Anupamaa looses it top spot in TRP Chart this week 😔 - Page 3

I think people are not liking makers showing Vanraj as good and Kavya all wrong and family saying to Anupama to not to divorce Vanraj. Because it’s more of vanraj decision that destroyed everyone’s life. His decisions cannot be justified in any case. They can’t always show Baa, dolly and Pakhi blaming Kavya for everything. Moreover, we are fed up from Anupamas mahanta lecture. She needs to be practical. She cannot promise or take care of her sautan. Even the hug scene between Anupama and Vanraj was way stupid thing. How can Anupama befriends with the person who betrayed her for 9 years.

Even they are showing kavya as weak while she was shown as a strong and logical character from starting. So makers should understand these points. We want practical Anupama giving back good replies to Baa or Vanraj. Stop this stupid tolerance. Yes, initially TRPs were good but it became number one when she started giving back replies rather than caring about vanraj or baa or Kavya. Now it’s high time for her to take care of her life.

Tumor track was way stupid. You don’t get a tumor suddenly. There are symptoms and everything. It’s not like this so people are not liking this. Most people would have related better if it would have been an ovary cist or breast cancer than this.

Originally posted by: Rohil.ban12

I think people are not liking makers showing Vanraj as good and Kavya all wrong and family saying to Anupama to not to divorce Vanraj. Because it’s more of vanraj decision that destroyed everyone’s life. His decisions cannot be justified in any case. They can’t always show Baa, dolly and Pakhi blaming Kavya for everything. Moreover, we are fed up from Anupamas mahanta lecture. She needs to be practical. She cannot promise or take care of her sautan. Even the hug scene between Anupama and Vanraj was way stupid thing. How can Anupama befriends with the person who betrayed her for 9 years.

Even they are showing kavya as weak while she was shown as a strong and logical character from starting. So makers should understand these points. We want practical Anupama giving back good replies to Baa or Vanraj. Stop this stupid tolerance. Yes, initially TRPs were good but it became number one when she started giving back replies rather than caring about vanraj or baa or Kavya. Now it’s high time for her to take care of her life.

Tumor track was way stupid. You don’t get a tumor suddenly. There are symptoms and everything. It’s not like this so people are not liking this. Most people would have related better if it would have been an ovary cist or breast cancer than this.

Moreover, I am also seeing Ghum hai kisi ke pyaar main. So I think though their TRp went because of Virat getting hit by bullet but mainly what people are liking in that serial is Sai is not mahan. She and some family members replies back to Pakhi, kaku and others who say something to them. Specially Sai she bash them very badly and practically she replies to Pakhi. That’s what people are liking.

And in Anupama how can they show Anupama and vanraj as friends when Vanraj never liked her from starting and vanraj betrayed her. How can they show the previous lovey dovey moments while vanraj never wanted such wife. So they need to be practical from that point.

Now star plus instagram mein anupama aur vanraj ke beech sweet moment nahin dikha rahe hain now they are promoting old clips how vanraj badly treated anupama

You also do realise that India at the moment is going through an extremely bad stage of Covid Crisis. It is possible that less people are watching because people are possibly disturbed with cases in their home or neighbourhood etc. If another show has taken the Top spot, it could be that their ardent viewers are ok? There could be so many reasons for why the viewership has reduced.

As for Anupamaa making promises to Kavya. Well, the upper hand in this divorce or the whole situation was literally in Anupamaa’s hand. It would all go the way she would choose. She knew this from day one. Anupamaa has made it clear that she is not Kavya’s friend. She does not care for her like she cares for her family members. I don’t think they are showing any Sautan Bani Saheli track whatsoever. The promise she made to Kavya was of her promise to divorce Vanraj. Which we knew would happen regardless. I guess the wording could have been better. It did sound like she said Vanraj would definitely be hers after the divorce - which she cannot say for him. But I personally also saw Anupamaa’s promise as a promise to “divorce” Vanraj. For Kavya always asked Anupamaa if she would not back out last minute.

You have to consider that for Anupamaa the promise was that she will divorce Vanraj, but this for Kavya was implied that Vanraj would be hers.

Yes, at times she has reprimanded Vanraj and advised him that he should fulfil his part of the promise made to Kavya. Why should she not, after all it was for her that he forsake all his relationships. He left his family for her and now all of a sudden he wants to leave her and come back to his family.

Have we not all from the beginning said that Vanraj should definitely get with Kavya so he can suffer. Then, why is this prospect suddenly looking so bad because Anupamaa is the one initiating.

Yes, in our world women like Anupamaa does not exist. Wives who are betrayed and cheated on do not behave this way. Most people are hostile usually. This does not need to mean that objectively all women must be the same.

While most of you are too focused on the idea of what seems realistic or not, I always forget that such concern is even relevant. For, at the end of the day, it is a fictional show. It is creating a representation of situations that it thinks can be handled in a certain way. It is not claiming that actually this is how the reality is... No! This does not need to be SPELLED out.

Anupamaa wants peace in her life and she wants to retain most things that has been part of her life. She wants her connection with her family to remain and she does not want that connection to break a tie that Vanraj has from his side. If that means that she is civil with her ex-husband’s future wife, then that’s a choice she makes. She is choosing to swallow the agony and pain associated with that experience. Obviously because she values what will remain to her more. Anupamaa is not being a Mahan lady - she is going for what is important to her and for that she is making some sacrifices. Our existence is nothing but a series of sacrifices. We as south Asians know this very well. In most corner of our life, we want something but we know it would change the dynamic.

Anupamaa would have been a Mahan lady if she actually had forgiven Vanraj and took him back.

You as a person find it hard to digest Anupamaa’s faculty of reason as unacceptable or beyond your comprehension. This may mean that you are not as patient or thoughtful as she is. You may not be able to be this way or other people are usually not, but this does not mean that no one can be.

Remember, what you say about someone usually says a lot about you too!

Best wishes,

The Philosopher.

Its because of the dragging of episodes not because of Mahanta its really annoying how they dragging it just get divorced and the shows the new track. Anupamaa should adopt Kavya

https://www.pinkvilla.com/tv/news-gossip/anupamaa-vanraj-and-anupama-s-divorce-trends-twitter-fans-share-endless-jokes-and-memes-734010

Originally posted by: ThePhilosopher

As for Anupamaa making promises to Kavya. Well, the upper hand in this divorce or the whole situation was literally in Anupamaa’s hand. It would all go the way she would choose. She knew this from day one. Anupamaa has made it clear that she is not Kavya’s friend. She does not care for her like she cares for her family members. I don’t think they are showing any Sautan Bani Saheli track whatsoever. The promise she made to Kavya was of her promise to divorce Vanraj. Which we knew would happen regardless.

Lol seems like you are newbie😆Woh episode dekha tha jab anupama darrii si, sehmii si kavya ko apni godi mai sula rahi thi??!!!!!! Woh episode dekha tha jab pyar se haqq jata kar kavya ko thappad mara tha suicide attempt ke liye??? lol koi suicide kare to ap usko bataoge ki yeh galat hai overacting kar k dramebaz bann kar slap nahi karte unko jisko ap apna dushman bolte ho😆That slap was very very drametic part to see hehehehe.

Agar sautan ko goddi mai sulate hue dikhayege to hum bolege he na sautan bani saheli...hahahah🤣

I guess the wording could have been better. It did sound like she said Vanraj would definitely be hers after the divorce - which she cannot say for him. But I personally also saw Anupamaa’s promise as a promise to “divorce” Vanraj. For Kavya always asked Anupamaa if she would not back out last minute.

Anupama did dhaga promise that she will divorce vanraj but after divorce vanraj would definitely be kavya's that is too much with the words kavya ki khushio ka vaada 😆After divorce yeh bhi ho sakta hai vanraj ko kavya se shaddi nahi karni hai and break up karna hai. He can do this and nobody should become relationship counselor about how vanraj should act with kavya.

Yes, at times she has reprimanded Vanraj and advised him that he should fulfil his part of the promise made to Kavya. Why should she not, after all it was for her that he forsake all his relationships. He left his family for her and now all of a sudden he wants to leave her and come back to his family.

Why should she????? is she relationship counselor???? Looking at kavya's psycho behavior in kinjal's wedding, nandini's engagement and samar's jail visit, it is also possible vanraj doesn't want kavya in his life anymore. May be he has change of heart and mind both!!! Break up is every individual's right. With all the rights anupama can take divorce with vanraj same way with all the right vanraj can decide what and how he wants to react in his relationship with kavya. In fact break up is kavya's right too if she uses her brain, she needs to breakup with vanraj.

Have we not all from the beginning said that Vanraj should definitely get with Kavya so he can suffer. Then, why is this prospect suddenly looking so bad because Anupamaa is the one initiating.

Vanraj suffers or not that is completely secondary thing. Primary thing is anupama's freedom from torture marriage. Anupama will get divorce as per her wish ,now after this vanraj marry kavya or not that is none's business and how vanraj and kavya should act in their relationship is also none of anyone's business. Anupama was betrayed, tortured and faced mental harassment so she deserves freedom and her wish is granted but what should vanraj do or how he should act in his relationship with kavya is definitely not anupama's business. Just because she is giving divorce or leaving house for these 2, it wouldn't give her license to decide vanraj should marry kavya. Definitely anupama is very irritating and all the people in the world are irritating who can't mind with their own business.

Anupamaa would have been a Mahan lady if she actually had forgiven Vanraj and took him back.

Lol anupama is courageous who choose not to took him back but definitely she is mahanta ki murat who was ready to stay with kavya under the same roof once upon a time and stayed too. there is line in between being civil and being mahan. Apko accha banne ka shokh hai iska matlab yeh nahi ki sautan ko ghar mai rehne le aao or woh bhi bina soche ki aap ke apne bacche baap ki girlfriend ko ghar mai dekh kar kya feel karege🤢

Abhi is Week to makers ne time dikhaya

Day before yesterday they show 9pm

Then yesterday they type 5.30 am

Now today they show anupama now it is 6 am

Then after it is said now it is 7 am

Now tommorow 8 am honge

Saturdday ko 8.30 am sikhayenge

Finally Monday ko 9 am to ho hi jaayega aur judge ki divorce ka stamp B bhi lag jaayega

Abhi 9 am bajnen mein 4 din baaki

Star plus ko yeh bhi promote karna chahiye ki 4 days to go clock strike at 9 am

Pata nahin kya j when ndia ne freedom milne wali thi tub ek line kahi gayi when clock strike at 12 am

Mujhe wohi lag raha shayad makers usi ko follow kar rahe hat when clock strike at 9 am

@sweet_tania

I am not a newbie, I have been watching the show since day one. I may have missed a episode or two, but I have pretty much watched all episodes.

When Anupamaa was consoling Kavya after the attack - letting her rest on her lap - for you it may have been a matter of mahanta (over greatness). But there is a concept of being ‘objective’. This is putting aside your subjectivity (your experience) and taking a situation from a different perspective. Anupamaa did that from a point of view of a woman. Not from the point of view of a wife who had been cheated by her husband with this woman. Now this may seem problematic for such women, but to be a human is to be a being, a faculty, capable of perceiving the world different perspectives. We have judges who are able to sit on a chair and just judge and not let their personal feelings and emotions get in the way. We have parents who are able to still love their children regardless how hurt they have been. Yes, you may feel that that is dependent on situations, but for I what is important is that it is POSSIBLE for a human to do that.

You remember very well the kind of kindness she showered on Kavya. But most times she also reprimanded her, slapped her, rebuked her and what not.

I have already admitted that Anupamaa does not exactly have the right to say on Vanraj’s behalf what he should do. There’s no argument there. But I am deep down happy that if she manages to trap Vanraj with Kavya then he would be getting what he asked for exactly. I guess I am thinking maliciously, but I still would like Vanraj to get his treatment.

It is not as if in our culture, there has been no such thing as living under the same roof with your sautan. A man had many wives, though more so in the past, but that concept is not alien. Is it? Yes, times may have changed and we live in a progressive century, but it is not the case that such things do not happen still.

People/Characters can be as they like. Being a human is to be radically free, as Sartre says. There is no objective nature for humans. Phenomenology has literally alienated every being from one and another. You think you know people and you think there are is a particular way to be. But this is nonsense.

Even if Anupamaa intentionally and consciously aims to be mahan. What exactly is the issue? There is a concept of ‘transcendence’ in philosophy - though it is widely described and explained - it can be said to be an idea where one goes beyond their worldly limitations. We are limited by our feelings and emotions as they impact what we do and say. It is quite clear from your perspective that you could not possibly do what Anupamaa does nor do I expect you to or others. But if Anupamaa as a conscious being aims to rise above her challenging mental states and achieve some kind of a ‘transcendence’ - go above and beyond her ordinary feelings and do something that require a strong will power, then what exactly is the issue?

We are not all the same. Phenomenology has made that quite clear. Being-in-the-world is nothing but an experience of a totality of possibilities, whereby literally anything is absolutely possible.

Best wishes,

The Philosopher

I think so it'll be back to #1 again, since they are going to get divorce now. And the other show had major reunion of leads too, so high TRP of them was expected too. In Anupamaa, they dragged this before divorce scenario little bit, but no problem, now they are going to show it finally, and then it can #1 too, since this was one of the most awaited moments.