I Forgive You - Page 6

Originally posted by: Maya_M

You guys know your Greek alphabets very well.😆

Originally posted by: mythili_Kiran

Wellsaid👏.It requires lot of maturity to do this!

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

i don't know about all that. only thing i know is that i do forgive....but never forget. bas, aisi hee hoon mein 😊

True said Gauri di... nOt Only yOu but whOever fOrgive a persOn will never fOrget him and all what he dO... These things stay in Our minds... But the thing i wanna ask that hOw dO a persOn fOrget all the bad happenings, that anOther dOne wid him.... Or is their any way tO ran Out frOm Our past...

I am Facing such type Of prOblem... But these things are still running in my mind... like Others, i fOrgive that persOn cOz the persOn is very impOrtant part Of my life... but whatever the persOn dO, is still running in ma mind....

Originally posted by: Lovers Ka Love

True said Gauri di... nOt Only yOu but whOever fOrgive a persOn will never fOrget him and all what he dO... These things stay in Our minds... But the thing i wanna ask that hOw dO a persOn fOrget all the bad happenings, that anOther dOne wid him.... Or is their any way tO ran Out frOm Our past...

I am Facing such type Of prOblem... But these things are still running in my mind... like Others, i fOrgive that persOn cOz the persOn is very impOrtant part Of my life... but whatever the persOn dO, is still running in ma mind....

Acceptance usually works, worked for me. Doesn't matter if it was right or wrong, just that the incident happened to you, and your acceptance of it should stop the internal struggle.

Meditation always works... stops the chatter in the brain for a day or so, and even if you are reminded of it... usually free of ill feeling or attach little importance to the incident.

Persy

Originally posted by: sohn

Wow Jasu! What you just put in there as a matter of fact statement...is something people spend their life trying to ahieve! As I've said before...if I could do that...Im on my way to sainthood already! 😛

i do that all the time...and i am nowhere near sainthood either....i am not beatified and the last time i heard the pope has no clue to my existence...😆😆 but there is something called self preservation...if i dont want to hurt, and i dont want to feel sorry for myself...i must move ahead...and when i tell myself that...i find i can move ahead.....

Agreed that its the best thing to do..agreed that maybe its the ONLY thing to do at times....but every situation is not the same, every person is not the same, every remark, hurtful statement, lashes of words, snaps or anything dished out at you is not the same. I cannot just generalise and say this is the rule I wanna follow when it comes to forgiving or forgetting whoever in whatever situation, come what may!

To achieve what you just said up there, is going to be a battle of a lifetime for me cus I know Im not there yet. But someday before I close my eyes for good...I hope I do reach that stage where nothing will matter...no feeling will touch me and then... I know people around me will call me Guru Maa Sonia! ☺️
Ugh! That Guru Maa thingy doesnt go with my name 😕😔

and you are right..maa guru does not go with your name....😆

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Nice to see that you followed the coffee shope example well!! I did'nt want to use "Tea" in my example remembering the historical boston tea party which was a great mess and which represented anguish of the people!😊

****I couldn't care lesser coffee / tea. It is beta's behaviour that is bothersome 😉.. as it reeks of insincerity. They could be drinking champagne, vodka or green tea.. I couldn't care lesser. Tea party BTW was a victorious event in the liberation of a country very dear to me.

agree with you here. insincerity while apologizing "privately" rendered that apology meaningless.....my 2 cents here😊 LOL @ Boston Tea Party😆

Originally posted by: jasunap

right tish....europe it is!!!

the thought is brilliant!!! we can beat sherlock holmes hollow with that one...he will never be able to solve what we can come up with!!! 😆 😆

and on topic...if someone hurts me, if the person is of no importance on consequence, then i wont even waste a forgiveness on him/her 😉 i wont even spend my time ignoring...they just cease to exist for me!

so true and I agree with you here.