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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey there all the lovely people!!
Me didn't almost write anything today, but then weird posts happen instantly 😆


A wise person once said 'you have to give up on people not because you Don't care, but because they Don't -- no two humans can be alike, two thought process can't be alike, same goes the perspective... every picture/coin has two sides... it's how one understands, interprets and react depends on the individual. There is no right or wrong, it's just where one stands and how one perceive is what matters.
Kanak thinks that Payal is weak and cannot carry the weight of additional responsibility, Of being a mother to a child... Kanak perceived the whole scenario in a different way, which she named a bigger crime than marriage to a picture. That's Kanak perspective, as she thinks only she knows what pagal is going through and this is unfair to her. Kanak should understand that just because her thought process doesn't go along with Uma and his family doesn't mean they are outright wrong in every matter. Uma and family also have better interest for Payal, they gave her a child to rear, hers to call, hers to nurture as they themselves see that she shouldn't be deprived of being a mother. --- it's kinda double edged sword, as Payal is happy with her new motherhood, she has happily accepted it, had she any objections regarding it she would have talked her mother... but pagal has spread her roots more firmly in the family by being a mother to shiv. And when Payal is happy, her parents happy, Kanak should move on, instead of undermining her as a bechari nari who has to carry double weight, should start supporting her in being more effective mother/human.

Uma very clearly states that he listened to her, understood what she was trying to convey, but now how he perceived it and reacted to it is upto him... she has no control over his perception, in fact his thoughts are not influenced by humans but by dharm -- Uma couldn't have been clearer than this. It's a general lesson, every individual has their own perspective.
Kanak cries in front of him and he is affected by it, he steps closer to wipe her tears -- for a moment I thought Kanak would cry her heart out on her tormentor, and he would absorb her tears as holes in him. But that's me expecting too much.

Vansh comes in disguised as a lady to meet Kanak for Rakhi. Vansh is worried about Kanak living with such 'dharmic' people as they can do anything in name of dharm. Yes these people have their set of flaws, they are dharmic they lead a different life/alien life but that's their choice, their right to live their life as they want... Kanak asks Vansh a day more as she is about to get the shop, the shop for which she has done so much. In a sweet sibling moment also the shop had to in between like a bitter almond in sweet ladu.
And payals mother overheard Kanak's conversation with Vansh.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thx blues!!
First of all...i loved kanak n vansh scenes...they have an awesome bond...
I do think kanak was right about Payal facing injustices... Now she has an responsibility of a child too...ima could have let her go back to her home or got her remarried...Payal n her parents r happy because they r giving importance to only money ...
I think Payal is not fit to be shiv's mom ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thx blue...
Both are wrong and right at the same time...
Depending how we look at the situation...
Kanak is disappointed cause she was hoping for a new beginning for Payal...and instead off that she us given a new responsibility...at the other side why make a point if Payal is happy...

But isn't it stupid form Kanak to think Payal getting remarried in just one night...how would US find a groom...at the mandir doorstep...

US tried his best to give Payal a life as a mother...why he didn't consider getting her remarried...cause then he has to admit the death off a brother...at this moment he is only lost...

Liked Vansh efforts to get his sister rakhi...As a light momen...

I think Payal mom only told Payal that kanak is meeting a strange guy not her brother...and is after the shop...that is why US will challenge kanak...cause he feels betrayed b her...not for the shop...he already knows she wants it...


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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think payal's mom told uma that kanak meet some guy and they both r after the shop..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I completely agree with @Pinkcat and @Shali.
I don't think Kanak was entirely wrong in getting angry on Uma.

Uma and Kanak, they both have different POV. For Uma it is always abt dharam, even though sometimes those dharam rules can't and don't apply.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ola smurf, I liked sibling bonding today...

Regarding P, u are right, why help someone who cannot be helped, and everyone's perspective of right is different...I think that P shd not be given S's responsibility..that's my stand in this...she still does not understand the responsibility handed. Oh well...

K is right in her own stand being mahaan and all...

K needs to buck up her acting a bit more, the dialogues during today's showdown was good, but K needs to buck up acting...not sure why I started noticing it now..she cannot pull thru all scenes...oh well...cud be just me..

This whole week has been sooper fast and speedy, the 7 PM slot is doing its wonders I guess...

But if this becomes a household politics saga I am out of here, and there is only so much of dharmic saga I can take...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I always enjoy reading ur episode discussion almost daily...but it's shock me that if some one is obsessed with his dharma so much so that he make a girl married to a photo...then make her adopted mother of a little boy...then him self find a girl on road and marry her forcefully ...if someone is living this way ...is it justify to say that it's his right to live the way he want to live...what a justification...lol...what sort of dharma is this ...uma don't realising it that a human is design in a way that he has a need emotional as well as physical...it's natural to have love btw opp sex then ...feeling of bearing a child in her a great feeling for a women it completes her ...yeh kiya give her a ready made child...I know counter argument will be ...that see Payal is happy then it's fine...well Payal is wrong nd her parents are just heartless ...but this can't justify uma actions ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sometimes I think kanak is overreacting...payal ,shiv, payal's parents... everyone was happy except her...she can't decide what is right and what is wrong...she can give her opinion, it's Payal's decision what she wants . Anyways luv brother sister bond. Luv uma...he can't see kanak crying . Hate Payal's mom and that dumb payal 😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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All I didn't get was Kanak's anger on Uma's decision. Yes, what she said was right from her POV but can't she see that Payal is happy with this decision? Then what's the problem? And it's not like Uma is sending Payal and Shiv faraway so that Payal won't be able to raise him alone with no job or anything? The whole family is here to help her. Payal's nazuk kandhe won't be able to handle this responsibility? I don't get Kanak here!
And I think she was happy when she misunderstood that Payal is getting married again. Why was she happy then? Didn't she think that her parents or Uma was being too quick to get her married to another man so soon and so suddenly?
I really cannot get Kanak's thought process?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey thanks for the post

I understand kanaks anger and her outburst
I agree with her and also that I feel payal is not the right person for being shivs mom
And I was actually irritated with uma's dharam talk
But u explained it quiet well
But still not happy with uma

I loved when he moved closer to wipe her tear but it ended just there :(
They should have continued their convo
Well maybe cvs will take their time to build up their relationship once kanak returns (wishful thinking)
Loved ved kanak scene
And hated golu and chotu scene.. poor kid was in pain and crying don't know what golu is upto now

Btw m shocked uma didn't react to her breaking the mirror he was so calm and composed

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