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Hey there all the lovely people.
Me is back with an instant post episode 'Post'. 😉 is just like Maggie noodles twisted 😆
There is no guide book for life, there is good things bad things, everything is there in a certain amount. But everything happens by a decision, there is no such thing as perfection... life is a series of bad decisions, the mistakes one makes, the falls one has, the cuts and bruises one gets in the journey is life... it's easy to judge somebody on how bad a decision they make, but do they really deserve the judgment... its all about perspective, how long are you willing to go, to understand, to look at the bigger picture, but does anyone has the time to do so, read a page from someone's life and a decision is made about them. To err is human, to be stupid is human, to be ignorant is human, to be all understanding yet being unable to understand is human... humans do not have psychic powers to know what's in the mind of others, is their actions and words which define them, yet sometimes due to judgmental issues one over looks what's in front of them.
"Karyeshu Dasi, Karaneshu Manthri; Bhojeshu Mata, Shayaneshu Rambha, Roopeshu lakshmi, Kshamayeshu Dharitri, Shat dharmayukta, Kuladharma Pathni "-- this is the key element of their bond, the clash of the old with new, how they both fight for their stance, how they adapt and compromise, because a relationship cannot survive by being unbreakable or unbendable, a relationship has to have flexibility to make changes, accepts views that are different from yours.. Kanak and US are right By themselves, but their journey is to be right together. The respect they give to other for their ideas is still to be nurtured.
US very conveniently asks her to be the ideal dharm patni, he names the virtues one by one, and Kanak is reminded of their first meeting in Kerala, when he gave gyan to the couples on how a wife should be, and Kanak's response on how she perceive them, as a degrading treatment towards wife and women in general. US uses the leverage of taking back the three things if she fails in any task. --- the three things were for a situation when Kanak is left alone, or deserted by US, they were her security for such an event, but US has turned it into a kind of divorce settlement, that if the wife is leaving she needs to leave everything behind, a kind of prenup that couples sign to avert the gold digger situation.. anyways but that's just me.
US again helps her in her dilemma, when she ponders too much on the rumbha attribute, he gives her leeway to do any of the four task. It's like he is the boon and bane of her life, he troubles her and then helps himself.
Kanak again had the opportunity to tell him the truth, he said that you have lived with me, you know me, and my rules won't change for anyone, that moment of Kanak's indecisive dilemma could have somehow been utilized to atleast express some of her concern. He was angry, he expressed himself pretty well, by throwing her out of his life, and then giving a chance again. But he too could have asked the reason of her revolt, in an understanding way, instead of instigating her by reverse psychology. Kanak has a self talk with Kanak, who says why are you crushing your self respect, to which Kanak has an apt answer, that she made a mistake and she has to repent, and if US is right that doesn't mean she is wrong. Yes my dear, you both are right in your own ways, it's just a huge mountain of misunderstanding, that stands between you both, none of you want to over come it, as none of you realize the existence of it.
The BG today for Kanak was soul pinching, the caging of a bird, that was meant to fly... the one who dreamt about living her life in a way she wanted, that's almost all of us, then one fine day life happens and one gets stuck in a whirlwind of marriage and everything is left behind, at the doorstep of the house... as much it's the responsibility of the woman to stand up for herself, bring about the change in the people's mind, the same change she should go through, same lies with the husband that if he can take responsibility of getting married then he can take responsibility of her dreams too, he needs to understand the individual existence of wife, just by communicating and standing by her and fighting the same battles and giving space.
Now that I read what I wrote it looks insane. Apologies for the nonsense
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