Originally posted by: shirin04
No she should have informed neeti about the truth as soon as she found out instead of letting her get more and more emotionally involved with rajeev.
This discussion has happened like umpteen times. Pari's plan was to get RajNeeti together (because they supposedly loved each other ), get Bajwas to accept Neeti and leave. Complications happened when Neeti tried to fight Rakesh (despite being warned not to in her pregnant state) and suffered a miscarriage. These could have, should have arguments are simply going in circles. Ab toh Neeti ko sab sach pata hai. What did she do? She conveniently ignored the part about her bf getting cheated, Rajeev's obsession with Pari and is out for Pari's blood.
SHE should have given the idea of a surrogate and not herself become one.
Because Neeti lost her baby teying to help Pari. Which made Pari guilty. And giving ideas won't work with the likes of Gurinder around. She was going to get her cheater son married again and Neeti was pulling suicide stunts. The only thing to do was take the fastest solution and act on it.
It takes two to tango. Rajeev toh hai ek cheater there is no justification for how disgusting he is but she can’t have the moral high ground and do the things that she does with rajeev.
She doesn't do anything with Rajeev. It is always Rajeev who reaches everywhere she is. Half of the times it is HELP her, not romance. Pari's fault is not creating a drama everywhere like Neeti and slapping the shit out of Rajeev. Which she'll never do. Heck, she could not even do much when that Rakesh was harassing her. And it was always shown that Pari is extremely weak when it comes to taking a stand. Ab insaan hai, koi toh shortcomings definitely hogi.
Maybe go to a PJ, live in a hostel, tell taiji and others to get her a house on rent they seem quite rich and she herself is well educated. And mummy ke bare mein toh pari madam 1 din bhi mh sochti and its not like her living in Chandigarh is protecting her mom. Khudko toh samla nh jata khak maa ko bachaegi.
None of these suggestions were given to her in the show. Only one offered was going back to Barnala, which is impossible considering her mother's state. And mahaan Neeti madam's suggestion was dhakke maarke bahar nikalna.
She staying in Chandigarh saved her mom's life multiple times. If she hadn't reached on time, Babe would have successfully killed her mom by now. This is a show with daily episode of around 20 mins. Ab har din toh they can't show her crying for her mom.
I don’t recall her ever actually rudely or properly telling him to stay away. Most of the times its like formality ke liye bol rhi hai. For all her worries of neeti, not once have we seen her actually telling sanju ki listen to neeti or go back and get her or anything.
She hasn't rudely talked to anyone in this show. Highly doubt she'll do it with Rajeev either now. She has firmly told him to mind his business and take care of Neeti's needs. That she can take care of herself. Rajeev stated on her face that he will not listen to her. And when she tried to do something on her own, he created tamasha at doctor's office and in public place. She has told him multiple times to talk to Neeti, listen to her and let Pari go. It is Rajeev and Bajwas who don't listen.
Shouldn’t she herself bring it up? Considering how much she loves her best friend and wants her future to be happy.
Didn't she say that they'll end this relationship and she'll leave? Now divorce papers, may be that'll be the next step. After all, it is only Pari's responsibility right? Rajeev and Neeti has nothing to do right?
Neeti has not sacrified anything for pari and nor has she claimed to either. It is only one fl who is said to be so mahaan and sacrificial but unka sacrifice dikhta hi mh hai kisiko.
Lol Neeti herself keep repeating I have done so much for Pari etc etc. Counting her ehsaans and reclaiming them by trying to murder Pari multiple times. I, for one, has never heard Pari claiming to have done anything for Neeti. Others might have said so, but that's not Pari's headache.
Problem is, everything is expected of only Pari. The other two are conveniently absolved of everything, by terming one cheater and other heartbroken. As if Pari was not cheated, she was not heartbroken and she has no right to make even the smallest mistake.
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