Love is harder to accept than to give

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hi All you wonderful Ppl ๐Ÿ˜Š,

I had a post up called " Milind and His double standards". All of you replied Wonderfully ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ๐Ÿค—. I know I have been real mad ๐Ÿ˜ก at M and had written the post to vent it out. I know lot of ppl have been mad at me for making such posts. However I decided to write the other side of the story, just becoz ๐Ÿค” I have nothing better to do๐Ÿ˜†. Well lets not waste time and get to Michi's Mi and His views.

There is a basic difference between Prachi and Milind๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”. As our dear friends pointed out(in my earlier post), Milind ne pyar koyahai, Prachi nay pray tyaga hai, there are two different things. Milind got rejected ( well in not so many words but ayesha did reject him), but here Prachi rejected the dude ( in many ways she did reject neev). Ever heard of the proverb once bitten twice shy, upon that the rich dudes always have insulted him, leading to a almost born inferiority complex*Sigh*. It is almost an impossible thought that prachi might love him. Everytime the M dude thinks about it, he has so many points that lead to believe that P doesnot love M.

You lot including me think that M is reacting, (ofcourse)in a childish manner, but arnt all men mere child๐Ÿ˜Š. It is always about them, see thats why inspite of talking about his sister, he cannot let go of the fact that he is losing her๐Ÿ˜‰. When a child cries for food or throw a tantrum( for whatever reason), do we call it stupid selfish or not understanding, No we dont , becoz a child doesnot know what it is so be selfish or not understanding, it only knows what it wants. Similarly look at M, he is exactly the same, just becoz he is grown man doesnot mean that he has to behave like one ๐Ÿ˜‰. How many of us can actually accept the fact that the person we love, actually is in love with somebody else, and still continue to love. There are not many ppl like that except for in movies ๐Ÿ˜•. Even if M comes out to be larger than life character, it will take him some time to reach to that kind of mental maturity. The worst part will not be him loving her( to him its obvious thing), but her loving him back, that would be the most unbelievable part to him( well by the time even prachi will be cursing her fate for loving him ๐Ÿ˜†). So for now I am going to cut him some slack and pretend he didnot sleep with ayesha ๐Ÿ˜‰. I would like to hear your take on M current condition๐Ÿ˜›

Ram Ram

Basanti ๐Ÿ˜‰

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: red_chile

Hi All you wonderful Ppl ๐Ÿ˜Š,

I had a post up called " Milind and His double standards". All of you replied Wonderfully ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ๐Ÿค—. I know I have been real mad ๐Ÿ˜ก at M and had written the post to vent it out. I know lot of ppl have been mad at me for making such posts. However I decided to write the other side of the story, just becoz ๐Ÿค” I have nothing better to do๐Ÿ˜†. Well lets not waste time and get to Michi's Mi and His views.

There is a basic difference between Prachi and Milind๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”. As our dear friends pointed out(in my earlier post), Milind ne pyar koyahai, Prachi nay pray tyaga hai, there are two different things. Milind got rejected ( well in not so many words), but here Prachi rejected the dude ( in many ways ). Ever heard of the proverb once bitten twice shy, upon that the rich dudes always have insulted him, leading to a almost born inferiority complex*Sigh*. It is almost an impossible thought that prachi might love him. Everytime the M dude thinks about it, he has so many points that lead to believe that P doesnot love M.

You lot including me think that M is reacting, (ofcourse)in a childish manner, but arnt all men mere child๐Ÿ˜Š. It is always about them, see thats why inspite of talking about his sister, he cannot let go of the fact that he is losing her๐Ÿ˜‰. When a child cries for food or throw a tantrum( for whatever reason), do we call it stupid selfish or not understanding, No we dont , becoz a child doesnot know what it is so be selfish or not understanding, it only knows what it wants. Similarly look at M, he is exactly the same, just becoz he is grown man doesnot mean that he has to behave like one ๐Ÿ˜‰. How many of us can actually accept the fact that the person we love, actually is in love with somebody else, and still continue to love. There are not many ppl like that except for in movies ๐Ÿ˜•. Even if M comes out to be larger than life character, it will take him some time to reach to that kind of mental maturity. The worst part will not be him loving her( to him its obvious thing), but her loving him back, that would be the most unbelievable part to him( well by the time even prachi will be cursing her fate for loving him ๐Ÿ˜†). So for now I am going to cut him some slack and pretend he didnot sleep with ayesha ๐Ÿ˜‰. I would like to hear your take on M current condition๐Ÿ˜›

Ram Ram

Basanti ๐Ÿ˜‰

๐Ÿ‘me agree with u soo much that I couldnt say anything more so thank u for saying every thing for me๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ ๐Ÿค—
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: red_chile

There is a basic difference between Prachi and Milind๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”.Yea.. everyone figured that out a long time ago..Prachi sweet and innocent.. Milind rough and mean.. Milind got rejected ( well in not so many words),No he didn't Prachi never rejected him.. and plus he never really said how he felt about Prachi.. So that means that he wasn't rejected.. but here Prachi rejected the dude ( in many ways ).No Prachi didn't reject.. How could she have rejected him if she never even knew he loved her?? Ever heard of the proverb once bitten twice shy, No actually thia ia my first time hearing it.. upon that the rich dudes always have insulted him, leading to a almost born inferiority complex*Sigh*. It is almost an impossible thought that prachi might love him.Well though it may be impossible the truth is that Prachi loves him.. And thats that..no one can change that..(except Ekta๐Ÿ˜†) Everytime the M dude thinks about it, he has so many points that lead to believe that P doesnot love M.well i am sorry to say but those are all misunderstandings.. If Milind didn't have all these misnderstandings he would know that Prachi does love him..

You lot including me think that M is reacting, (ofcourse)in a childish manner, Yea i agree with u on this one.. its true Milind is acting in a childish manner..believing every word Ayesha says and not even hearing Prachi out...

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Posted: 18 years ago
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heyy basanti ๐Ÿ˜†

Kyaa baat hai yaaar.. Naam nahut suit kar raha hai ๐Ÿ˜†

This post is a surprise to me, I thought u are going to bash M again ๐Ÿ˜† ... But u were actually supporting M here ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜†

I agree with everything u said, As they say na, u cant clap with a single hand ๐Ÿ˜‰ , I wish P makes some effort to make him sit in a chair and make him listen to her... I dont mind if she hires 3 goondas to tie him to a chair and close his mouth with a cloth ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜†

But instead of P just telling Woh main.. Woh main... Aisa kuch nahin hai ๐Ÿ˜ก , She can very well take things into her hand and shout at him if need arises...

And tat Sukruti, she shud try to tell M the truth abt the baby yaaar.... M is soo hurt wen he knew tat P knows abt SS affair and she didnt tell him... Now M will be more hurt if he comes to know abt P knowing the truth abt Suk's kid ๐Ÿ˜ก

And iam sure even Neev wud blame Suk's for hiding this thing from them

These female leads na ๐Ÿ˜ก , I hate them soo much. They hide everything on the name of everyones bhalaayi... But finally they only succeed in messing up everything...

I guess women shud leave some decisions and matters to Men to handle ๐Ÿ˜†

Sorry abt the size of the post ๐Ÿ˜†

Krishi
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: wande

๐Ÿ‘me agree with u soo much that I couldnt say anything more so thank u for saying every thing for me๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ ๐Ÿค—

aww ๐Ÿค— Thanks Wande, I am glad you liked it ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I am sorry you misunderstood me about rejction, i wasnt talking about M and P rejection but M and A rejection and N and P rejection. I have made the changes. Sorry that you didnot hear about the proverb but there you have heard it now

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: knumnum

heyy basanti ๐Ÿ˜† Howdy hoo Krishi di ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

Kyaa baat hai yaaar.. Naam nahut suit kar raha hai ๐Ÿ˜† i know ๐Ÿ˜‰

This post is a surprise to me, I thought u are going to bash M again ๐Ÿ˜† ... But u were actually supporting M here ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜†

sigh i am confused soul๐Ÿ˜•, kabhi bashing to kabhi praising, trying to be fair thats all ๐Ÿ˜‰

I agree with everything u said, As they say na, u cant clap with a single hand ๐Ÿ˜‰ , I wish P makes some effort to make him sit in a chair and make him listen to her... I dont mind if she hires 3 goondas to tie him to a chair and close his mouth with a cloth ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜†

hmm 2morrow i will post something for her, but you know can i use your idea in my ff ๐Ÿ˜‰, i dont want any copy write issues u know ๐Ÿ˜†

But instead of P just telling Woh main.. Woh main... Aisa kuch nahin hai ๐Ÿ˜ก , She can very well take things into her hand and shout at him if need arises...

that is probably the only way to tell him, becoz he is right now the assumption mister, It is so hard for him to understand that somebody rich aand polished ( in culture) could love somebody like him ๐Ÿ˜‰


And tat Sukruti, she shud try to tell M the truth abt the baby yaaar.... M is soo hurt wen he knew tat P knows abt SS affair and she didnt tell him... Now M will be more hurt if he comes to know abt P knowing the truth abt Suk's kid ๐Ÿ˜ก

well duh!! It is not right for M to expect P to tell him, when His own sister didnot tell him , i know the baby stuff would be more devastating, what i dont understand why he is not mad at sukruti that she as a sister hid things from him ๐Ÿ˜•

And iam sure even Neev wud blame Suk's for hiding this thing from them

well ofcourse or our tyaga maatha would take the child as her own

These female leads na ๐Ÿ˜ก , I hate them soo much. They hide everything on the name of everyones bhalaayi... But finally they only succeed in messing up everything...

i know starting from tulsi to prachi everybody is like that

I guess women shud leave some decisions and matters to Men to handle ๐Ÿ˜†

oh no, i would say that after what Jai did to bani in ks no ways, i would say they should work on the communication part

Sorry abt the size of the post ๐Ÿ˜†

me too

Krishi

Ram Ram

Basanti๐Ÿ˜†

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: red_chile

There is a basic difference between Prachi and Milind๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”.yehh real BIG differences b/w MICHI.. As our dear friends pointed out(in my earlier post), Milind ne pyar koyahai, Prachi nay pray tyaga hai, there are two different things. Milind got rejected ( well in not so many words but ayesha did reject him), but here Prachi rejected the dude ( in many ways she did reject neev). yehh she did she;s soo stupid.. (sry) Ever heard of the proverb once bitten twice shy, upon that the rich dudes always have insulted him, leading to a almost born inferiority complex*Sigh*. It is almost an impossible thought that prachi might love him. Everytime the M dude thinks about it, he has so many points that lead to believe that P doesnot love M.yehh that;s so true.. everytime he has even a lil bit of feelings fr prachi.. M sees NP together then he misunderstanding that they luv each other and blah blah blah

You lot including me think that M is reacting, (ofcourse)in a childish manner,OMG!! yes very much!! but arnt all men mere child๐Ÿ˜Š. It is always about them, see thats why inspite of talking about his sister, he cannot let go of the fact that he is losing her๐Ÿ˜‰.yeehh..but he did fix her ristha wid some other person right? When a child cries for food or throw a tantrum( for whatever reason), do we call it stupid selfish or not understanding, No we dont , becoz a child doesnot know what it is so be selfish or not understanding, it only knows what it wants. Similarly look at M, he is exactly the same, just becoz he is grown man doesnot mean that he has to behave like one ๐Ÿ˜‰.LOL..๐Ÿ˜† How many of us can actually accept the fact that the person we love, actually is in love with somebody else,OMG!! that;s sooo heart breaking.. that'd be really hard to accept and still continue to love. There are not many ppl like that except for in movies ๐Ÿ˜•.No..in some movies there are things like that ๐Ÿ˜• Even if M comes out to be larger than life character, it will take him some time to reach to that kind of mental maturity. The worst part will not be him loving her( to him its obvious thing), but her loving him back, that would be the most unbelievable part to him( well by the time even prachi will be cursing her fate for loving him ๐Ÿ˜†). So for now I am going to cut him some slack and pretend he didnot sleep with ayesha ๐Ÿ˜‰.LOL.. okay..๐Ÿ˜† wait but he never did it was all ayesha's naatak so that miland feels guilty I would like to hear your take on M current condition๐Ÿ˜›

Ram Ram

Basanti ๐Ÿ˜‰

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Oyyeee basanti ๐Ÿ˜†

the text in ur siggy tells me tat u know Tamil ๐Ÿ˜† ... Now tell me some new Tamil movies which are gud yaaar..... Been ages since I watched Tamil movies ๐Ÿ˜†

And yeah, u can use the idea in ur FF... I dont mind and no copy rights here ๐Ÿ˜†

Krishi
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Posted: 18 years ago
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basanti...
your defending mills ๐Ÿ˜ฒ ...
what has happened to you ๐Ÿ˜• ....
what did you have for breakfast ๐Ÿค” ....

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