 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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kanak will be a victim.until.she accepts uma as her husband with full.heart and is happy to be his wife..until.then the relationship was forced on her...even if they divorse it wont erase the fact that she was married once without her consent...

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