Anupamaa Written Update and Daily Discussion Thread 21 Aug 2023

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Posted: 9 months ago
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Pakhi denies Anupama’s claims of domestic abuse , she states she herself provoked Adhik, they both love each other , they have marital issues  like all other couples . She asks Mummy not to interfere in their matters .Anupama argues what he did was wrong , no woman should tolerate such violence , Anupama herself had left Mr Shah when he abused her ,Pakhi reminds Mummy how she spent 26 yrs in that relationship. Anupama asks if Pakhi too was going to take 26 years to protest ? 

Being a well educated girl why was she tolerating abuse ? A mother was worried for her daughter , it was wrong to tolerate abuse. She better not try to tolerate that animal .Pakhi states she loved her husband and wanted to preserve her marriage . She pleads everyone not to break her marriage ,

Anupama is appalled ! She looks at Anuj . Barkha states none should interfere in their matters if Pakhi  herself did not want interference by others .
Pakhi agrees with Barkha aunty . Anupama disagrees, all woman had right to protest , other women were affected by watching her silently tolerating torture . She better voice her pain, she should not tolerate such abuse like those women who failed to protest , she had her entire family to back her up . She should not remain silent like those women who are unable to fight /protest abuse . If today she remained silent she will become a doormat all her life , why was she willing to be that ! 

Anupama persuades Pakhi to realise Adhik was wrong to hit Pakhi . Hitting one’s married partners was wrong . 

At SH. Kavya shares her feelings as she returns from sonography . 
Kinjal shares her own feelings during pregnancy. Kinjal probes Kavya to share any problems , Dimpy passes by . Kavya and Kinjal wish the entire family reunited again, both feel bad the family was broken up into two . Specially during meal times. 

Kavyabthen misses other family members . Kinjal informs all elders had gone to KM. She did not know the reason. Kavya hopes everything was OK as Anupama ‘s place . Dimpy who was passing by, bad mouths Anupama. Kavya an Kinjal retort back , if she had separated herself from this family she better remain separated , there was no need to interfere in their matters . They retort back to her . 

At KM Vanraj too tries to persuade Pakhi to protest n not bear torture silently . He confesses his own domestic violence . 
Anuj encourages her to protest against wrong. She better not tolerate thinking tomorrow Adhik will improve . He might not n repeat this again.  Anupama asks her not to toState   Her mother never did despite being less educated . Pakhi was well educated, so why was she tolerating abuse ? baa Babuji encourage Pakhi to protest n not tolerate abuse .Anupama pleads not to try to safe a marriage that was having DV . Anuj states of marriage partner was abusive that marriage will never last . Vanraj asks her tk see for herself if this marriage deserved to be saved . Baa Babuji advise not to shield this two faced guy, he will not improve n neither will her married life . 

Romil is seen watching everything n hopes Pakhi protests and teaches good lesson to this abusive Adhik. 

Anupama boosts Pakhi’s morale , reminds her what a spit fore she was , she should not become docile just to save her abuser. not to bear wrong . Not to become weak in presence of her abuser .Anuj and Ankush too support Pakhi to protest . 

Barkha senses they were building up a case of domestic abuse . She asks Adhik to apologise , Adhik is in no mood to apologise . Barkha asks him to do as advised or he will be behind the bars . Adhik  then  joins hands and apologises to pakhi . he accepts his mistakes and praises pakhi for  giving their marriage another chance . He agrees his actions were  despicable , he deserved to be punished .

Anuj taunts  him.,.

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pakhi holds Adhik’s  hand n requests him if he  would improve n give their marriage another chance . Anupama states Pakhi was holding that very hand that hit her . 
Anupama warns Pakhi might have accepted Adhik but a mother will do what she wanted to .

At SH Dimpy blames Pakhi for what was happening to her ,Adhik was not such a guy as all accused, baa Babuji Vanraj are shocked . Kinjal retorts back to Dimpy .



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Posted: 9 months ago
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Who would’ve thought that Deviji’s Bratty Beti would become an even bigger Mahaan Aatma like her!

It’s pathetic how she keeps trying to justify and defend her abuse and DV like it’s nothing she could easily get Adick punished and thrown in jail she literally has her whole phemli to support her lekin madamji ko toh Mahaan banna hai!

It’s funny how she would never cared about Adick and would always pester him when he was a good husband and now that he’s an abuser she suddenly loves him and tolerates the abuse that she once spewed on him!

Is she waiting for Adick to have EMA so that she can leave him just like her MAA left her Paa! 

Disgusting message this pathetic PH are showing I knew they would butcher this DV track by showing an educated girl like Pakhi being Mahaan and defending her abuser partner! 
Is this what they expect the next generation to follow vahiyat log 👎🏼

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Posted: 9 months ago
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Dimpy has become complete gone case.

It would have been better if MaAn had also encouraged Adhik so much to file a case against Pakhi when she falsely accused him of DV and then did emotional torture with the fake su*cide. Anyway, that's water under the bridge now. 

Pakhi will soon realise that Adhik never meant his apology and I hope she gives him a divorce that time. My hopes are low considering how Kinjal 'patched up' with Toshu and Anupama with Vanraj. 

This show has become very predictable. I hope they bring some interesting characters who are not sidelined like Malti Devi. Romil has potential if he doesn't become extreme like Dimpy or Pakhi.

Edited by Snowfally - 9 months ago
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Posted: 9 months ago
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Anupamaa is saying that she left Vanar after he abused her.....Does she suddenly remember and admit to his wrongdoing 😲

And does it even matter if she left. Considering she's a doormat even after leaving him. Kyunki rishta toda par saath chhoda nahi.... Oooo Anupamaaaaa 😳

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Posted: 9 months ago
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Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Anupamaa is saying that she left Vanar after he abused her.....Does she suddenly remember and admit to his wrongdoing 😲

And does it even matter if she left. Considering she's a doormat even after leaving him. Kyunki rishta toda par saath chhoda nahi.... Oooo Anupamaaaaa 😳

Lol with the way she behaves it does not look like she was ever abused by Vanar at all.

It looks like they just separated after having a choti moti ladai and MAA is using the puppy to teach him a lesson  😆

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Posted: 9 months ago
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Originally posted by: Criticiser

It’s funny how she would never cared about Adick and would always pester him when he was a good husband and now that he’s an abuser she suddenly loves him and tolerates the abuse that she once spewed on him!

Is she waiting for Adick to have EMA so that she can leave him just like her MAA left her Paa! 

Disgusting message this pathetic PH are showing I knew they would butcher this DV track by showing an educated girl like Pakhi being Mahaan and defending her abuser partner! 
Is this what they expect the next generation to follow vahiyat log 👎🏼

Paadhik whole track is basically them flipping. Maybe Makkhi knows that in the end she has to end up with him, following the example of her great mother, next in line bhabhi, bestie Kavya etc so she's just avoiding the hassle 🤪


@bold, don't you know the theme of this show? Educated women are either evil or dumb. Only one Soorajpamaa has the solutions to everything. Don't know what will happen but hope Adhik doesn't get away with this.... 

Edited by ShahH8er - 9 months ago
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Posted: 9 months ago
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It is wrong to tolerate abuse but it is okay to dance with your abuser. 

I would vomit out of the hypocrisy I witness in this show everyday... Not even watching but just reading updates makes me want to throw up...

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Posted: 9 months ago
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The problem with Anupama is she talks like some Mahila Mukti Morcha President and not like a Maa, she needed to talk to her daughter in private and hug her, comfort her, but she chooses Bhashan on Orat ye Orat wo, Tamasha in semi circle and dancing hands, loud voice

Her own kids are scared to share their life issues with her because no one knows how she would react and what would be her next step, irony that she is regarded as the greatest Maa whom other Moms look upto 🤯

Before calling Shahs she didn’t feel the need to talk to Pakhi in private, she didn’t feel the need to discuss this within closed doors

And her bhashans don’t even make any sense, tere papa ne mere pe haath uthaya tha, main 25 saal bina samman ke rahi mere saath ye hua maine ye saha, woman it’s not about you every time, you are standing dancing and celebrating with same abusers everyday, why bring your own example everytime as if its a benchmark, no self respecting woman is Anupama , no one behaves as gawar as her as insensitive and loud as her
She is so insensitive that infront of Anuj she keeps bringing her 25 saal ki abusive shadi every now and then and then say tere papa ne mere saath ye kiya, tere papa aur main tere saath hai, to baki sab wahan kya free ticket ka tamasha dekhne khade hain 😒
Adhik is at fault, but so is Pakhi, no one in this show is doodh ka dhula and don’t feel bad for anyone because tirn by turn every character turns negative and then turns positive overnight

I am wondering CA came to Maa to tie her tie and they were supposed to leave for school but now she has disappeared again because there is full on Tamasha going on, where is CA in all this TamaShah, isn’t she getting late for school 🤷🏻‍♀️

Schools generally start at 8 AM or max 9 AM, before that there was some breakfast drama at Shahs, Kavya went for Sonography and came back, Shahs reached Kapadia house, which means these people would generally get up and get ready by 6 AM and start their daily Tamasha Kalesh

Edited by Dee-Dee - 9 months ago
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Posted: 9 months ago
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Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

The problem with Anupama is she talks like some Mahila Mukti Morcha President and not like a Maa, she needed to talk to her daughter in private and hug her, confort her, but she chooses Bhashan on Orat ye Orat wo, Tamasha in semi circle and dancing hands, loud voice

Her own kids are scared to share their life issues with her because no one knows how she would react and what would be her next step, irony that she is regarded as the greatest Maa whom other Moms look upto 🤯

Before calling Shahs she didn’t feel the need to talk to Pakhi in private, she didn’t feel the need to discuss this within closed doors

And her bhashans don’t even make any sense, tere papa ne mere pe haath uthaya tha, main 25 saal bina samman ke rahi mere saath ye hua maine ye saha, woman it’s not about you every time, you are standing dancing and celebrating with same abusers everyday, why bring your own example everytime as if its a benchmark, no self respecting woman is Anupama , no one behaves as gawar as her as insensitive and loud as her
She is so insensitive that infront of Anuj she keeps bringing her 25 saal ki abusive shadi every now and then and then say tere papa ne mere saath ye kiya, tere papa aur main tere saath hai, to baki sab wahan kya free ticket ka tamasha dekhne khade hain 😒
Adhik is at fault, but so is Pakhi, no one in this show is doodh ka dhula and don’t feel bad for anyone because tirn by turn every character turns negative and then turns positive overnight

I am wondering CA came to Maa to tie her tie and they were supposed to leave for school but now she has disappeared again because there is full on Tamasha going on, where is CA in all this TamaShah, isn’t she getting late for school 🤷🏻‍♀️

Schools generally start at 8 AM or max 9 AM, before that there was some breakfast drama at Shahs, Kavya went for Sonography and came back, Shahs reached Kapadia house, which means these people would generally get up and get ready by 6 AM and start their daily Tamasha Kalesh

 

Bold :There you said it ❤️.

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Posted: 9 months ago
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Does Anupama think her going on and on about her past 'abuse' has any weight any more considering she is constantly running off to SH and calling Mr. Shah her BFF? Irony is she is asking Pakhi to leave Adhik when she herself hasn't managed to leave her Mr. Shah despite being married to Anuj!

CA is MIA again or poor child must have been sent with the driver for school just to take her out of the way so the Mahaan MAA can focus on her actual children. That girl is going to grow up to absolutely loathe Anupama. If they ever decide to go for a leap they should consider making her the villain, as that would make the most sense.

I want to have sympathy for Pakhi, I do but then I just remember this is the same girl who falsely accused Adhik and threatened suicide and MAA excused it as depression. Maybe she should attribute Adhik's behaviour to stress caused by her Mahaan presence in his personal and professional life.

Also why does Anupama keep making it about herself? We get it, you suffered, you were disregarded blah blah blah...just shut up now lady. You've ruined your dozen second chances over and over again. You've no right to speak about anything. Gosh even the written updates make me nauseous. No idea how the TRP audience tolerates this negative downer of a show.