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Agreed , plus after her intervening nature twin doesn't liked her.
Intervening is not the issue. The issue is knowing something and blackmailing the other instead of helping them.
Agreed , plus after her intervening nature twin doesn't liked her.
Intervening is not the issue. The issue is knowing something and blackmailing the other instead of helping them.
Remember the episode when she was questioning pramod about that Adda thing... Pramod ne ek baar mei bbhap liya that she is a jasoos and wily lady and she can take advantage . That is why he said ki he will asked susheela about how to handle chachi.
Yepp! Chachi 420 hai, kahi bhi prakat hokar sawal aur bawal karti hai 🧞♀️
Even though he is scared of her chudail didi but he loves her alot 😆and that was so pure .
Puttu knows she still has his best interests at heart. I love the moment when he could not handle his chudail Didi become pari Didi in sari and heels 😆
yes i did say that & its the overall environment tbh that generates this ideology that the male child gets the priority in their house...perhaps a better way to state it is that dp prefers males doing the work wherein chachi subconsciously & consciously does the aag mei ghee dalne ka kaam here by fueling this ideology as puttu's mother ...but her husband does become meek in front of dp therefore she cant voice out properly in front of dp & does get fueled in doing this behavior by asserting her dominance & instigation by badmouthing her nieces...Originally posted by: nautankitadka
You stated to Ayu just before my comment how she is doing it because she is a woman who feels trapped due to DP, but she does show off to DP as a boy's mother and keep all of her qualms openly, unlike Kusum who has internalized the taunts and started forgetting stuff. She is also actively harassing the girls snd risking their truth, which affects Puttu too. That's why I gave an explanation. She does that to asset dominance too..
bold: ill add the reasoning behind it....they were primarily raised by parents (since vikram had his mother's support whereas pramod had both of his parents' support in terms of upbringing & they both witnessed their mothers making a logical impact behind it) who have process in the presebt era whereas dp still believes in the older norms...its the point of perception here which jai (pramod's father) pointed out correctly that they might view his principles as male ego but dp views them differently...just shows the stark difference in the upbringing
DP views is as sanskaar to have the women serve the men, men being heirs/breadwinners, girls not entering shop or HB. All are society conformed rules.He has never gone outside Rohtak or been exposed to the wider world like Dr. Chautala.
i think we have to look at the perception here tbh...there are times where she is right wherein shishupal doesnt have the courage to merely stand up against dp, whether the matter is right or wrong so in all these years, she wanted her husband to respect her just like when she said how jai put mini as his partner not as his subordinate or something like that is something she wished for...it is annoying that she doesnt consider her nieces as her own which just again got fueled by the environment they live in to spme extent.. ....its just like the scenario of how laxman went onto support his brother but there were peoplr who criticized him for leaving his wife behind even though he did make it clear that his respect for his elder brother was important to him...Originally posted by: nautankitadka
The Ruhil men are indeed problematic in not letting the women intervene or take decisions, but Chanchal knows how to get herself heard even if SP/DP/anyone tries to shut her down. She has figured that out in all the years. Why do you think she likes going to the Kittie Party and is annoyed she has to do the work since DP is home? Her motivations towards DP and SP is valid, but not Kusum & girls.
yes i did say that & its the overall environment tbh that generates this ideology that the male child gets the priority in their house...perhaps a better way to state it is that dp prefers males doing the work wherein chachi subconsciously & consciously does the aag mei ghee dalne ka kaam here by fueling this ideology as puttu's mother ...but her husband does become meek in front of dp therefore she cant voice out properly in front of dp & does get fueled in doing this behavior by asserting her dominance & instigation by badmouthing her nieces...
We are already on the same page with respect to her agitation for DP and SP dearie.. just she puts that ideology on the next gen - the girls and troubles them which is not right. There are millions of joint families where people like Chanchal are married, but they dont start disliking or badmouthing their next gen even if they have issues with the elder men. They understand the difference between both. She does not know where to stop targeting them. Pita ka badla betiyon se, that is what Jagat is also indirectly doing :]
which is why he tries to impose it onto his daughters by trying to limit their visits, even to merely HB...perhaps, he hasnt been properly exposed to the outside world unless he mightve through his boxing career & retained the ideology from his upbringing or developed this perception later...who knows tbh 🤷♀️Originally posted by: nautankitadka
DP views is as sanskaar to have the women serve the men, men being heirs/breadwinners, girls not entering shop or HB. All are society conformed rules.He has never gone outside Rohtak or been exposed to the wider world like Dr. Chautala.
i think we have to look at the perception here tbh...there are times where she is right wherein shishupal doesnt have the courage to merely stand up against dp, whether the matter is right or wrong so in all these years, she wanted her husband to respect her just like when she said how jai put mini as his partner not as his subordinate or something like that is something she wished for...it is annoying that she doesnt consider her nieces as her own which just again got fueled by the environment they live in to spme extent.. ....its just like the scenario of how laxman went onto support his brother but there were peoplr who criticized him for leaving his wife behind even though he did make it clear that his respect for his elder brother was important to him...
Point blank: There are times when Shisupal is right but does not know how to talk to her. There are times Chanchal is right but does not know how to express it in the right manner. DP has his own version of the truth that he blindly follows, whether anyone agrees or not. Noone is disagreeing with you on her agitation for circumstances, but passing down that as intergenerational dislike/hate whatever you call it is wrong is all we are saying. She does not wanna consider the girls her own, theek hai, dont go gaga over them, but dont badmouth and put them down in public either. This tendency to emotionally blackmail them or Kusum into getting her own stuff done..that is indeed not fair.
Originally posted by: nautankitadka
We are already on the same page with respect to her agitation for DP and SP dearie.. just she puts that ideology on the next gen - the girls and troubles them which is not right. There are millions of joint families where people like Chanchal are married, but they dont start disliking or badmouthing their next gen even if they have issues with the elder men. They understand the difference between both. She does not know where to stop targeting them. Pita ka badla betiyon se, that is what Jagat is also indirectly doing :]
That is the twin called her nikammi and sursa 🤣plus susheela loves her in laws family because they respect her and treat her as a daughter. Plus I feel kusum is just like mini but woh show ni kar paati.
Remember how she reacted suno hug sequence woh soch rahi thi ki she will get defame and usse lanjhan lagayenge but aisa hua nahi.
I understand she wanted respect but is this how she will get respect by humilating the twin and putting them in bad image always.
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