I live in the West indies Trinidad to be exact my ancestors are from India. But even though they were from India their mindset and ideals are not of those that are shown on itv... Firstly all children must be educated equally and go out there to fulfill their careers... And when they get married the women are not expected to stay home.. They go out there and work and will get some one to see their children or place them in day care. Depending on your salary you can hire housekeepers. But even though we belong in a society that grants women liberties and freedom we still have a few that fall into the category of its a man's world and accept the nonsense but they are in the minority. I don't think I can be an astha.. My mouth is a bit to spicy.... I don't want my daughter having to choose career and love or marriage.. I didn't have to choose... I would like a positive message for the after marriage with shaurya and anoki.. As she enters his home and family...