5/06 Eyes are useless when the mind is blind!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey there all the lovely people.
Here is the fastest post I could manage before getting entangled in a web of work.. it's not exactly an episode update.. just a nonsensical post.


One can be naive, childish but cannot be shallow greedy and money minded at the same time. That momentary lapse of judgment gets a person categorized in a certain way, that's completely opposite, but somehow one gets stuck with it. One cannot expect to have a relationship with a shallow person, for beauty without its depth is just decoration.

US gives her vachan to ask whatever she wanted. Kanak asked for a diamond set, gold and a property. US takes her and lets her chose whatever jewelry and property she wants. Kanak chooses and is ecstatic over her victory. She is stuffing the jewelry and papers in her bag, when US asks if she got all she wanted? Now would she run away? Kanak is hesitant and says no. US takes her hand and takes her to the door and asks her to leave.

Precap- US questions her upbringing and she stops him... she challenges that you yourself would do adharm by breaking this marriage.

Kanak's demand and behavior was outright shallow today... that ear to ear grin, that self thought pat on the back for mission accomplished was not worth it. Kanak had said she didn't love him, she poured out her deepest fears in front of him, regarding her future and their future together. She had gone all out questioning the longevity of their marriage, his interest in her... but when US asked what can he do, that can put her fears to rest, he was ready to understand, listen and agree to her. He gave her the opportunity to understand him... she asks financial security - okay it's legitimate one needs to have it. US gives her his vachan to ask and he would provide. He offered her paradise, yet she being human, chose material. She asked for three things that proved her to be a gold digger. She didn't demand respect, she didn't ask equality, she didn't ask freedom, she didn't ask her rightful position in his life, she didn't ask his exclusive devotion towards her, she didn't ask to be an unbreakable part of him, she didn't ask HIM. He was nowhere in her three wishes. He was the genie who would fulfill her three wishes, even Aladdin frees genie as his third wish, Kanak couldn't even ask that.
If her fathers gyaan on fraud and cheating was about this, then she has failed miserably to even pull the fraud off.. she lies by all means, but when she tries to cheat and commit fraud, she just fell on her face or rather by herself in the trap unintentionally laid by US. He proved to be sensible enough to let her go, because she wanted material and not relationship or him -- thankfully or else US would just have been a desperate cheapo who had to buy his way in life... she underestimated the guy, who married her in front of the whole city, just because she was so goal oriented, she forgot herself, her values, her need for love, her need to belong somewhere to someone. She was overjoyed at the thought of home, when she was in hostel, she wanted to be back home to be loved, to be cared and take care. All that love, care, concern, house, family husband was right in front of her but she couldn't see anything right in front of her. That girl was no where today, that girl with all her spirit was subdued by Bhabho and her shop. Bhabho made her a gold digger, her need to get the shop back made her fall in US eyes. Not once but twice now.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Oei...
I need to see epi yet...
But reading her 3 demands and her triumph...just proofs me right...her truth isn't real...a shame on her...will be back after epi...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi Blue
Brilliant analysis , thus gold digger image just doesn't sit well with me
Never expected this from her as much as was driven to get the shop back
Not for a second did I imagine I wud see her as a gold digger . why ask for
Everything else , she only wants the shop just be direct ask for that even if
You have no intention on working on the marriage and relationship .
This is not sandya s daughter this is Chavis neice , she reminded me so
much off chavvi today

In her drive to gain bhaboo love she destroying the one chance she has of unconditional
Love. She destroying her life ,her future for a Stone hearted person.

She was clearly caught out today, her game is up so why stay on with Uma ? To drive them to
Destroy each other. Why challenge him that he will end this marriage he is to all intents and purposes ending the marriage and relationship with her , he knows what she wants if he is taking it back then she will NVR get it again cos he knows her plan.

She cane off as a gold diigger, a liar and a person that will go to any extent to get what she wants not sparing a thought on how her actions affect others. Very disappointed in her behaviour today .

Anyway let's see what happens tomm , this tym I don't think its her imagination and I don't want it to be.
Her stupidity just let us forget Veds beautiful scene of his struggle with the love of His sister n bhaboo. That poor guy is in a dilemma and is suffering with guilt .

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Blue - I gotta disagree with majority opinion today.
Who is US? And why should Kanak aspire for his love and marriage with him or even his high opinion? We have a different perspective of the whole, but to her he is THUG...a person who stole shop and forced her into an unwanted one sided rishta. Is there any reason for her to think he is one for her and want his love as Yet? A guy robs me...I will give a fig about him or his unconditional love...is there a reason for her to nibhao this forced shaadi or accept it. Yes. Her perspective of him is flawed but, what reason from her perspective does she have to buy into this Rishta?

By throwing her out he proves her correct. That his God n Sanket are insufficient to marry a stranger n nibhao a rishta. He can free her, but he is the one failing... Prasad is poison so what...Payal can live with photo n he wants to throw out the gold digger...wah wah!

I have no issues about the CVs creating further misunderstanding here... there is no foundation for a honest relationship yet...US has to prove he is worthy and kanak has to desire it. Right now its solely premised on SANKET that US received and his will.

Now that she has shop pappers maybe kanak will look beyond it. N maybe US will see the flaws n pitfalls of his beliefs. They need to get to beyond misunderstanding and misperceptions... it will be a long journey.
Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Blue - I gotta disagree with majority opinion today.

Who is US? And why should Kanak aspire for his love and marriage with him or even his high opinion? We have a different perspective of the whole, but to her he is THUG...a person who stole shop and forced her into an unwanted one sided rishta. Is there any reason for her to think he is one for her and want his love as Yet? A guy robs me...I will give a fig about him or his unconditional love...is there a reason for her to nibhao this forced shaadi or accept it. Yes. Her perspective of him is flawed but, what reason from her perspective does she have to buy into this Rishta?

By throwing her out he proves her correct. That his God n Sanket are insufficient to marry a stranger n nibhao a rishta. He can free her, but he is the one failing... Prasad is poison so what...Payal can live with photo n he wants to throw out the gold digger...wah wah!

I have no issues about the CVs creating further misunderstanding here... there is no foundation yet for a honest relationship yet...US has to prove he is worthy and kanak has to desire it.


i agree with you..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@taniks. Hey there, thank you for the wonderful comment.

Kanak is confused between maintaining her image intact by not getting him suspicious and just getting the papers and be done with it. She pretended that she wanted jewelry and diamonds, so that they could hide her real intention of getting the property. But why the cheating?? When he is clearly saying ask whatever you want... she could have asked anything, why just limit to 3 wishes.. that also jewels and property only. Why not ask space, freedom, and papers for security.
Her whole image went down in front of US. He just went along with her plan till the end, it might seem cruel from US but didn't Kanak ask for it. The day she comes home, she demands such things.. what would a guy do.

As Kanak getting angry in precap-- although it would discussed tomorrow, then also by what right is she getting angry. She just presented herself as shameless gold digger, now why the need to challenge him that he would break this marriage. Just because he kept the papers she needed time and excuse again to be in that house. Drama too much.

Ved was in dilemma today, the way he is still unable to answer shows how torn he is between Kanak and Bhabho. As he said to keep one, he broke the trust of other.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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In contradictions lies the truth!
Above goes for both here... Kanak beliefs about US needs to be shaken for her to see his truth n value and his tossing her out will shake n reveal her contradictions. He offers her freedom n she wants good opinion n no insult of her family values?! That belies the gold digger image...
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Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Blue - I gotta disagree with majority opinion today.

Who is US? And why should Kanak aspire for his love and marriage with him or even his high opinion? We have a different perspective of the whole, but to her he is THUG...a person who stole shop and forced her into an unwanted one sided rishta. Is there any reason for her to think he is one for her and want his love as Yet? A guy robs me...I will give a fig about him or his unconditional love...is there a reason for her to nibhao this forced shaadi or accept it. Yes. Her perspective of him is flawed but, what reason from her perspective does she have to buy into this Rishta?

By throwing her out he proves her correct. That his God n Sanket are insufficient to marry a stranger n nibhao a rishta. He can free her, but he is the one failing... Prasad is poison so what...Payal can live with photo n he wants to throw out the gold digger...wah wah!

I have no issues about the CVs creating further misunderstanding here... there is no foundation yet for a honest relationship yet...US has to prove he is worthy and kanak has to desire it.

Now that she has shop peppers maybe kanak will look beyond it. N maybe US will see the flaws n pitfalls of his beliefs



Hey there Anjana.
Wells that's a wonderful perspective of the whole thing.
Who is US to Kanak other than a raavan, a usurper, a fraud, a man who forced people to give over their property... she tried to cheat him, as per her daddy's gyaan... but what did she get??
She failed miserably in the fraud and her cards are out in open... but that also not true, she ain't a gold digger or jewelry person anyway.
Who is Kanak to US, a run away bride, stubborn, ignorant of dharm, liar and now a gold digger too. They both have a perception of other which is absolutely untrue.

Spot on that sanket are not enough for the relationship to be based on or to be continued... he can throw her out any moment he wants and she can escape the moment she gets the papers. They both are flawed in their own way.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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It's only love if it's flaws that we disregard and learn to see with our heart. Now that neither is desirous of this rishta...maybe they will be real with each other
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well what can you say about Indian Soaps, always show females as brainless...she is educated. She could have been shown smarter with the scenario...if the intent was to shown to K as being as gold drigger the showmakers were bang on...

US was bang on with his expressions...he was shattered, when he saw her expressions after she got all the stuff...all the questions he asked was to know where her thoughts were headed.

K..she is definitely not S daughter, S handled it a lot more maturely, I think...here her daughter is all...frustrating...She has 2 brothers and they left her like this...Has she thought thru the consequences, of what she is going to achieve. Give the papers to Bhabo and then what? Is she married or not married...what is her future? She comes from such a conservative background...frustrating is all I can say now..


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