AniKa are more platonic than AnuRaj

For a change, really liked the way Aniruddh reacted to Kavya being upset. Frankly their separation seems more amicable than AnuRaj. Its primarily because Aniruddh likes Kavya for the person she is and not because she can come running to him when he shouts "Anupamaa... Chai!"

Also they don't have messy relatives like meddling and complicating things for them. I personally feel AnuRaj would have patched up, had Vanraj not spoilt things with his ego. He realized Anupamaa's value a tad too late.

Kavya is despicable but also right when she says that the EMA is not just her doing, its equally Vanraj's fault. But everyone blames her and forgets everything when it comes to Vanraj.

PS apart from AniKa discussions, the "I love you" enactment between RakhLee was awesome too. Finally Naagin aur Sapere ki dosti ho gayi!! 🤗🤗

Anika are more platonic, may be because their relationship was not toxic and they were friends before they got married and they had mutual respect which is not the case with AnuRaj, infact now also whatever platonic relation they are sharing is because of the efforts of Anu.

Also Annirudh still loves Kavya and hence he is always there for her. But I feel going forward, AnuRaj will have a more platonic relation because they have kids together and will always have a connection, which is not the case with AniKa.

I feel anirudh and kavya are a much younger couple compared to anuraj. They are modern in their thinking , in handling things in lives, i don't think either has a joint family.

Whereas anuraj got married when they were way too young, have joint families which is definitely not a bad thing at all, built their way up in their lives through hardwork and strain being a middle class family, strived through the hardhsips of their early life for the growth of their family hand in hand. Both anu and vanraj are completely family oriented persons which is a very good thing and each have their own thinking. But has always come together when it came to their family. Not all families are bad.

The family also loves them back equally. Recently we got a glimpse of their early days of marriage and some flashback narration which moved us to tears. They had if not the best but a decent and some unknown magic in their relationship.

So if anirudh and kavya are divorcing amicably it is bcoz anirudh and kavya can move on and think for themselves in a flash . But anupamaa and vanraj are oriented with their family and the family is oriented with them. They are inseparable and to find such ppl and amazing family who love each other is rare in this time of modern world. So i would not say they are messy relatives bcoz as anupamaa said in their journey they were not alone their whole family was with them. And u find happiness only when u nurture relations and not when u destroy it like kavya.

Originally posted by: yuvanaa

I feel anirudh and kavya are a much younger couple compared to anuraj. They are modern in their thinking , in handling things in lives, i don't think either has a joint family.

Whereas anuraj got married when they were way too young, have joint families which is definitely not a bad thing at all, built their way up in their lives through hardwork and strain being a middle class family, strived through the hardhsips of their early life for the growth of their family hand in hand. Both anu and vanraj are completely family oriented persons which is a very good thing and each have their own thinking. But has always come together when it came to their family. Not all families are bad.

The family also loves them back equally. Recently we got a glimpse of their early days of marriage and some flashback narration which moved us to tears. They had if not the best but a decent and some unknown magic in their relationship.

So if anirudh and kavya are divorcing amicably it is bcoz anirudh and kavya can move on and think for themselves in a flash . But anupamaa and vanraj are oriented with their family and the family is oriented with them. They are inseparable and to find such ppl and amazing family who love each other is rare in this time of modern world. So i would not say they are messy relatives bcoz as anupamaa said in their journey they were not alone their whole family was with them. And u find happiness only when u nurture relations and not when u destroy it like kavya.

When you say loving family, I give you the benefit of doubt that you have not been watching the show since day 1. The only Loving here has been Anupamaa loving her family and nothing else.

Most of the fear of the people wanting to save AnuRaj's marriage originates from the fact that the person who will replace Anupamaa is much worse (in your words, moves on and thinks about herself in a flash), which is not the right reason at all.

Had Kavya been someone who got along well with Pakhi, would have impressed Leela and had not caused interruptions in Paritosh's marriage (none of which suggests she is a nice person), she would have had more support from them.

Remember how Pakhi and Paritosh wanted her to double up as Vanraj's wife on different occasions and Leela favoured anyone but Anupamaa???

She has been through literal fire to gain approval of these people.

Kinjal and Samar, who genuinely think about Anupamaa do not support her withdrawing the divorce at all.

And if Vanraj said, he will never divorce Anupamaa, even before he fell for Kavya, it was not because of love but because of the utilities she served for him, one day of tea service missed and she was kicked out of the house by Vanraj with almost everyone supporting this.

Loving family?? Really??

I agree. I started watching the show in between. But u can't deny the fact that writers have made the family love anu now . they have been showing good old memories now.

I never mentioned in any place that she should not divorce vanraj. I just said more than kavya anirudh , anupamaa and vanraj are oriented with their family which they love completely.

Even though after having so much of bitterness anupamaa and vanraj r ready to part ways on a good note bcoz of anu's efforts and vanraj's acceptance of her efforts.

That is not the case with kavya. She is behaving like a complete maniac. If u can see the diff bw the kavya who was shown an independent and smart woman and a desperate vamp now and u can accept , then i think u also need to accept the fact that shah family members who insulted and tortured anu have now started loving anu. By loving family i meant the current scenario. And in every individual's life a turning point comes where he or she realises his sins and mistakes. The sooner it comes the better.

No offense but i am just commenting my views here.

I cannot tell much about anika relation ship because from begining of serial se hi aniruddh and kavya ke beech jyaada scene dikhaya hi nahin

Hardly there is 6,7 scene between kavya and aniruddh till now and more over they have not shown Past mein relation kaise they from where problem is arise

Originally posted by: yuvanaa

I agree. I started watching the show in between. But u can't deny the fact that writers have made the family love anu now . they have been showing good old memories now.

I never mentioned in any place that she should not divorce vanraj. I just said more than kavya anirudh , anupamaa and vanraj are oriented with their family which they love completely.

Even though after having so much of bitterness anupamaa and vanraj r ready to part ways on a good note bcoz of anu's efforts and vanraj's acceptance of her efforts.

That is not the case with kavya. She is behaving like a complete maniac. If u can see the diff bw the kavya who was shown an independent and smart woman and a desperate vamp now and u can accept , then i think u also need to accept the fact that shah family members who insulted and tortured anu have now started loving anu. By loving family i meant the current scenario. And in every individual's life a turning point comes where he or she realises his sins and mistakes. The sooner it comes the better.

No offense but i am just commenting my views here.

If you have watched the show from between, you must have not seen how many times Kavya has wanted to break up the relationship and Vanraj has asked her to stay back, giving excuses that went as far as the fact that AnuRaj don't sleep together anymore.

Kavya has had to give up many things including ownership of her flat. Vanraj has always kept her as his backup and never let her reconcile with Aniruddh, while he tried to do the same with Anupamaa multiple times. Right now she has nothing to her name except Vanraj so her desperation is understandable, except that she is misunderstanding and trying to hurt Anupamaa.

I would really not mind if she gives back to Leela, Pakhi and Paritosh what they deserve.

Also joint families may be great in general, but this family is totally not symbiotic and has been carried on Anupamaa's shoulders and she has not been given credit for it. Some months of good treatment just to stop her from leaving do not compensate for years of mental torture.

I don't know why the CVs are trying to humanize Vanraj by showing that he was a nice person in flashbacks but it will not work for people who have seen the entire run of the show till now.

Agree. Even i do not understand why CVs achaanak want to whitewash vanraj. I said this is in an elaborate post of mine during that mahashivratri episode. Well i just kept my views here. Not intended to fight over this 😂😂👍👍

This baa rakhi and pakhi want anu for their own selfish and comfort

Itna hi pyaar tha anu se to 25 years se kyon nahin hua. Why suddenlly love emerge for anu after 25 year when anu always respect baa and uncondtinaly love pakhi for many years

Kyonki baa ko pata hai jitni seva anupama vanraj ki

kar payegi kavya to vanraj ki seva karne wali hai nahin . Aur kavya na baa ki seva karegi

Jahaan baa anupama ko force karti thi ki vanraj ko khana parso wahaan kavya to parasne wali nahin vanraj ko

To baa isliye doing buttering of anupama taaki anupama vanraj ko divorce na de aur anupama aagey bhi vanraj ki sewaa kar ti rahe aur apni seva karati rahe

Baa ne kabhi vanraj aur and anupama ke relation ship ko improve karne ki koshish nahin ki. Bina baat ke dono baa and vanraj anupama ko blame aur scold karte they

These baa and pakhi still thinking about their own happines both are so stubborn and fake

Anupama many time tell to baa now relation ship is over but still baa go on wishhing not divorce

And pakhi apart from stubborn and selfish she is so fake she tell anu and vanraj she has accept their divorce and want to spend time together with parents till divorce

Now she is planning to stop divorce between anu and vanraj??

Both baa and pakhi has zero care for anu feeling