kanaks reluctance to do the puja

taniks

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Posted: 8 years ago

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In today's episode Kanak says she don't regard herself as being married to uma so she can't sit in this prayer so I like to know why she does the ffg if she don't regard this as a marriage:

Share a bed with him , I am sure if she sleeps on the floor or on sofa he won't force her

Why use the sindoor? She uses that maang tikka I am sure nobody will notice if she doesn't wear the sindoor.

N the mungalsutra is always around her neck if she didn't accept this she won't be reluctant to wear it.

If it's for the shop papers then can tell him she needs time to accept this forced marriage isn't she living a lie everyday before the family and God already so it makes no sense when she's doing everything as a married woman all of a sudden don't want to be a hypocrite by doing da puja. I can't seem to make sense off this , please help me understand her reasoning

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Snoowfall

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Posted: 8 years ago

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I am trying to understand the same too..

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Isha

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Duh...indian serials...except more and more hypocrisy...

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taniks

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Posted: 8 years ago

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If I remember correctly { I could be wrong) sandhya slept on the floor until suraj put her on the bus to Jaipur now this girl never even thought if sleeping away from uma besides the first nite.

What is more confusing at the end if today's episode she allowed him to not only see most of her bare back when she tuned to get her dori from da nail but allowed him to take out the cut string and rethread a new one widout any protest. Although it was a great scene but a bit intimate for a person who doesn't accept him as her husband why allow him those liberties ?

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shanta

@shali

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Posted: 8 years ago

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If she didn't wear any off the symbols off a married woman, she wouldn't have entry to the household...it's in her best interest to hide her real motives behind those shingaars..

About accepting the marriage...well she didn't accepted it nor she considers him as her husband...he is just evil and every good that he might do or say...will be bad...never accepted...

Sharing a bed...why sleep on the floor when you could be comfortable in a bed...very simple...

Question should be: if US is the bad guy she think he is...why is she secure in his presence...why trust his word on not touching her...why would she belief him not hearing her video chat...cause she knows he doesn't lie...

Kanak needs to do some good thinking...cause she is contradicting herself..

Edited by shali - 8 years ago

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Hobby.bliss

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Posted: 8 years ago

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It was a pitter puja...Puja for our ancestors n those who r dead...after hearing this she got scared...as her parents r dead n she doesnt wants to continue this relationship as she feels she has been betrayed firstly by forced marriage n then bhabhos shop...so she doesnt wants to lie to her parents n thats y she doesnt wants to attend that puja...

About sleeping Uma had told her that she can sleep in the room he wont touch her...(mangalsutra,nareback etc).she is just moving towards agony of love ...

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taniks

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Posted: 8 years ago

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It was a pitter puja...Puja for our ancestors n those who r dead...after hearing this she got scared...as her parents r dead n she doesnt wants to continue this relationship as she feels she has been betrayed firstly by forced marriage n then bhabhos shop...so she doesnt wants to lie to her parents n thats y she doesnt wants to attend that puja...

About sleeping Uma had told her that she can sleep in the room he wont touch her...(mangalsutra,nareback etc).she is just moving towards agony of love ...

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The puja is for their ancestors blessings so why us she afraid? According to her dream or halcuination her father knows about the marriage and encouraged her to go back and get bhabo shop by hook it by crook. Yes I understand that all this scenes are leading to the pain of love after separation but for now shehates him and don't tryst him so why she allowing it to happen.

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farhin khan

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Kanak is not sandhya 4m whom we expect maturity... Upcoming epi we will see she will spike jalibe which is very nostalgic act😡

So enjoy the show until it entertains us. Fed up 2 see such kind of stupidities 4m her... 🤢

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Hobby.bliss

@Kanak-123

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Thats wat she doesnt wants to take god things...let her dad know but for her she is a rebel ...keep protesting if u ask her to do it ...this is today's generation...the moment u ask them to do something they have a good explaination about how wrong ppl r in their beliefs..n watever they do is something best in the world no harm at all...

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Ziah

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Posted: 8 years ago

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I don't have a problem with everything else, because I agree with everyone's reasons here. But I would have preferred if one of them was on the floor. Because personally, I wouldn't share a bed with someone I don't love, even if I was married to them.

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