Character Growth - Learning from Mistakes

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Posted: 8 years ago
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There is post after post defending or justifying UmaShankar. However, how can the story develop and more importantly the character of UmaShankar if his wrong isn't acknowledged? You can't marry anyone with force nor force them to remain married to you. For Uma's character to grow this realization has to take place. Dharam is there for the betterment of people not their oppression. His dharam does not in any event authorize him to marry anyone by force. When one follows blindly then they end up doing adharam in the cloak of dharam just like Yuddhistir, who ended up betting his wife and then could not defend her because he was following dass dharam. Both characters of Uma and Kanak have to grow and learn. Part of that will be tackling their forced relationship.

Also an arrest is not a conviction. So, just because he is charged doesn't mean he will be convicted. Let the makers show the track before judging. It maybe that a better UmaShankar emerges from the ashes of this one? He has a good heart. If so maybe this incident will only polish his character and help him evolve into a better person with a more complete understanding of dharam/adharam.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well put...this is what I'm waiting to see.

For Uma to develop and make better choices and for this relationship to develop as well, he has to see, accept and feel remorse for his wrong actions.

Right now Uma is on a dangerous and reckless path.

No-one ever holds him back, he thinks he's beyond man-made laws (which have been put in place for a reason) and no-one ever opposes him/questions him atleast until Kanak came.

Even politicians have advisers to guide and curb them. Yes there's maasisa but she herself is not impartial, she's cut from the same cloth as him.

Power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Anjana...
He knows he did wrong by marrying her forcefully...but he doesn't know the impact of his deed...yes he needs to realize it...and Pay...his repentance should start...I want to see him drinking chai coffee and eating onions and garlic...meena chachi can shower her love and toos toos ke make him eat...

US needs o question his dharm...cause not all in this new age goes against dharm...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Completely agree with you.
I personally think people defending Uma at all costs are blinded by fandom.

One thing I'd like to point out...

I think it is safe to say that as fans of this show...we all know that Uma-Kanak jodi is going to work out...and we all want it to also. The difference is in how we want to reach there. 😆

If this show has an excellent writing team as DABH did in the past...this show will also want to cater to the audience's intelligence, promote new ideas, and challenge the defects in our society's thinking that have become so prevalent that we have become used to them.

I personally can't wait to see the upcoming tracks. I mean something has to happen to open Uma's eyes and realize what he is and how he suffocates the people around him.


I remember when Ved and Vansh had that musical message implanted in the newspaper and Suman was dying to listen to it...her complaint...that we only get to listen to bhajans in this house. 😆

I wouldn't be surprised if Aditya ran away because of Uma's harsh rules.

In any case...this upcoming track is defintely necessary for the growth of his character.
Edited by Fatima_Q - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The joy of stories in serialised fiction format is being able to witness character growth in an incremental fashion. Without characters undertaking a learning journey they'd remain caricatures, stagnant and one-dimensional.

Uma Shankar

I am genuinely intrigued to see how Uma Shankar learns to be accountable for his actions by confronting real-world consequences. The current Uma Shankar does not feel accountable to anyone but his dharam - however since he is the one interpreting the dharam it means he's actually not accountable to anyone...! And that's a scary thought.

Yes Uma Shankar has a moral compass but it's a really skewed one and even worse he has no idea it's skewed. If he keeps blindly following that compass with the conviction that it is taking him to heaven, and if he is leading everyone else in his family down that same direction too, then one day there's a real possibility all of them may end up falling off a cliff instead!

Kanak

And that's where Kanak comes in. She is someone who feels very accountable about everything because she has lead a life where she has been blamed for her parents death by the one woman she wants love from - Bhabho. Even if Kanak knows she is not to blame on a rational level, it's possible that deep down she may have internalised that message. And hence she grows emotionally attached to people easily (Shiv, Uma's mother), displays empathy to even those who are acting against her (Payal), and when she feels guilty she goes to all sorts of crazy lengths to atone for it (alcohol prank leading to a prayschit that she herself knew was over-the-top but resolved to do nonetheless). So she sometimes takes accountability very seriously - which means she also holds Uma Shankar to those standards and that's why he keeps failing in her eyes.

Kanak too has a moral compass. And we are better able to identify with her moral compass because it's been manufactured in the modern world. Kanak has the ability to lead people, just like Uma Shankar does. It's just that right now none of the Toshniwals want to follow her there - she wants to tell them that menstural cycle is not taboo, a woman has every right to go wherever she pleases without an escort, a woman can fly planes and save the world, a doctor should treat all patients male and female equally etc. That's the direction the Toshniwals need to be steered in so they can progress rather than fall off a cliff. However Kanak needs to build the skillset that convinces them that they should follow her to that utopia rather than continue eking an existence in the stone age.

Road Ahead

So yeah we have someone who has no sense of real-world accountability and someone else who will overdo her accountability and possibly take on guilt to an extent greater than her original errors. Both people value relationships - but one holds those relationships to conditions and uses vague divine signs to figure out what to do (forced marriage), and the other has no conditions at all when it comes to the lengths she will to for her relationships (undertaking deception to gain back a loved one's treasure). One has to change his nature and the other has to learn how to do the right things she does in a manner that is effective without over-committing resources to the point of exhaustion.

That's how I envision their journeys going so far.

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