Ranbir asks Alia to keep her voice low - Page 2

Originally posted by: Clochette

My question: Why does she tell negative things about Ranbir to the world?

She could have simply say that she has to learn to control anger and being kind even when unhappy without mentioning Ranbir on condition that she herself wants to do it.

Otherwise not mention it at all!

Also asking him things to show them to the world (like int the car) most probably annoys him (which she would know by now), so no wonder that he gives a mean answer.

At this rate, people after a while might just start sympathizing with RK 'coz she is just .. lol I can't even call her dumb as she is far from being one.

Did she ever say that she does it find cute or is it an assumption?

Because to me it sounds like snitching...or fishing for compliments/sympathy

Originally posted by: piya2025

To RK's misfortune Alia thinks it's cute 😆 & Alo is having her rangeen chashma on so its her misfortune that she actually thinks it's cute + she wants to show off her marriage status, her having a husband who was also her boyfriend (literally the way she puts it) to everywhere even when she doesn't have to talk about it.

At this rate, people after a while might just start sympathizing with RK 'coz she is just .. lol I can't even call her dumb as she is far from being one.

I'm getting there😆. I do think she's dumb. or at least blind in love as you said.

Originally posted by: HearMeRoar

I'm getting there😆. I do think she's dumb. or at least blind in love as you said.

Now, why I think she is not dumb is because there are many many reasons why I believe she's highly capable of playing dumb if situation demands her to act as one to get away from certain situations & it takes someone with brains to do that. Also, she's sly with her remarks.

But all this is getting funny. I hope her way to make others jealous, envy her doesn't end up rubbing her in laws in a wrong way.

I don't like her ways but I'm still a woman. I hope she gets her senses back before it starts to affect her mental health but if she is okay with these nonsense, Good for her, I guess. :)

Originally posted by: HearMeRoar

Armchair psychoanalysis:

She's not very bright and thinks these things look cute. Some of it is regular domestic friction when 2 people live together. A shouted "hey, keep it down, please" is not evidence of abuse no matter what social media thinks. But the way she portrays it as evidence of his love makes it seem creepy.

She makes it sound like it’s a mark of his saintly nature. That’s the problem.

Originally posted by: Clochette

Did she ever say that she does it find cute or is it an assumption?

Because to me it sounds like snitching...or fishing for compliments/sympathy

Get out of this marriage Aloo🤢 never let someone control you!!🥱 Ranbir is a misogynist person and humiliates every partner he has been with, in public eye as well.. (except Ayan ofcourse)…all substance no style..andar se woh ek typical small town Indian husband hai🤢

I am sorry but what exactly is wrong about what she said? People are just taking the piss now.. everything the guy says to her is scrutinised, even the ones that make sense.

I also think it is very important to stay respectful and kind to your partner even during arguments. That is actually one of the things I love about my fiance.. when we argue he is clearly annoyed but it still feels like we are a team and there is no you and me but us. That maturiy is required and what Ranbir said is in fact a very important trait we should all look for in our partners. Your partner should be the person you respect the most and don't want to raise your voice to while resolving any disagreement.

Originally posted by: DheeJattanDi

I am sorry but what exactly is wrong about what she said? People are just taking the piss now.. everything the guy says to her is scrutinised, even the ones that make sense.

I also think it is very important to stay respectful and kind to your partner even during arguments. That is actually one of the things I love about my fiance.. when we argue he is clearly annoyed but it still feels like we are a team and there is no you and me but us. That maturiy is required and what Ranbir said is in fact a very important trait we should all look for in our partners. Your partner should be the person you respect the most and don't want to raise your voice to while resolving any disagreement.

Like I said as long as the same rules apply to him when he is angry. But controlling volume during anger is hard. Kind of unconscious.

Originally posted by: Grumpydwarf24

Like I said as long as the same rules apply to him when he is angry. But controlling volume during anger is hard. Kind of unconscious.

Yeah obviously it should be mutual. Well, nobody said mature relationships are easy... but you'd be willing to learn and grow together if it is someone you truly care about and are committed to. So those are just much needed boundaries.