Joint family or a Nuclear family - Page 7

Originally posted by: pardeep1954

Hi Apux,

Your thoughts on the nuclear family are very much clear and encouraging, hopefully you must not have had love and affection of your grand parents, this must be the only reason that you are not condering them a part of the family, but what about those parents who have brought up their son and now a days are in old age which is generally called house of illness and stress, your thought directly means that once they got married their son to a girl, their all relations finished, after that they suffer any kind of problem that is their destiny, their son and daughter in law will reach there to just make all the last time ceremonies and collect the wealth they people have stored in their life time, is it right or justice with them? have any girl or person on behalf of the girl in question make it clear in advance means prior to the marriage, is there any fool who would like to make relashions with those people.

Originally posted by: persistence

I would want time, and space with my husband. 😳

No nagging by family members! 🤢

Originally posted by: pardeep1954

what about those parents who have brought up their son and now a days are in old age which is generally called house of illness and stress, - directly means that once they got married their son to a girl, their all relations finished, after that they suffer any kind of problem that is their destiny, their son and daughter in law will reach there to just make all the last time ceremonies and collect the wealth they people have stored in their life time, is it right or justice with them? have any girl or person on behalf of the girl in question make it clear in advance means prior to the marriage, is there any fool who would like to make relashions with those people.

Originally posted by: pardeep1954

But sorry to say, while we are on the side of boy our thoughts are different as compared to the situation as would have been on the side of girl. Having two differant thought as per the situation directly indicates our double standards, hopefully this must be the reason also. We must think positively and have single thoughts for all the situations and there is a strong need to educate our upcoming girls, to brighten our future and save our ethics as a best solution. Only when our upcoming girls will have positive attitude, we can have better society.

Thanks Angie, I think you have gone the right approach ofa family and social status, see there are two situations in which parents and children live seperately, one is in which son and daughter in law are forced by circumstances of service but live near to the parents by heart, whereas other is where they live seperately due to the willingness of the daughter in law, who by creat such an atmotsphere. Undoubtedly grandchildren in that family lacks of the love and affection of their grand parents also. What I think in the present days there is great need to educate our new upcoming women who are responsible for production of future of tommorow, otherwise this will be they people who suffer a lot. Children learns what they see, when they have seen that their mother did not cared her parents in laws, they will certainly follow the same making it more advance. No doubt people at that time will blame them, whereas they will not be liable for that situation, to avoid the scene we must try hard to ractify the same.