Anupama and anuj remind me of

Anupama reminds me of Suraiya and Madhubala 

Suraiya wanted to marry Dev annad and was madly in love with him but her grand mom objected and she bent to her wishes. She stayed alone all life and died alone too. 

Madhubala did same mistake, she was busy feeding her father and siblings. Madhubala dad has problems with Dilip Kumar loving her and objected to relation. Dilip Kumar said leave them and marry me she refused. She married Kishore Kumar who never loved her and just married her for fame. She died a painful lonely death where even husband had abandoned her in illness and last days. Her family and husband only wanted her money and fame not her. If she had married Dilip Kumar may be she live happily remaining days of life, he would take care of her. Who knows she may live longer as if a person gets true love even in terminal illness they live long. 

If only both Suraiya and Madhubala had listened to their heart and lovers who loved them a lot and left family and married and moved forward in life they would not have the fate they met. 

Its rare to get someone who truly loves you madly who keeps your happinss over his own life and family. But anupama never realized this about anuj. Anuj still loves her like mad but i doubt this woman will realize ever. She is very subservient to Shahs her so called family to ever accept anyone else or leave them to set up new life. Anuj will suffer all life if he does not move on now, already hes in 50s will not get life partner later if he does not move on in life. Anupam alawyas has her  kids, baa, bapuji, grand kids, bahus, brother, nephew etc but anuj will not have anyone. Even adhya will marry and leave him in 10 more years. He will live and die a lonely death if he does not move on now in his 50s. Hes wasted all his life for anupama who never loves him cares for him. 

Anuj reminds me of these modern lovers they oppose family marry against wishes and finally spouse leaves them alone. Neither they have family neither spouse left alone.

For love of one human you forget or go against family, relatives, friends everyone. Finally when that one person leaves you after few years alone you have no one to go back too in life. You are alone all alone. In anuj case he will live alone all life because he ran like majnu after a mirage called anupama. If he had not done that error he would have GK kaka, malvika, CA, Ankush, adhik, sara as family to take care of him all life and never be alone. There are times when love or lover is wrong and a human has to leave lover for greater good of family and peace of mind of one self. Sadly anuj never relaize this even 33 years after loving anupama. Hes highly immature man. His love is destroying his family and relatives lives. Come on anuj man love is not everything in life. Shah jahan loved mumtaz a lot but moved on few years after her death, Salim loved anarkali but moved on, many many real people lost their love anuj and they loved them more than you will ever love anupama . They did much more for their love or lover but once they lost their love or seperated they did not behave like you but moved on in life. why? For sake of others happiness for family happiness for dutuyy, for their parents or siblings happiness for their kids well being. 

Anuj ko move on karne mein koi interest nahi hai... Maa ko toh kabhi bhi nahi tha... He will pull back Anupama into his life and she will pull back all Shah drama into their life.  Together both of them will do slavery at Shah house. And these two along with Vanraj Shah deserve to die alone only. That Toshu was not even ready to pay for the medical bills of Maa, hopefully will scam Anuj at the first opportunity he gets. Yet Maa can't keep off from his house nor Anuj could resist his smartness. I am sure after Vanraj grows older, Pakhi too will throw him out of the house and he will be roaming around on some deserted streets. Ansh, Ishani, Pari and Mahi will take the place of Pakhi and Tosu in being gutter mouths spitting venom, and creating criminal records, given the parenting and environment they are getting. Dimpy, Kavya and Kinjal  hopefully by that time learn to give unnecessary, ineffective bhashan, which they may have learned from Maa to sudharofy their bigdi hui aulaad... Only Dukhmukh and Jhula will live a good, healthy, peaceful life being served by her son V and their slaves Anuj, Anupamaa, Dimpy, T2 and Kavya...  Deepu and Shruti might have reached hell by then for doing the sin of associating themselves with these two. 

Yashdeep is just like how Anuj was when he supported Anupama…. But we all know how that turned out lol!!! Also noticed that he was drunk in the precap which means Yashdeep friendship will make Anuj more determined to get Anu back in his life and Aadhya won't be able to stop him at all this time because the way he was thinking back about Yash holding Anu, there arms touch each other he was get out of his mind and it will become uncontrollable to stop him not even Aadhya can stop him this time.as long as Anuj and Anupama are in the same city it will be difficult for them to move on from each other