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Hi guys aaj twitter pa yeh demand chal rahiđ
https://twitter.com/Harsh40465119/status/1400267588425318400?s=19
Ye tt walo ka logic đ
Hi guys aaj twitter pa yeh demand chal rahiđ
https://twitter.com/Harsh40465119/status/1400267588425318400?s=19
Ye tt walo ka logic đ
Originally posted by: lavs_157
I respect your opinions and feelings on this point Anuja. I always love reading your perspective.
But I also disagree here. On certain points.
Even I donât want Shaan to grow a spine overnight! But 25 years for an adult to clean up his act is not a short amount of time. He is even now, avoiding things, so that he can be in his comfort zone. It was clearly mentioned, not once but many times, by Aastha, by Shaurya, that Shaurya was forced to do this engagement/emotionally blackmailed into it. But, where is the outrage for his son? The outrage he showed today for his BMâs hurt feelings, Shagunâs feelings and yes Anokhiâs feelings. Where is the same outrage for his son? On behalf of his son?
As parents, Shaan and Aastha are equally responsible for what Shaurya went through. But, Shaan more so Coz he got a chance to be with his son, which Aastha never did, despite her attempts. And what did he do about it? Chose to ignore a 4 year old child for his grief. Parents have a responsibility to their child. They have the responsibility of making them feel happy, secure and loved. Coz it was not the childâs choice to come into this world, it was your choice to bring the child into this world. So if you canât hold the childâs hand and guide them, you donât be there for them when they need you the most. You do not get the right to get up and question them on their decisions and behavior one fine day. Coz when you could have laid the foundation for their thoughts, behaviors and habits, you were busy wallowing in your self pity. Basically you were selfish. Being a father and becoming a father are two entirely different things.
Like you said, he picked himself up. For Aastha. For the hope of getting her back. Fodlr Anokhi, he fought, he stood and I love him for that, will always love him for that. Yes, he did it for Aastha, but he also did for Anokhi. But, yes again a but. Just imagine how a son would feel. Who has been neglected his entire life by his parents, who never fought for him, fighting for an unknown girl. It must have shattered him. And unknowingly Anokhi became the target of his anger. But the people at fault were his parents. Both of them. And after that he wanted to start afresh with his wife. Good for him. I cheer him for that. But what about his son? Ever thought to start afresh with him? Nope! Aastha though disappointed in him, always knew how much he loved her. Did Shaurya ever get to know? Has he ever made Shaurya feel how much he loves him? He does, I have no doubt in that. But words and actions are important too.
I agree that in Goa he was a panicked concerned father. So, I would have also forgiven his behavior with Anokhi. If, he had once apologized to her, thanked her once post that. Even BM thanked het, though it was a veiled insult. Shaan did not even do that. Yes, his primary concern was for Shaurya then. But he should have found a moment later. I donât fault him for being weak. We all are. But what you do after that counts.
I understand his concerns about Shakhi relationship. But he does not get to use his mistakes and blunders in life as a crutch to guide his sons life. Especially in the matters of heart. He is till today dreaming about getting back with Aastha, but he expects Shaurya to give up his love, coz maybe, maybe Shakhi will have to go through what Shastha did? Coz maybe Shaurya will be left alone and Anokhi might have to leave her dreams? Yes, Sabarwals are vultures and they will create problems for Shakhi. But Shakhi are not Shastha. Shaurya is his own person. He is not Shaan. But he has never ever tried to understand his son. Or even try to know him.
Yes he tried to show his son mirror whenever he was wrong. And I applaud him for that. But did he appreciate him also? Letâs leave the 25 years for a bit. Letâs talk about now, has he ever sat down with Shaurya and trued to understand his feelings? His insecurities? The reason behind his anger and hate? Has he ever tried to talk to his son, to get to know him as a person? Shaurya did. Even with all the resentment and reservations he holds, when the divorce thing became final, he went to his father to see if he is ok, he tried to know if he is happy with this decision, he tried to know the reason behind his fathers change of heart, he tried to know if he was forced to it. But Shaan, just brushed him off rudely. Very rudely.
I understand his fear and concern for his son. His concern for Anokhiâs dreams, Shagunâs dignity. I also appreciate him taking Shaurya to task about not taking Anokhiâs consent before his outrageous act. I also know what he said about cheating Anokhi and Shagun is right in its place, coz thatâs how it looks, and even though Shaurya intended and tried several times to tell Anokhi about it, but couldnât. Intentions count, but consequences matter more. So yes, I am ok with him getting Angry on Shauryaâs impulsive decisions, but for once he could have at least tried to understand his son as well. His fears are not wrong. But expecting his son to live an unfulfilled life, for his fears are very very wrong. A child when it takes its first steps, falls s few times before learning to walk. No matter how much it hurts you, you let them fall, so that they canât run tomorrow. Shaan needs to stop putting the burden of his insecurities on Shaurya, Shaurya has plenty of his own.
See, I donât hate Shaan. I know at the core he is a very very good person, with good intentions. But, intentions donât count if the consequences are poor. Actions do. I know he is weak and we canât expect him to be strong in just one day. I donât want to also. But take the first step. Start somewhere.
If he expects Aastha to come back to him, Shaurya to respect him. He needs to earn it. He needs to work for it. He needs to step forward and try to understand them. Things donât magically fall in place in life, you have to work very hard for it. The outrage he shows for others, he needs to show for his son. For him to believe that he cares. Before demanding answers from Shaurya, he needs to do his part in answering his son. I havenât given up on him, but I canât support him right now.
Phew! Sorry for the long essay as always. I understand your point of view Anuja, and I also know that you are right in your own way. I always respect it. But, right now for me, Shaan needs to at least make a small step of progress, for me to be able to see his side. I canât right now. I am so sorry! And very sorry for the long rant. Hope you donât get tired of me. đđđđ
All of this đ
You know how strongly I feel about Shaanâs treatment of Shaurya!! Thank you for verbalizing it all on one post!
Where is this Shaan? Listen to the third part: https://www.instagram.com/p/CPkldsgBvdD/?utm_medium=copy_link
Weâve seen BTS and a KV live (yesterday), where he was shooting with Babli and Ahir. This morning there was a BTS of him and Anokhi. I guess, from Swardhaâs live, sheâll be returning for shoots soon.
She did keep repeating that the show was not going off-air and that there was lots of drama coming up.
Someone actually said to her not to separate SS and AB for which she just said âhmmmm.â .... interpret what you will about that! đ She just refused to give any spoilers.
@bold: Thatâs the whole point of her character...to separate ShaKhi. Itâs just a nice way to tell her to leave the show!
Originally posted by: Mona_988
Why deba keep reposting KV 's story nowdays đ¤Łđ¤Ł
Ye naya shuru kiya hai đ
Jab ready ready mil raha hai, to khud takleef kaun karta hai đ
Originally posted by: mallukumari
All of this đ
You know how strongly I feel about Shaanâs treatment of Shaurya!! Thank you for verbalizing it all on one post!
Where is this Shaan? Listen to the third part: https://www.instagram.com/p/CPkldsgBvdD/?utm_medium=copy_link
I know. I know you will understand where I am coming from.
I had and probably have a lot of hopes from Shaan Anju. Especially after this clip you shared. He is the first one to tell Shaurya that donât give a damn to Sabarwals, coz they donât give a dam about anyoneâs feelings, stand by Shagun.
And look at him now, he has done a 180. Give up on your love, coz maybe you will fail. What???
The Shaan I loved in the first 30-50 episodes has disappeared and replaced by a bot.
I love that Anuja still has the capacity to give him a chance and have expectations of change from him. I love her optimism. But right now, I canât find my optimism for Shaan. Not until he proves me wrong.
Uff hai zabardasti ke hasi and hug on SS đ¤Łđ¤Ł woh CS engagement tod diya relationship nahi rhe phir hug chaiya.
Hi guys aaj twitter pa yeh demand chal rahiđ
https://twitter.com/Harsh40465119/status/1400267588425318400?s=19
TT
Originally posted by: pratikshaa100
Jab ready ready mil raha hai, to khud takleef kaun karta hai đ
twitter pe toh karti hi thi ...aajkal insta pe bhi shuru ho gai đ¤Łđ¤Ł.
Btw apka question pocha gaya hai KV se new interview mein đ
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