What has Anupama learnt from her own life and failed marriage???

Nothing!!!! She hasnt changed a bit at all. If Vanraj was at fault so was hers. Marriage is a lot of work and requires time in the first place. She absolutely does not have time for her own marriage!!! She is more busy than the PMs and President's. She thinks marriage is about I love you but it is more than that which she did not even realize after her failed marriage with Vanraj!!!

This show so much have been better if they actually showed that the character Anupama is also a firm believer to change and improve her own self rather than just a preacher for others. I have no idea why she got into a second marriage without even realizing what her mistakes were from her previous failed marriage. 

Its unbelievable that she just does not want to improve herself and her ways of working/reacting to situations. For her marriage is just about kitchen, home mandir, kids and their demands, baa bapuji!!! Thats all. Wow, DKP what kind of message are you spreading, amazing!!!! Keep it up

A person who feels that they are the epitome of perfection can't learn or change. She feels she has accomplished everything whereas she has failed in every aspect apart from providing free service to toxic and abusive ex-in-laws. Resht of her lyphe will also be the same slaving around for them and belencing (imaginary) matke

Originally posted by: shwetha85

Nothing!!!! She hasnt changed a bit at all. If Vanraj was at fault so was hers. Marriage is a lot of work and requires time in the first place. She absolutely does not have time for her own marriage!!! She is more busy than the PMs and President's. She thinks marriage is about I love you but it is more than that which she did not even realize after her failed marriage with Vanraj!!!

This show so much have been better if they actually showed that the character Anupama is also a firm believer to change and improve her own self rather than just a preacher for others. I have no idea why she got into a second marriage without even realizing what her mistakes were from her previous failed marriage. 

Its unbelievable that she just does not want to improve herself and her ways of working/reacting to situations. For her marriage is just about kitchen, home mandir, kids and their demands, baa bapuji!!! Thats all. Wow, DKP what kind of message are you spreading, amazing!!!! Keep it up

@bold - that too all those in the priority list are from Ex's family!! Go figure!

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

@bold - that too all those in the priority list are from Ex's family!! Go figure!

kitchen and home mandir are common to Ex and current by the way!!! 

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

A person who feels that they are the epitome of perfection can't learn or change. She feels she has accomplished everything whereas she has failed in every aspect apart from providing free service to toxic and abusive ex-in-laws. Resht of her lyphe will also be the same slaving around for them and belencing (imaginary) matke

Totally! She is an epitome of Stockholm syndrome & narcissism.

She learned that Mishtar Shah is her one and only 

That her sasural is her maayka meaning she has been Shah since day 1 on this earth . She didn't know it until Mishtar Shah unleashed those Shah wale feelings inside her 

All this over confidence that she is perfect and there is no scope for improvement has come only after Anuj entry.. earlier when she was married to vanraj, she didn’t think so highly of herself.. 

She learnt to become an abuser and Masters in making your spouse your slave from her first marriage, also two timing, just what Mishter Shah did to her.

She exactly is making Mishter Shah’s words come true - tum apni dusri shadi mein wohi sab karogi jo pehli shadi mein tumhare saath hua (something along these lines what Vanraj had warned her of)
Other than that she is a perphect Maa Beti Bahu Dadi Saas and even a bijness woman, she needs to learn nothing, already Sarva Gun Sampanna 

Anupama was single aftr divorce, she was clear tht no more shadi,this bakwas Bapuji ne use idea diya.. parivar ke liye hum hai & romance ke liye AK se shadi kar le,she was very much impressed with the deal.. kya Kapadia ji yeh bebli ko beech mei le aaye aap,sab karab ho gaya 

Damaka offer tha AK se shadi paise ke barish and such a pyar mei pagal hua bandha.. Shahs ne acha calculative mind thei.. bekaar mein extra rishte kyun le aaye Kapadia ji.. 

Originally posted by: Historia

Anupama was single aftr divorce, she was clear tht no more shadi,this bakwas Bapuji ne use idea diya.. parivar ke liye hum hai & romance ke liye AK se shadi kar le,she was very much impressed with the deal.. kya Kapadia ji yeh bebli ko beech mei le aaye aap,sab karab ho gaya 

Damaka offer tha AK se shadi paise ke barish and such a pyar mei pagal hua bandha.. Shahs ne acha calculative mind thei.. bekaar mein extra rishte kyun le aaye Kapadia ji.. 

The cunning codger saw the chance of securing his no good clan's future, as he knew that each one of them is worthless and can't provide for their own selves. So he sent the unpaid maid on a mission. The rest resht is history.....