Shaurya's Soch - Page 3

Originally posted by: Idiotboxer

Anokhi and Aastha are the only two people who want to change Shaurya's soch and partly understand where it is coming from but they are pushing him too much. 

Anokhi knows that Shaurya has to change his perspective on his mother to change his soch but she has put it as a condition which he is trying to fulfill in any way possible to get her. If Shaurya had to listen to her it had to be out of respect for her and not because he wants to have her any which way. In his desperation he took her words in a different meaning and went to get Aastha back to SM.

Aastha instead of sitting him down and making him understand what Anokhi meant just directed him to understand Anokhi. She should have appreciated his efforts. When her son had come to her she should have tried to clear things out starting with an apology from her end and an acknowledgment of his pain.

Shaurya needs to understand Aastha for the woman she is, then only he will understand the mother and only then will he understand that her perspective was not wrong. When it comes to Aastha, Shaurya is doesn't try to open his mind. No matter how level headed he is regarding other matters. He cannot think about her calmly. That is where Anokhi and Aastha herself have to help him out instead of making him a pingpong ball or shuttlecock or whatever.

This will just be the beginning. Rest will happen with time.

That's true.. 

While Anokhi does believe that she Soch cannot change but not even trying more to help Shaurya fulfill her condition is confusing... This should just not be a condition! That's all... 

Let Astha deal with her relationship with Shaurya.. She is the right person to be the one to make it better... Anokhi can actually only focus on issues relevant to her... Like career or something... With regards to soch... 

He was totally frustrated, and who wouldn't be, to become a ping pong ball between two ziddi ladies... 😭

Shaurya's soch has to have a root, including Badi Maa's manipulation... Which has to be really literally uprooted and regrown at 30! It's not easy and cannot be completed by a condition... 

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

That's true.. 

While Anokhi does believe that she Soch cannot change but not even trying more to help Shaurya fulfill her condition is confusing... This should just not be a condition! That's all... 

Let Astha deal with her relationship with Shaurya.. She is the right person to be the one to make it better... Anokhi can actually only focus on issues relevant to her... Like career or something... With regards to soch... 

He was totally frustrated, and who wouldn't be, to become a ping pong ball between two ziddi ladies... 😭

Shaurya's soch has to have a root, including Badi Maa's manipulation... Which has to be really literally uprooted and regrown at 30! It's not easy and cannot be completed by a condition... 

There's lot Shaurya needs to unlearn and then learn. It's clearly he will not do anything unless pushed to. Here i feel Anokhi condition is much needed and is serving as catalyst for Shaurya to start his jourmey of CHANGE, and for sure it has to start with him understanding Astha, which will pave way for him to get rid of all that bottled anger inside him.