Why is she begging and Manish was right

Why is Ruhi begging all the time..when someone has to beg all the time to be chosen,to be kept as priority ,to be loved is that even love..? Her insecurity and lack of trust on armaan is also clearly visible ..why love such a man..

I see only one side efforts in Ruhi Armaan relationship..armaan boltha kuch aur hai kartha kuch aur hai..

Yesterday Manish was right..life..

Mods - I have written what is shown in episode only.

Edited out S#3 references .

Edited by Sutapasima - 16 days ago

Its really ridiculous that her family isnt stern with her and allows her to be delusional. 

They need to put their foot down but they dont. 

If they dont approve of Armaan for Ruhi why don't they intervene. Despite differences in hating Abhira vs not between the old hags and dhongi buddha, they all agree that Armaan -Ruhi aren't meant to be.phir bhi they let her stay there in PH, and do whatever she's doing. 

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Its really ridiculous that her family isnt stern with her and allows her to be delusional. 

They need to put their foot down but they dont. 

If they dont approve of Armaan for Ruhi why don't they intervene. Despite differences in hating Abhira vs not between the old hags and dhongi buddha, they all agree that Armaan -Ruhi aren't meant to be.phir bhi they let her stay there in PH, and do whatever she's doing. 

And if her family listens to her so much, why couldn't she refuse to marry rohit in the first place. Both ruhi and goenkas are weird and useless. 

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

And if her family listens to her so much, why couldn't she refuse to marry rohit in the first place. Both ruhi and goenkas are weird and useless. 

Exactly Ru herself jumped in this mess knowing very well what are the consequences and now acting like this.

And the bigger culprit is Swarna, as she was responsible for Ruhi and it's her responsibility to show Ru the right path if she is doing something wrong but Swarna is useless. This is the reason Ru turned out like this.

Originally posted by: Drna7

Exactly Ru herself jumped in this mess knowing very well what are the consequences and now acting like this.

And the bigger culprit is Swarna, as she was responsible for Ruhi and it's her responsibility to show Ru the right path if she is doing something wrong but Swarna is useless. This is the reason Ru turned out like this.

Yes swarna has rights .she should have stopped the wedding right there..

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Its really ridiculous that her family isnt stern with her and allows her to be delusional. 

They need to put their foot down but they dont. 

If they dont approve of Armaan for Ruhi why don't they intervene. Despite differences in hating Abhira vs not between the old hags and dhongi buddha, they all agree that Armaan -Ruhi aren't meant to be.phir bhi they let her stay there in PH, and do whatever she's doing. 

No they are like if armaan comes for Ruhi it is fine and good...

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Its really ridiculous that her family isnt stern with her and allows her to be delusional. 

They need to put their foot down but they dont. 

If they dont approve of Armaan for Ruhi why don't they intervene. Despite differences in hating Abhira vs not between the old hags and dhongi buddha, they all agree that Armaan -Ruhi aren't meant to be.phir bhi they let her stay there in PH, and do whatever she's doing. 

Bohot umra ho gyi h unki ab kya hi karenge??? Waise bhi jab karna tha tab nhi kiya😜

 This whole generation of yrkkh is toxic. They killed all good characters and now we have to deal with this toxicity. Swarna and surekha has a phd in being toxic they act exactly like those aunties u meet at shaadis jiske khudke bache ki shaayad hazaar affairs ho lekin dusre ki bache ki gossip karenge types. Khudki beti ki ema nahi dikh rahi kya inhe jo abhira ki buraayi kar rahi hain. I wish abhira get to know that what goenkas did to her mumma and file property case on them. 

Edited by Alienpotato - 15 days ago

Originally posted by: Alienpotato

 This whole generation of yrkkh is toxic. They killed all good characters and now we have to deal with this toxicity. Swarna and surekha has a phd in being toxic they act exactly like those aunties u meet at shaadis jiske khudke bache ki shaayad hazaar affairs ho lekin dusre ki bache ki gossip karenge types. Khudki beti ki ema nahi dikh rahi kya inhe jo abhira ki buraayi kar rahi hain. I wish abhira get to know that what goenkas did to her mumma and file property case on them. 

Leave Ruhi's mess, before 50+ years too Swarna and Surekha were no saints. Swarna abandoned her son in name of sacrifice and Surekha's daughter killed AK and other two children were ra*ist so before questioning others they should look within themselves.

Originally posted by: Drna7

Leave Ruhi's mess, before 50+ years too Swarna and Surekha were no saints. Swarna abandoned her son in name of sacrifice and Surekha's daughter killed AK and other two children were ra*ist so before questioning others they should look within themselves.

Could elaborate a bit on the bold? Will use it for my story! Thanks!