Who seems to be the more hard to handle saas?

Both are known for regressive views and being possessive of their sons. Both are outspoken. Both have been alleged to be behind break ups or broken first engagement of sons.

Shweta also says Abhishek is mom's fav child.

Both RK and AB Jr are close to parents and sisters.

Who, in your perception, based on reports, public image, hearsay, observation etc, seems to be the tougher to handle MIL?

Abhisekh turned out to be a relatively sorted man. I don’t recall any problematic interviews from him. Based on that, Jaya is probably a better MIL by a landslide.

Neetu atleast smiles

Abhishek is actually quite well raised. IDK if this is due to influence of only Jaya but also Amitabh and the Bachchan legacy.

He is less careless. Amitabh is also diplomatic mostly. I guess Abhishek gives less problematic interviews because his dad was also not unhinged in public like Rishi.

I personally feel people like Jaya ji are "on your face" kind of people. Once you know their good, bad..you can behave in a certain way to save yourself from wrath from people like her.

Neetu seems more like a meethi chhuri..she'll be sweet on your face and you never know what offended her until your pyaari nanad lectures you on hurting her mom.

Both are difficult but people like Neetu are more backstabbers kind of people.

Its just my personal opinion. I don't have a saas. My MIL died when my husband was young. Sometimes I wish I had a saas, others time I am thankful I don't have one.

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Originally posted by: atominis

Both are known for regressive views and being possessive of their sons. Both are outspoken. Both have been alleged to be behind break ups or broken first engagement of sons.

Shweta also says Abhishek is mom's fav child.

Both RK and AB Jr are close to parents and sisters.

Who, in your perception, based on reports, public image, hearsay, observation etc, seems to be the tougher to handle MIL?

Neetu 100%. Cannot see or hear of any wrong.

Jaya told off her son when she thought his roles were awful, and stuck up for Aishwarya a lot in public. I think she is more harder to handle because she gets uncomfortable quicker but I wouldn't say she's delusional.

Tough to say but I think jaya would be tougher mil to have because in case I don’t go by her rules. Yet Neetu is no less she can be meddling type

Neetu, only because she seems like she will be nice in your face and talk so badly behind your back and defend her son from doing the worst things. Jaya seems hard to handle and please at times but I don't think she is the type to deal with such nonsense. For example, if she doesn't like you, then she just doesn't. She won't be acting all coy and sweet in your face. That's just how I see them.

Originally posted by: atominis

Abhishek is actually quite well raised. IDK if this is due to influence of only Jaya but also Amitabh and the Bachchan legacy.

He is less careless. Amitabh is also diplomatic mostly. I guess Abhishek gives less problematic interviews because his dad was also not unhinged in public like Rishi.

No he isn’t “quite well-raised.” Both the siblings are IMPECCABLY brought up. From all accounts of everyone who has met/know them, publicly the way they behave + what the industry has to say about them. Many years ago, my father & I bumped into SBN at an iconic Delhi bookstore. The owner/manager was ofc totally fawning over her & after she got her queries sorted, she could see we were looking for books too so she nicely asked him to pls attend to us, I was a kid so she made general little convo with me too. Nothing was overt or forced, you could just see how well-brought up she is.