Arey the real truth only we know yar. Sabke saamne secret nahi kholne ka
Even Anupama moving on after claiming that she loved Vanraj for 26 years is very unrealistic for me. If Anuj proposed to her for marriage and adoption - she said yes. Did Anuj force her to say yes? She could have said no right? Uska khud ka dimaag nahi hai?
Now if anyone says to this deviji ki aap pagal hai kya and chaanta laga de toh?
@bold:
Moving on?
Kagajj par likh dene se........
Yaad nahin?
Even Anupama moving on after claiming that she loved Vanraj for 26 years is very unrealistic for me. If Anuj proposed to her for marriage and adoption - she said yes. Did Anuj force her to say yes? She could have said no right? Uska khud ka dimaag nahi hai?
Now if anyone says to this deviji ki aap pagal hai kya and chaanta laga de toh?
When everyone was trying to stop him, dheeraj bhai ne chata laga diya.
When same thing anupmaa aa doing, mujhe anuj ke pass jaana hai, behaving like mad person, tab devika di, uski pyari friend ne usse chata kyun nahi lagaya.
What was the diff.
Arey arey I remember everything.. But I have to give one comparison naa.. Sahi se dekha jaye toh there is nothing on deviji's side and yes Anuj's biggest mistake is to accept the designation of a cooli for deviji's baggage.
When everyone was trying to stop him, dheeraj bhai ne chata laga diya.
When same thing anupmaa aa doing, mujhe anuj ke pass jaana hai, behaving like mad person, tab devika di, uski pyari friend ne usse chata kyun nahi lagaya.
What was the diff.
Anuj, Maa nahin hain ne?
When everyone was trying to stop him, dheeraj bhai ne chata laga diya.
When same thing anupmaa aa doing, mujhe anuj ke pass jaana hai, behaving like mad person, tab devika di, uski pyari friend ne usse chata kyun nahi lagaya.
What was the diff.
Anupama is crying for Apna pati..Emphasis is on apna.. you know OWN
While Anuj was crying (according to some TT viewers: doing drama) for paraya bachchi...Emphasis is on paraya.. you know NOT OWN
While me:
No one is redefining sexism, the word already has a meaning and application
Dude people have been watching every episode, she has NOT been dividing time ss humanly possibly, she has igonored her husband and kid and spent 90% time with her exes. Making khichdi for ex mil while ignoring a 7 year old is not dividing time, its straight up neglect. She ignored her paralyzed husband to dance with her ex. She regularly emotionally cheats with her ex (and yes, cheating is not always physical)
Okay so that one incident where she chose kitchdi over CA was neglect but it's not Anupama was not reprimanded by Anuj for it..she was and she did hear it all. Even when she tried to defend to herself anuj shut her down and held her responsible. She didn't ignore her paralyzed husband to dance with anyone...this is pure fabrication. And there were times Anuj actually himself allowed anu to go Shah house and not to mention where he happily celebrated millions of festivals with them. So how come Anuj never said anything to Baa when she came crying to their door asking for anu to help. He just stood out there....where he knew anu won't have the courage to refuse but he didn't want to look like the villan.
Finally NO ONE has said anuj has haq over CA or maya should hand over CA. The point is about grief. Losing a child is a big big deal and people take time to get over it. One is not expected to rejoice and start celebrations in couple of day
Yes you are allowed to grieve your lost custody but this isn't just about this for Anuj...he very categorically told Anupama that she didn't put up a fight. But he refuses to accept that he too didn't do anything. There isn't just grief as far as anuj is concerned...it's more of a blame game for him...where according to him he is the biggest Saint...while in reality he snoozed all the way through
All anuj needed was time to grieve and support from wife, not to see his wife run over to shah house, abandoning him and celebrating holi
Yeah it was too early for Anupama to celebrate and she is clearly in the wrong here. Celebrations could and should have waited.
If a spouse cannot be with you in your worse times, that marriage is dead and anupama constantly abandoned anuj, when he was paralyzed, when he is grieving. She also abandoned CA at critical times, leaving her sleeping in car, giving Baa priority over her. At some point anyone's patience will end
She left CA in the car? Isn't that an assumption??
If anuj was ssssoooo thoughtful why didn't he ever share with anupama before he married her about his plans to foster a child?
P.S. the actor for Anuj has also clarified this point in the latest interview, it was all the neglect from Anupama over a long period of time which piled up for the character and not just one incident which caused the break up
The actor needs to defend his stand....that's not rocket science
Arey the real truth only we know yar. Sabke saamne secret nahi kholne ka
Isme kya secret. Sabko pata hai that the unpaid maid will always belong to Vanraj. Andhbhakts will not agree but their idol herself said that 26 saal ka rishta ek kaagaz ke tukde se nahi badalta. She married the simp just for money but the shah shanty was declared as her maayka much earlier so that she could stay with the two old hags, the defective Anuraj products AND Mishter Shah. She interfered in Vanya marriage while she was there and even after the sham Apmaan marriage, kept going back on the pretext of adult kids, as if they need breastfeeding. 🤣
What else anuj is suppose to do.. if he allows her to go to shahhouse. Ppl will say he wants to showoff as good person.. if he doesnt allow..he becomes bad person who divides mother and children.. kare tho kya kare insaan..
Anupama was told multiple times to draw boundaries.. time and again she deliberately chose shahhouse....anuj didnt let her fyki.. SHE CHOSE DESPITE ANUJ'S wishes..
Anupamaa left CA, Kinjal and precious Poti whilst they were asleep in a broken down car on the roadside just so she could rush to her princess Pakhi based on a premonition she had. She did not even bother to wake them up and inform them.
Similarly, she went to dance and make merry with the very same person who took her husband to the cliff and the supposed accident took place. This was all while Anuj was recovering from the paralysis that was caused as a result of Vanraj's actions but Anupamaa was having fun doing jhoola jhulna and rasams with him on the event of Poti's naamkaran.
These are actually scenes from the show and not assumptions. Please catch up on the prior episodes to understand where people's frustrations and comments emanate from instead of a generalised analysis. And this is not a clean chit for Anuj. His actions bear a degree of fault for which he is certainly responsible but that cannot mean Anupamaa always gets away under the garb of being bechaari.
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