not in the right state of mind

i never support pakhi ki batameez but my question is kya yeh right time thaa to shout on her in front of all ? or give her lecture if you asked me i would say "NO" because pakhi is not in the right state of mind here she need love not lecture

i totally agree what Anupama said even cant agree more but anupama timing first time i feel was not right the girl who never get lecture on her batameez properly initially and her whole life she get pampered and fulfill her all demands and she get attention more then any child in that house if she start feeling insecure that she loosing the that position or she is not getting enough attention which she use to get, any girl would react the same way pakhi does first time i didnt feel she was wrong

agar starting se samjha ya hota pakhi ko shayad she wouldnt react the way she reacted today

here i will blame vanraj and anupama both vanraj because she never stop pakhi when she use to misbehave with anupama then why he react today ? even anupama she never use to say a word when pakhi use to humiliate her soo badly

jis cheez ke liye she never get shouted or lecture ofcourse she will do that again and again

instead anupama should asked her what happened why she reacted that way may be anupama get clear picture what kavya trying to do .

for pakhi her father is her real hero if some one tell you she will separate u from your real hero pakhi ne toh coke paka sirf mein shayad push bhi kar dete

agar kisi ne pakhi ko usske batameezi ke liye confront kiya woh sirf kinjal thi

anupama always take strong stand against wrong but when things comes on her child like pakhi and toshu i feel she become weak or she dont want to correct them

iam not saying she never stop them doing wrong she did but not the way she correct rakhi , vanraj and kavya

Yes anupama's timing was wrong.

I also never liked when anupama never taught her daughter to respect her when pankhi used to humiliates her. Anupama never told pakhi that i am your mother, behave yourself.

Kinjal had done anupama's job much before anupama by sternly talking with pankhi when pakhi was misbehaving with kinjal . Pakhi tried her best to misbehave with kinjal the same way she misbehaves with her own mother but kinjal voiced it on perfect time and din't allow her to disrespect her any more.

Anupama ne pakhi ko kabhi nai sikhaya ki apni maa ki izzat karni chahiye, maa se respectfully baat karna chahiye and na he sahi galat ka fark sikhaya isiliye ye ladki mooh utha kar uske baap and apni maa ke sautan ke ghar rehne gayi thi.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Yes anupama's timing was wrong.

I also never liked when anupama never taught her daughter to respect her when pankhi used to humiliates her. Anupama never told pakhi that i am your mother, behave yourself.

Kinjal had done anupama's job much before anupama by sternly talking with pankhi when pakhi was misbehaving with kinjal . Pakhi tried her best to misbehave with kinjal the same way she misbehaves with her own mother but kinjal voiced it on perfect time and din't allow her to disrespect her any more.

Anupama ne pakhi ko kabhi nai sikhaya ki apni maa ki izzat karni chahiye, maa se respectfully baat karna chahiye and na he sahi galat ka fark sikhaya isiliye ye ladki mooh utha kar uske baap and apni maa ke sautan ke ghar rehne gayi thi.

there are some scene where i wish anupama just slap her for that thing but as always she disappoint me by not taking strong stand against pakhi ki batameeze

slap thoo uss din pakhi ko padne chahiye thi jis din pakhi ne kavya ko apne mom bana kar school le kar gaye thi

but yaha big mistake vanraj ki bhi han becoz vanraj never respect anupama and in front of kid he use to humiliates anupama

and anupama ne kabhi strong stay na le kar indirect pakhi ko shey diya

Pakhi ka yahi hota hai jub baat uske favour mein nahin hoti hai to right state of mind mein nahin hoti hai

Aaj to kavya ne pakhi ko provoke kiya to islye woh right state of mind nahin thi but isse pehle kisi ne pakhi ko provoke nahin kiya tub bhi pakhi rudely behave karti hai

Aaj anupama ne sirf pakhi ko hi nahin kavya, vanraj aur pakhi teeno ko galat bola hai aur teeno ka hi favour mein bhi bola aisa nahin anupama ne koi partiality ki ho . Anupama aaj neutral ho ke baat ki aaj . Jo jahaan galat tha anupama ne usko point out kiya aur jo jahan sahi tha usko bhi point out kiya

And anupama did scold pakhi and toshu for misbehaving with her when pakhi and toshu insult anupama that u r only 12 th pass so kinjal 's mother meri aur kinjal ki shaadi nahin hone dengi to isliye aapko kinjal ki mom ke samne nahin bulaya then anupama said maa k qualification nahin dekhi jaati

And when pakhi start fighting to anupama when after accident vanraj said that he will marry kavya then pakhi start blaming anupama that because of her not for giving her husband papa ghar chodna chahte hai

Then anupama get irritated tum kya yeh bhool jaati ho ki main tumhari maa hoon. U Dont know how to talk to elder. Tub pakhi chup ho gayi but agle din phir se wohi pakhi ka naatak shuru ho gaya

Pakhi aur toshu to anupama ki baat ek kaan se sunte hain aur doosre kaan se nikal te hain

Bus dono pakhi aur toshu apni matlab ki baat sunte hain

Aaj vanraj aur kavya ne pakhi ko scold, provoke kiya to pakhi anupama ke paas aa gayi

Aur kal ko anupama pakhi ko scold karegi aur vanraj aur kavya pakhi ke favour karenge to pakhi phir se kavya aur vanraj ke paas chali jaayegi

Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

there are some scene where i wish anupama just slap her for that thing but as always she disappoint me by not taking strong stand against pakhi ki batameeze

slap thoo uss din pakhi ko padne chahiye thi jis din pakhi ne kavya ko apne mom bana kar school le kar gaye thi

but yaha big mistake vanraj ki bhi han becoz vanraj never respect anupama and in front of kid he use to humiliates anupama

and anupama ne kabhi strong stay na le kar indirect pakhi ko shey diya

Exactly! Anupama ke hath ka slap to ussi din Pakhi ki padna chahiye tha jab Kavya ko apni mom bana kar school le kar gayi thi .

Apni mother ko humiliate and disrespect karne ka pakhi ne ek mauka nai choda tha still anupama ne kabhi sternly nai samajaya so pakhi ne same badtameezi kinjal ke sath bhi start kiya.

I was shocked when she said papa kyun khana banaye?!!!!! Kitna ghatiya soch hai teenager ka jaha mother ko naukar jaise woh treat karti hai, bhabhi ko sandwich acha mai bana aise taana deti hai , bestie ko khana banana aana chahiye aise nonsense expectations rakhti hai .

Basically jitni bhi aurat uske baap ke Aju baju ho from anupama , kinjal to kavya sab ko khana banana aana chahiye but madam khud ko cooking nai sikhni or chahti hai sab uske or uske papà ke naukar ban kar gulami kare.

What a shameful and pathetic thought process!!!! Kash anupama ne time time par do thappad de kar maa ki respect karna kya hota hai samjaya hota.

Koi bhi maa itna humiliation and tantrums deserve nai karti jo pakhi ne kiya woh bhi so called Baap and maa ki sautan ki wajah se. Anupama ne sternly usko maa ki respect karna nai sikha kar indirectly shey diya pakhi ki ghatiya soch ko😡

Agree. Anu could have listened to the whole picture. Pakhi is already undergoing a trauma of her parents getting separated. No child would ever want that even if they are so very matured. No matter how their equation with their parents is. It will hurt deep down. And this time kavya so very smartly manipulated and acted by speaking in a soft tone in front of all and put the blame on pakhi.

Anu did right by defending pakhi and speaking the truth to vanraj and loved when she shut kavya's mouth to not interfere bw herself and her children's father.

But right then she could have listened fully but at one point she lost control and pointed out pakhi's fault I feel at the wrong time.

Anu is like always in a haste to push vanraj and kavya together infront of all family members that she is not even ready to listen to anyone's saying about kavya and her behaviour or her plans.

Jub pakhi ko yeh laga ki kavya use dance sikha degi to pakhi ko maid ka bhi khaana acha lagta tha sub khuch accha lagta tha kavya ka tub to bahut sweetly baat karti thi kavya se

Tub to pakhi ne kavya ki phir se face book pe friend request accept kar liya kyonki kavya ne uske liye birthday party rakhi aur pakhi ko mobile gift kiya

Jub kavya ne pakhi ka birthday hotel mein rakha tub pakhi ko nahin laga kavya mere birthday mein meri mummy se door karna chahti hai

But jaise hi kavya ne kaha ki woh dance nahin sikha sakti to maid ka bhi khaana bura ho gaya kavya bhi buri ho gayi woh home breaker ho gayi

Kyon jub hotel mein birthday mana rahi thi just because kavya organise birthday party for u tub kavya home breaker nahin thi

Anupama aaj yeh baat kehna chaha pakhi ko ki achanak se pakhi ko yeh shikaayat hone lagi cooking ko lekar

Apni maa ko asli baat kyon nahin batati ki kavya use dance nahin sikha rahi hai isliye woh upset hai kyonki saara, jhagda wahin se shuru hua jub kavya ne mana kar diya ki woh dance nahin sikha sakti

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Pakhi ka yahi hota hai jub baat uske favour mein nahin hoti hai to right state of mind mein nahin hoti hai

Aaj to kavya ne pakhi ko provoke kiya to islye woh right state of mind nahin thi but isse pehle kisi ne pakhi ko provoke nahin kiya tub bhi pakhi rudely behave karti hai

Aaj anupama ne sirf pakhi ko hi nahin kavya, vanraj aur pakhi teeno ko galat bola hai aur teeno ka hi favour mein bhi bola aisa nahin anupama ne koi partiality ki ho . Anupama aaj neutral ho ke baat ki aaj . Jo jahaan galat tha anupama ne usko point out kiya aur jo jahan sahi tha usko bhi point out kiya

And anupama did scold pakhi and toshu for misbehaving with her when pakhi and toshu insult anupama that u r only 12 th pass so kinjal 's mother meri aur kinjal ki shaadi nahin hone dengi to isliye aapko kinjal ki mom ke samne nahin bulaya then anupama said maa k qualification nahin dekhi jaati

And when pakhi start fighting to anupama when after accident vanraj said that he will marry kavya then pakhi start blaming anupama that because of her not for giving her husband papa ghar chodna chahte hai

Then anupama get irritated tum kya yeh bhool jaati ho ki main tumhari maa hoon. U Dont know how to talk to elder. Tub pakhi chup ho gayi but agle din phir se wohi pakhi ka naatak shuru ho gaya

Pakhi aur toshu to anupama ki baat ek kaan se sunte hain aur doosre kaan se nikal te hain

Bus dono pakhi aur toshu apni matlab ki baat sunte hain

Aaj vanraj aur kavya ne pakhi ko scold, provoke kiya to pakhi anupama ke paas aa gayi

Aur kal ko anupama pakhi ko scold karegi aur vanraj aur kavya pakhi ke favour karenge to pakhi phir se kavya aur vanraj ke paas chali jaayegi

iam not saying anupama was bias iam just saying anupama never stop pakhi when she use to misbehave with her and the thing ur highlighting anupama stop them yeh toh sab vanraj and kavya ke expose ke baad roka han iam talking about before that anupama never stop them the way she need to jab pakhi ko pata chala tha anupama usske school mein job karege tab pakhi ne kitna insult kara tha anupama ke did she stop ? no

pakhi call anupama and samar loser gang did she stop no

jab pakhi ne kavya ko apne mom bana kar school le gaye thi did she said anything to pakhi abt this no

jab toshu ne kavya ko anupama ke jaga baitha ya tha did she said anything to toshu no

jab anupama ke bina toshu ki engagment huwe thi did she said any thing to toshu NO

toshu keep blaming anupama jab shaadi nahi ho rahe thi did she say anything no

yes anupama start correcting them but iam talking about before she never stop them

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Exactly! Anupama ke hath ka slap to ussi din Pakhi ki padna chahiye tha jab Kavya ko apni mom bana kar school le kar gayi thi .

Apni mother ko humiliate and disrespect karne ka pakhi ne ek mauka nai choda tha still anupama ne kabhi sternly nai samajaya so pakhi ne same badtameezi kinjal ke sath bhi start kiya.

I was shocked when she said papa kyun khana banaye?!!!!! Kitna ghatiya soch hai teenager ka jaha mother ko naukar jaise woh treat karti hai, bhabhi ko sandwich acha mai bana aise taana deti hai , bestie ko khana banana aana chahiye aise nonsense expectations rakhti hai .

Basically jitni bhi aurat uske baap ke Aju baju ho from anupama , kinjal to kavya sab ko khana banana aana chahiye but madam khud ko cooking nai sikhni or chahti hai sab uske or uske papà ke naukar ban kar gulami kare.

What a shameful and pathetic thought process!!!! Kash anupama ne time time par do thappad de kar maa ki respect karna kya hota hai samjaya hota.

Koi bhi maa itna humiliation and tantrums deserve nai karti jo pakhi ne kiya woh bhi so called Baap and maa ki sautan ki wajah se. Anupama ne sternly usko maa ki respect karna nai sikha kar indirectly shey diya pakhi ki ghatiya soch ko😡

she never stop her the way she need too pakhi humiliate her soo badly sometime i wish anupama just raise her hand on her

Originally posted by: yuvanaa

Agree. Anu could have listened to the whole picture. Pakhi is already undergoing a trauma of her parents getting separated. No child would ever want that even if they are so very matured. No matter how their equation with their parents is. It will hurt deep down. And this time kavya so very smartly manipulated and acted by speaking in a soft tone in front of all and put the blame on pakhi.

Anu did right by defending pakhi and speaking the truth to vanraj and loved when she shut kavya's mouth to not interfere bw herself and her children's father.

But right then she could have listened fully but at one point she lost control and pointed out pakhi's fault I feel at the wrong time.

Anu is like always in a haste to push vanraj and kavya together infront of all family members that she is not even ready to listen to anyone's saying about kavya and her behaviour or her plans.

specially in kavya matter i want more sensible anupama

kavya all deserve all this respect