teddyrumi of course u must laugh . we all must laugh . Or we will go into chronic depression ....looking at the Betiyaan , i mean . 😆
I have written a post in this thread about how they will get out . Well , the lawyer fighting for truth part has already come true . The useless emotional dialogues r just around the corner .....may be a week more bas .
U know wat i feel ? Savitri has come across as a very repressed woman [ inspite of being portrayed as the Adi Shakti Devi ]who put up with so much crap.....tolerating so much humilation ....her husband's second marraige , dominance of Menaka , Baa , having no say even in her own daughters marraiges , that she has gratified her own frustrated instincts by supporting her daughters in this burning act . Did u see the look of satisfaction in her own eyes when she told Surya look at our daughter now she isnt frightened anymore ?
Thats wat it is really about .....the fright and total lack of confidence of not being able to survive in the world without a man .....and so , to cling to him whatever he does , just to survive .
But this is not the way to show it . This is a problem....an issue , and show the women out there how to beat this with weapons like education, jobs , self development ....instead of smiling and giving the briefcases in their husband's hands as he leaves for office and being content with him at the helm . Till she herself manages the helm , a woman may never get this confidence .....and perhaps may never succeed in putting her foot down and getting herself even heard .
I am no feminist and open to all ways of thought . Still , I feel, So much adjustment from a woman's side comes largely coz of her economical dependence . Had Saraswati earned herself .....she need not have taken Dharaben's torture and neednt have worried if her Maayka will take her back if she decides not to stick to this marraige . She wud have needed no one ....neither husband , nor Maayka . Same with Savitri . Neither did she have anything on her name , nor did she have the capability to stand on her own when her husband brandished another woman under her nose . Even how much shud be spent on the shopping for her daughter's marraige was decided by others .....all she had was the empty status of being a Garodia bahu .She cudnt do a thing when her sister was banned from coming to her own house ....legally of which she had a right by marraige , as she wasnt even aware of that right .
She raised daughters to be as ineffective as her , and one day , it all boiled over . The victim was not Bhavishya , it was all the women , marred beyond repair !
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