Slap Justified?

In S2 & S3 MIL slapped/pushed DIL after considering her responsible for the death of her son still, I wouldn't say I understand the emotions behind such violent action. They could be charged with domestic violence same goes for Vidya. I dislike Ruhi's character the most after Suwarna and Manjiri & yes she badly needed a reality check, could be ousted from PH as her husband is dead (according to Poddars) & her interference in the married couple's life is borderline obsessive behaviour as Vidya mentioned tumhain kya dora para Ruhi, but a slap? Viewers might've liked that scene as they know about EMA but Vidya doesn't. Vidya slapping both Armaan and Ruhi after getting to know about EMA could still be fathomable as Ruhi destroyed her biological son Rohit's life and is the reason behind his disappearance, right now according to the storyline she doesn't even know about EMA & her reaction towards Ruhi bringing divorce papers was too OTT considering her slapping first than questioning Ruhi. Vidya commanding Ruhi to pack her bags and leave PH to stay in GV after questioning her would be better. I liked her calm, composed and firm reaction after seeing Ruhi doing what she does best, gatekeeping Abhira and Armaan's room. She showed Ruhi her place in a better way at that time.  I know it's fiction & exaggerations are no exception here. But what is DKP or YRKKH promoting? EMA of jeth-bhabi? ML giving mixed signals to both his wife and bhabhi? Elders of the family can slap their son (Krish), daughter (Charu) and DILs (Abhira/Ruhi) at the drop of a hat. Vidya is going to flip in future it's YRKKH tradition that loving and caring MILs flip in no time. The way Vidya is supporting Abhira she might see herself in Abhira & support her against eternal lovers in future if Vidya flips like her pendulum son then she might reunite eternal lovers who sacrificed their love for her son's happiness not knowing Rohit disappeared because of them. 

Why are you questioning Maasa's slap on Ruhi Birla? Like that was watching-movie-in-theatre-level scene that got played out

Haan Maasa, ek aur keech ke maaro uss Ruhi Birla ko, who is the promoter of adultery and homewrecking!

(and dont forget to kick that Ar too! )

I didn't like the slap at all . Whatever may be the reason but nobody should be slapped or pushed for whatever may be the reason. 

Some characters can seriously get on your nerves. Ruhi Birla is one such character. I think with today's episode, they wanted to give a teaser of how things are going to be when the real truth comes out. Ruhi bhabhi thinks everyone is going to accept their najayaz rishta with open arms. She's going to be proven wrong so badly. And Vidya will the strongest opposition to that immoral relationship. While Dadisa might accept it just out of spite for Abhira. Also, the MILs you mentioned were all saccharine sweet to DILs from the start and then flipped. But Vidya has already done her share of saasgiri on Abhira. They didn't start off on a good note or warm bonding like in previous cases. So, this time, for a change I think saas is not going to flip and would actually support her DIL.

I know I know you are very logical and ideal about the slap, and it is against morality. And I know I should not support physical violence. However, I simply cant help but to get satisfaction in seeing that scene. Because we are burning and irritated beyond anything by their bad kartut. I know its not same, but many time we want a rapist to get the strictest punishment possible but idealy we should not forget humanity. Like that, she deserves a slap and more, even if it is not ideal.

Yes to the slap. 

Ruhi does the crime. 

Ruhi must do the time. 

Consequences. 

Yeah slap cud be avoided but the thing is ..I didn't like the way foofasa got away with slapping krish in public, it also led to fracture ..seriously the guy should be behind bars but this same woman ruhi lied to everyone & abhira was made the vamp for blaming him. 

The most atrocious thing was that he wasn't even guilty about it 

I don't think anyone has slapped fl in last gen. Mls mother slapped ml not fl. 

But no ruhi does not deserve this slap. 

Originally posted by: Krinya

Yeah slap cud be avoided but the thing is ..I didn't like the way foofasa got away with slapping krish in public, it also led to fracture ..seriously the guy should be behind bars but this same woman ruhi lied to everyone & abhira was made the vamp for blaming him. 

The most atrocious thing was that he wasn't even guilty about it 

I think Krish  faked the fracture. But phuphasa was wrong in slapping him.

No, the slap was not okay. Even if an explanation was asked for and Ruhi-Ar backstory was given, haath utana is not okay. We cannot have a selective outrage just becos the receiver’s actions don’t align with general audience sentiments!